Ok..Me and my bf just started going out yesterday. We have liked eachother for a while but were kind of afraid to go out with eachother. Our highschool isn't exactly the most accepting school for interracial relationships. Plus, my older brother who is very protective of me isn't very accepting so I haven't told him yet. ...I do't really know what me question is just sort of looking for advice.
2007-10-27 06:55:34 · 13 answers · asked by Tati L 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm married, unfortunately not happily....I love my children with all my heart.....I'm white italian...I've dated black women, I think black women are the best in a lot of areas....the answer to your question....it's whats in the heart, not the color, if you both care for each other, nothing else should matter...you're with each other not what's around you....what's around you is always changing, people come and go...you and your spouse are with each other and that's all that should matter..your brother is being your brother.....
2007-10-29 04:14:31 · answer #1 · answered by John A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tati if you are comfortable as he is with this little difference then it should not make any difference. Providing you two respect and like each other what other's think should not even come into the equation. As for your brother you'd be wise I believe to be honest with him and ask him to be kind to your new boyfriend and give him a chance to prove his worth before he begins threatening him. Best of luck.
2007-10-27 14:02:58 · answer #2 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have always told my kids that I didnt care what race a person was,as long as they are respectful to each other. Its really sad when an interracial couple has to worry about what others think.
2007-10-27 14:06:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
As long as you're happy together, that's all that counts. As for your family, you really should tell them. If your brother is really that intolerant tell him before you introduce the boyfriend. And make sure you explain that you really like him and he treats you good. And explain that you won't tolerate any nonsense from your brother about it.
Good luck.
2007-10-27 14:14:42 · answer #4 · answered by rohak1212 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
IF YOU ARE STRADELING THE FENCE NOW! wait till pops finds out he will surely beat the Black off your *** dear YOU ARE CRUISING FOR A BRUISING it wont surprise me if your bro helps out while your down your little cuz with the lazy eye will attempt to kick you in the chest and only mess up because she see double and put yo eye out
2007-10-28 20:06:24 · answer #5 · answered by diveqwest 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you guys really like one another then just go for it and take everything in stride and deal with it as it comes!
2007-10-29 15:59:56 · answer #6 · answered by Mashell W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love has no race/color... my son (white) is married to a black girl... they have beautiful children.... some people will not like it
but... that is their problem .... go with your heart! good luck to you!
2007-10-27 14:05:17 · answer #7 · answered by AZBOY 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my mom is white and my dad is black and iasked them how they broke that barrier and they said that you should just ignore what the oher ppl say.
2007-10-27 14:17:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if hes sweet nd not a jerk u gotts show him off!
u sound cute together
race shudnt matter.
2007-10-27 14:00:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesn't matter as long as you really love each other.
go hicks from the sticks
2007-10-27 14:01:17 · answer #10 · answered by Charity S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋