So theres this teacher. He's really cool. But i think hes a little creepy. I think he likes me a little at least. I dont know if he likes ME specifically more or if he just like us girls. Heres my solo evidence-
*Rubs my Back
*Massages my neck when talking'
*Calls me "Jordin Jordin"
*Gets down close when helping me
*Tells me to come in for extra help- when hes like "worried about my grade"
*Talks to me in the halls
*Says hi to me more than anyone else when coming into class
My all-girl evidence-
- Puts arm around others
-Flips girl's ponytails
- He was looking at my friends jeans and stroaked the meterial but also her leg
ETC.....
me or all-girls!??! HELP!
2007-10-27 07:24:52 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
THIS TEACHER HAS KIDS AND A WIFE.
2007-10-27 07:25:12 · update #1
Hi,
Firstly I don't know how old you are but frankly this is abnormal behaviour for a teacher to display. Even at university level its an abuse of power as he is in a position of authority. If you are under 16 (or even at uni stage) please report this behaviour. Maybe to the head of the department if you don't want to go down the Head route. Also, try and talk to the girls who feel uncomfortable with his attitude, maybe a group of you can speak to the supervisor/head/school counsellor. Also, imho a married or attached man should NOT be acting in this way to other females AT ALL.
Please stay safe.
All the best.
2007-10-27 07:34:32 · answer #1 · answered by Strawberry 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Time to report the guy.
Seriously, he's behaving inappropriately towards his students. The occassional hand on a shoulder, or pat on the back is fine. But rubbing, and massaging, that's just wrong. Flipping girls pony tails is potentially a creepy thing too.
Sounds to me like he likes young girls. You are possibly his current favorite, and that's not a good thing.
2007-10-27 14:34:50 · answer #2 · answered by rohak1212 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to say, but as a parent myself, I have a huge problem with him ever touching any girl. a teacher shouldn't touch a student. Ponytail flipping, that's borderline, but touchig back, jeans, absolutely not, that's unexceptable. Its a tough thing cause you don't want to accuse an innocent person, but if you are uncomfortable then something needs to be addressed, you shouldn't feel that way. Ask him not to touch your back please it makes you feel uncomfortable, it may be akward, but if he is a good teacher, he will understand. If it gets worse, or you don't want to say anything to him directly, go to the school counselor, and say look, I'm not accusing him of anything, I just feel uncomfortable with this, (tell them about the back rubbing,) and wondered if maybe you could ask him not to do that, and please don't say my name. Maybe discribe to the sonselor exactly what you have asked on here and tell her that you are confused and don't want to get him introuble but you don't want to be uncomfortable. don't exagerate, but don't under tell either. Be honest they will know what to do, he may just need to be talked to, or he may be a perv. You don't wporry about his home life, you focus on you and what you are feeling. Let the schoold and him deal with that. K
2007-10-27 14:37:10 · answer #3 · answered by Maalru3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have asked this question a lot, obviously you know the answer. You need to talk to another teacher about what he is doing and that you feel uncomfortable. The adult will take care of the rest.
2007-10-27 14:29:55 · answer #4 · answered by paganmom 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That teacher has problems! Talk to your parents or the principle about it. He might want to rape one of you so don't be in a room with him all by yourself ever again, bring some friends along. If you don't do anything, you will find yourself behind his desk being sexed on after/before school!
2007-10-27 14:42:26 · answer #5 · answered by daddy_kint_23 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's definitely violating the rules of a teacher-student relationship. He would should be disciplined. In any case, you should definitely avoid that physical contact with him.
It's worth reporting to the school, even if his intentions are not necessarily bad.
2007-10-27 14:31:26 · answer #6 · answered by thenextvinnie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell another teacher or better yet, the principal.
Have you read any stories about teachers molesting/raping their students? This is serious stuff, it's not something you should take lightly.
And that's disgusting that he's interested in children.
Tell someone.
2007-10-27 14:29:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok Hun,
I'm in 7th grade and this behavior is TOTALLY inappropriate!He should not be touching you girls in any way if this happens EVEN ONE MORE TIME tell someone...Parents,Guidance counseler.You have to tell somebody about this girl!
With happiness and satisfaction of answereing your ?,
Sydney the Great answer QUEEN!
2007-10-27 14:31:16 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Syd♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
eeewww i would be careful i had a sick teach them molested a girl and they hired him back after 5 yrs i had him for my class he would always knock down my pencils and make me pick them up so he could look down my shirt he did this to all the girls hes a creep
2007-10-27 14:30:56 · answer #9 · answered by Brittany J 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
have u told anyone about this? if u feel uncomfortable about him doing this u need to tell him. i think from what u said i think he probably does like u but I'm not sure.
2007-10-27 14:34:54 · answer #10 · answered by CinderAngel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋