I was dating. Then the love of my life moved in. I broke it off with the first guy. However, I felt something with him I didn't expect to and started seeing him again. The guy I was living with kept pushing me to decide. I loved them both (good qualities in each). I didn't decide, so after 5 months of this guy 2 decided to shack up with someone else. Did he do the right thing by choosing for me? Will I ever get over him? Will we find our way back to each other someday(either as friends or lovers)?
They both knew about each other. I never hid anything I was doing. Guy 1 was understanding and gave me the needed space. Guy 2 hid everything including the fact that he was gonna leave me.
2007-10-27 07:01:57 · 3 answers · asked by hljones1169 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think I broke his heart. He had a chance to be my only one when he was with me before and he left that time too. (scared to commit)
2007-10-27 07:14:06 · update #1
I think you'd better stick with guy 1 (the love of your life) He was patient and understanding while the other one couldn't wait enough for you and just went and had it somewhere else.
Yes, he made the right choice.
2007-10-27 07:07:09 · answer #1 · answered by Peprina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You kept this guy on the line and two timed him, and you're wondering if HE did right?
You treated him like crap. And when he asked for a commitment you waffled and kept seeing another guy. After a really long time he got sick of it and moved on. He did what he had to. And don't say he was hiding anything about leaving when he was asking you to make a decision. That means he wants your decision, or he's going to leave.
I hope you and guy one are happy together, because you broke number two's heart and I doubt he'll be back.
2007-10-27 14:11:24 · answer #2 · answered by rohak1212 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guy 2 prob knew that if you knew he was gonna leave, you would be sad and wouldnt be able to get over him. i think he did the rigth choice....
2007-10-27 14:05:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋