Family & Relationships - 27 October 2007

Getting straight to the point, my boobs are not even an A cup and I can barely get bras that fit. It plagues me every day! I know personality is more important, and I've been told that I'm really pretty, but it kinda scares me...! Because I'm in my late teens now and I've just got a boyfriend and I know that if in a while I want to do stuff with him, I'll be too embarrassed because my boobs are non-existent! I wear padded bras so they look like they're about a B, which is why I'm even more worried - when (and I'm not ready yet but still) I get naked in front of a guy aren't they gonna be like "where did the boobs go?!"?!?! I know some guys like small boobs but mine are REAL small as in literally barely there....... does anyone else have this problem and what do you feel like when you're with a guy?? And if you're a guy, how do you feel about this?!

2007-10-27 10:34:44 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a freshman in a college in NYC. I have also joined a sorority and am going out with this guy in a fraternity. I am sooo depressed. I haven't seen my family in over a month. I feel dissappointed in myself because I lost my virginity the other night..something i can never take back..my grades are at a lost, i have been missing a lot of classes from partying. i am going to a party after a party. i feel like i wont fit in if i dont go out. my boyfriend and i keep fighting. he is a really good guy with a great heart but he is really clingy. he says he feels like a ***** because he cares, he cares that i never call him, that i have fun with other guys when he wants to be with me..etc the little things. He sleeps over every night. I dont have my alone time ever. i feel rushed but he wants to be with me. i cant stop crying...my parents have no idea about all this. i am such a disappointment! what do i do? please help me.

2007-10-27 10:34:22 · 2 answers · asked by Don't Give Up On Me 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i'm 50 and have been divorced for 11 years . i just want a nice guy to travel with and love where are they?

2007-10-27 10:34:07 · 4 answers · asked by elliepenelly 3 in Singles & Dating

I've been married now for seven years and really do appreciate my marriage for all that it's worth.....the ups and the downs. What makes a married man more attractive than a non married man? It seems as though once I was firmly in place in my marriage, the women started flirting and hitting on me more than when I wasn't married.

2007-10-27 10:32:49 · 11 answers · asked by chp101675 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Let me give ya a little history! We've been together about 7 months (not a long long time, I know), but he's basically living with me anyway. I trust him 100%. He's responsible as am I. He's graduating college in Dec, and I'm starting a nursing degree in Jan.
I told him earlier in the relationship that I would never live with another bf again(tried it once, absolutely didn't work out.) I don't fore-see any drama or strains on our relationship if we were to move in. He isn't pressuring me, but he's talking about getting his own place cuz we simply don't have enough room here. (He's 22 and lived at home before we met) I can't bare the thought of him moving as we have ridiculous schedules and we hardly see each other as it is.
We're talking about our futures and I really see myself marrying him one day....pref sooner than later (I'm 25 and would like kids before 30 hits, but if I have to wait I will).
Sooo, long story short--in the long run, would it be wise to move inor not?

2007-10-27 10:25:55 · 28 answers · asked by belle 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-27 10:24:16 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met this guy the other night, and I fell really hard for him. I really, REALLY like this guy, but I am afraid that I will scare him off (like I always seem to do with guys.) I don't know all the "rules" of dating, and I don't know where to go from here. We exchanged email addresses, and I don't know how long to wait before I email him. He is friends with a couple of my other friends, and they said that he is the most shy person they've ever met, meaning he will never make the first move...and they said he probably has never had a serious girlfriend. I know I have to be careful about the way I approach this, I just don't know how to do it. Can anyone help me? I really like him, and I want to do it the right way this time. Every other time I go for a guy, I always seem to scare them off, and I don't want to do that this time. I am ready to let someone into my life, and I want it to be fun...I don't want it to feel like I have "work at it" to get it starte, but I may have to. HELP!!

2007-10-27 10:18:10 · 1 answers · asked by oceanstruck 1 in Singles & Dating

I really like my boyfriend. He is much better looking and better in other ways than my husband. But my boyfriend has very little money and my husband is very rich. How do I tell him that there is no way I'm going to throw all that money away just because he's so good in bed?

2007-10-27 10:09:53 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Hello, Me and my ex girlfriend split up and have 2 kids together we are trying to avoid the court thing so we came out with our own way of sharing the kids BUT her friends say she is planning on moving out of state and I don't know if she will take the kids or not. she keeps telling me she don't know if she will take them or not but if she does behind my back without me knowing can I do anything about it?

2007-10-27 10:09:43 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-27 10:08:07 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I love this cute guy but I get so shy around him.....what do I do?? How do I talk to him?? I get so nervous then I say stupid stuff!!!!

2007-10-27 10:05:06 · 11 answers · asked by seahorsesrkool 1 in Singles & Dating

and shes like 10,000 miles away from me and i cant be there but shes scared what can i say to make her feel better shes very scared i need to make her feel better

2007-10-27 10:00:37 · 18 answers · asked by reba 1 in Friends

2007-10-27 10:00:19 · 20 answers · asked by MJ 6 in Singles & Dating

someone plz help
i reallly reallly love him
his names matthew
hes 14
and hes scene
im
brandie
im 13
and im emo
and i love him plz help me
i talk to him but not as much as i should becuz i get nervous
and he knows i like him
what should i do?

2007-10-27 09:59:22 · 27 answers · asked by @brandieenicolee 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay there is this guy. We went out for about a month and a half. Okay so he breaks up with me saying that he likes me alot but just needs some "time". Okay well now it's been around 2 months since he broke up with me, I've relized that I like him ALOT! Lately he has been looking at me in the hallways ( like in a good way ) and sorta kinda flirting with me. Should i give him a call? Or just let it go?

2007-10-27 09:57:15 · 6 answers · asked by shopping980 3 in Singles & Dating

A. Same height or taller
B. At least 2 inches taller
C. At least 5 inches taller
D. There has to be a BIG difference
E. Height doesnt matter at all

or combinations of two, like B and E

2007-10-27 09:55:49 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My long-distance boyfriend and I are are temporarily separated due to his job assignment in California. I havent seen him in 4 months. We used to talk several times every day. The past couple of weeks he has been very quiet, barely calling me. He suffers from depression and sometimes isolates himself but always calls me after a few days. I became really emotional a week ago and left him a voicemail saying I didnt know how he felt about me anymore and that I wanted to move on unless he could be straightforward with me and tell me what he really wants. The next day I felt bad for being rude so I left him another voicemail explaining I was sorry, just that I am emotional and depressed myself in that I miss him so much and havent seen him for so long. It has been over a week and he has not responded to me at all.

I love him so much that it hurts to think of him never speaking to me again. How much time should I let pass before giving up all hope he will call me?

2007-10-27 09:50:22 · 7 answers · asked by Sad Girl 1 in Singles & Dating

they had an ugly break up and had a child , and she keep insulting us by email to him and text specially insulting me. I don't want to make trouble for him to see his child but i'm get sick of it.

2007-10-27 09:47:23 · 5 answers · asked by dressmakingstudent 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I Have Been Dating This Guy For 1 year now and we had sex last night for the first time..(together) we both werent virgins or anything...after we were done...i started to regret it..i really love him and we are getting married in 1 year but..i just kinda wanted to wait until we were married for this to happen..and its the same feeling i was having when i first lost my virginity..is it bad that im regretting what happened last night??
Should I Tell Him Or Just Keep It To Myself??

2007-10-27 09:40:55 · 2 answers · asked by Rae Rae 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-27 09:38:57 · 6 answers · asked by babyplease 1 in Family

I have been living with my dad and his wife in a house for a few years now me and my dad dont have the best relationship we argue alot he never understands nuthin even when I break stuff down to him I dont like his wife she has a negative influence on him and shes fake she smiles in your face and talks behind your back I know I need to leave here soon I didnt graduate high school and was thinking of pursing getting a ged or possibly a diploma I was wondering if you think I should get on my own feet first or stay here and try to finish that first? I know I should probly leave soon as I can I currently dont have a job so I know it will take sometime please give me input and advice about my situation

2007-10-27 09:38:34 · 1 answers · asked by WCR526 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

this is what is going on. i'm going out with keith, but i want to go out with brett. but i think that i will hurt keith too bad and like yeah i don't no???!!!???!???! but i no that brett likes me a lot too. soooo i'm confused. keith is very cool, you no like has a lot of friends gets a lot a girlfriends too. its very cute too, but brett has him beat. brett has wwwwwwaaaaaaaayyyyyyyy more friends and evertime a girlfriend doesn't last he gets a new one like almost instantly. just cause a lot of people like him. but 4 once they r not friends like at all. what should i do?

2007-10-27 09:37:35 · 3 answers · asked by sam!!!! 4 in Singles & Dating

I hurt my mothers feelings out of anger, things i did not mean to say, I want to apologize to her, do you have any advise on how I can do that

2007-10-27 09:35:56 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

ok, here's the story. I'm your average 16 year old girl. Just have a problem...boys. What teenager doesn't? I liked this one guy for 5 months, but he liked his ex girlfriend. I understood that. I didn't give up on him tho, much as I wanted to, && to my fortune, he asked me out about 2 weeks ago. Things were going PERFECTLY. I honestly have never been happier. && He seemed to feel the same. We hung out last night, && I was having fun, && it seemed like he was to. When I woke up, I talked to him for like...20 minutes on AIM before he went brb && like 10 minutes later, he signed off && I had a message on myspace (read additional details in a minute to read the message. You have to read to understand question.) He broke up with me. Now, what I want to know is why he did it, && what you guys think...I'm seriouslly confused right now, bc I apparenty just wasted 5 months on a guy....like i said Typical Teenage Girl Problems. Read Additional Details Please.

2007-10-27 09:35:10 · 15 answers · asked by Adelina 1 in Singles & Dating

I am having problems with my boyfriend. I get really horny when im with him and so things generally lead on to us wanting to have sex. But that is the problem...i can't seem to open up for him. I think i must be really tight and i don't know what to do to change that...he tried...he really did but it caused me so much pain we had to stop. Please help and tell me what i can do?

2007-10-27 09:34:12 · 8 answers · asked by no name 3 in Singles & Dating

How could i dress up as Bonnie and Clyde tonight???

2007-10-27 09:30:53 · 1 answers · asked by Lux 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-10-27 09:27:54 · 6 answers · asked by Jeanette50 1 in Marriage & Divorce

what do you look at first in a girl? and what can girls do to change your mind on how you feel?

2007-10-27 09:27:05 · 6 answers · asked by lizzy 2 in Singles & Dating

just wondering how many people knows about this!
i know for a fact its not used very much anymore!

2007-10-27 09:25:20 · 8 answers · asked by AMAZING 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

She grew up in China. All-girls-school.
Never had a boyfriend and she's shy.

I have only her MSN for the next month...

2007-10-27 09:23:06 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating