I am in COLLEGE. SO DEPRESSED! Please help me?

Question

I am a freshman in a college in NYC. I have also joined a sorority and am going out with this guy in a fraternity. I am sooo depressed. I haven't seen my family in over a month. I feel dissappointed in myself because I lost my virginity the other night..something i can never take back..my grades are at a lost, i have been missing a lot of classes from partying. i am going to a party after a party. i feel like i wont fit in if i dont go out. my boyfriend and i keep fighting. he is a really good guy with a great heart but he is really clingy. he says he feels like a ***** because he cares, he cares that i never call him, that i have fun with other guys when he wants to be with me..etc the little things. He sleeps over every night. I dont have my alone time ever. i feel rushed but he wants to be with me. i cant stop crying...my parents have no idea about all this. i am such a disappointment! what do i do? please help me.

Answer 1

WOW FEEL BAD FOR YOU....YOU HAVE GOT TO MAKE BETTER CHOICES AND TAKE CONTROL OF YOUR LIFE. YOUR EDUCATION MUST BE A PRIORITY. STOP THE PARTYING.....BAD THINGS HAPPEN.

FOCAS ON YOUR EDUCATION AND WHATS REALLY IMPORTANT TO YOU....HOPEFULLY YOU LOST YOUR VIRGINITY TO YOUR BOYFRIEND AND NOT AT SOME PARTY. FOCUS FOCUS FOCUS

Answer 2

You should relax, and figure yourself out.

You WILL, not listen to me and just flow thru it because your basically a co-dependent, you hate yourself, and you know that feeling of disappointment? That's because you failed yourself. And on a level YOU KNOW THAT!!!!!

You could realize those people you party with are not worth your effort because in all actuality all your looking for is someone to understand you, not people you understand. And your not going to find that thru them. Really this is pretty complicated and its real easy for me to brow-beat you because I see your answers, problem is you don't...... if you'd LIKE to listen, e-mail me, I got plenty more to say, if not in reality all you were looking for was support for your ignorance, your not getting that from me...... o yea, the clingy boyfriend, such is immaturity, he doesn't know HOW to love you, but hey he does love you! Were that's going to take you without a purpose outside of that, well that's anyones guess, I'd suggest if anything, don't get pregnant.....