Okay there is this guy. We went out for about a month and a half. Okay so he breaks up with me saying that he likes me alot but just needs some "time". Okay well now it's been around 2 months since he broke up with me, I've relized that I like him ALOT! Lately he has been looking at me in the hallways ( like in a good way ) and sorta kinda flirting with me. Should i give him a call? Or just let it go?
2007-10-27 09:57:15 · 6 answers · asked by shopping980 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
And NO! i am NOT the kind of person who likes flirting and wanting what i cant have. It's just i LOVED being with him and he broke up with me because he had things going on ( that i cannot mention ) so now that he is flirting again does that mean he has goten over his problems?
2007-10-27 10:53:05 · update #1
That guy has confused me. Leave him & find someone with clear thinking.
You have to be clear in these things. Either you're with someone or you're not.
All the best
2007-10-27 10:02:11 · answer #1 · answered by The Great Montitude 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why do you like him more now than when you were together? Has anything really changed?
He didn't need "time", that was just a excuse for ending a relationship that wasn't working. If anything, he broke up with you because he could tell you weren't into him. And now that you're not together, you decide you like him.
People want what they can't have.
You like flirting with him and longing for him, but when you're with him, you don't like him as much.
So don't try to get back with him.
EDIT:
Things going on? Still just an excuse. If he wanted to be with you he would be. Move on.
2007-10-27 17:22:20 · answer #2 · answered by Andrew B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont call him and dont say anything about it for a little while, but flirt back with him, and give itlike a week or two and see if he says anything about you two being togehter... if he doesnt but is still acting like he does and flirting with you then bring it up and tell him how you noticed his change in behavior.
2007-10-27 17:02:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He'll be a bit embarrased to go up to you now he broke up with you so you'll have to go up to him, i'd leave it for a couple of weeks though, just to be sure he's ready.
2007-10-27 17:02:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He said he needs some time right?
So let it be that way =] ~~~~~<3
And someday he may get back to youuu~
2007-10-27 17:03:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't call him, you don't want to seem eager and easy. Let it go and find someone else.
2007-10-27 17:07:39 · answer #6 · answered by kim_in_craig 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋