I love this cute guy but I get so shy around him.....what do I do?? How do I talk to him?? I get so nervous then I say stupid stuff!!!!
2007-10-27 10:05:06 · 11 answers · asked by seahorsesrkool 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That nervous feeling probably wont go away for a while. You say you love him, Right? Using such a strong word, you should consider letting him know, and spending more time with him so that you're not so nervous.
2007-10-27 10:10:21 · answer #1 · answered by silent16 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get him talking. Ask him a question about a topic you know he knows a lot about. Like sports, for example. Ask him if he follows a certain sports team and if he caught the last game, then let him talk. When he's done (make sure you listen to what he's saying so you can repeat it later) say something like, "Oh, so you're a (insert the name of a sports star here) fan. Yeah, I think he/she is pretty cool too. You know, we should go to game together sometime." If he doesn't like sports try using music, literature or art as a springboard. However, whatever topic you choose make sure it's something you both have in common. That's key, because you don't want to come off fake. Anyway, the idea here is to get him talking, it'll help calm your nerves so you can plan what to say next. Plus, it'll give you a chance to find out if he's really worth your time. Good Luck!
2007-10-29 14:39:21 · answer #2 · answered by MG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What I would is just go up and talk to him no matter how shy I get.Thats all you have to do.You could try complimenting him and then try starting a convo with him.
2007-10-27 10:11:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm the same exact way! i just talk to him, or ask a question like, r u going to the fair this weekend or something like that. try practicing how u look in the mirror and pretend ur talking to him. so he wont think that you look crazy or something while your in front him. hope this works. c-ya
2007-10-27 10:10:40 · answer #4 · answered by Nonpoint girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to him as if he were a one of your guy friends.
Just keep it real and if that doesn't work then this guy is not the one for you
2007-10-27 10:09:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him with your friends this way you can have support.guys can tell if your nervous usually so be confident.
2007-10-27 10:08:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
so do i but i would rather him not know who i am.he's a year older than me & in a differant grade.
but you could try writing something you wanna say to him down then practice saying it.
2007-10-27 10:10:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to him already, even if it's silly. That's better than just wishing you'd talk to him.
2007-10-27 10:08:21 · answer #8 · answered by MarsBar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him out
2007-10-27 10:07:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
ask him out!
2007-10-27 10:09:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋