I am having problems with my boyfriend. I get really horny when im with him and so things generally lead on to us wanting to have sex. But that is the problem...i can't seem to open up for him. I think i must be really tight and i don't know what to do to change that...he tried...he really did but it caused me so much pain we had to stop. Please help and tell me what i can do?
2007-10-27 09:34:12 · 8 answers · asked by no name 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Pumkin, I think you need to see a therapist! I think you might have some problem in that past that prevents you from "open" to him. If you really love this cat and are "horny" for him, then the bottom of you should be like the hoover dam!
2007-10-27 09:38:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
God is trying to tell you that you shouldn't have sex before you get married. So, stop trying or get married first and watch what happens. Although you shouldn't get married just because you want to have sex, there must be other very important factors that are needed to make the fireworks go off.
2007-10-27 16:42:59 · answer #2 · answered by JesusLuvr21 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry. If your boyfriend is the right guy he will wait until you're ready. Don't pressure yourself. When you're ready you will know for sure. Before you're ready, just talk 2 him about it you will feel better. If it hurts, i'm not sure i'm the right person to answer you. I am bad with pain too. Maybe talk to your doctor or something.
2007-10-27 16:42:26 · answer #3 · answered by arielle s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont try to have sex and your probably just 16 or something wait till your married you could get pregant don't throw your life away for a guy you guys can kiss and stuff but if it gets to the point where you guys want it just control yourself if he forces you to have it with him hes not that one he will understand if he really cares about you
2007-10-27 16:41:03 · answer #4 · answered by j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing unusual there....Its one of those...your brain is telling you your ready....but your body and your heart are telling you your really not.
Why dont you wait until your a little older....he's working a regular job....and your out of school...so in case you make a baby...you two can take care of it properly.
2007-10-27 16:39:19 · answer #5 · answered by werk2much2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not even for real! Are you seriously that desperate for sexual conversation DUDE?
2007-10-27 16:41:12 · answer #6 · answered by radman2035 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask a doctor
2007-10-27 16:38:28 · answer #7 · answered by Dan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try some ky and lube up
2007-10-27 16:37:55 · answer #8 · answered by Backhoe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋