She grew up in China. All-girls-school.
Never had a boyfriend and she's shy.
I have only her MSN for the next month...
2007-10-27 09:23:06 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, if you like her, why not?
Be careful, though, because due to the cultural difference (that I guess you have) you may show disrespect by mistake....
2007-10-27 09:27:12 · answer #1 · answered by Eliza D 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Approach her? How? On MSN?
Ummm....I'm not sure what the deal is with the young people today but this "cyber" dating stuff isn't dating.
I mean I know a family member that will go into a chat room and start up a conversation with a girl and if she adds him n vice versa and they chat again.....he calls her his GF.
WTF? They've never met in person and somehow they're dating?
I guess I'm too old to understand it but you can not actually "date" someone or be their "bf/gf" if you've never actually met in person.
A month of MSN chatting does not a relationship make.
Other than that, just be yourself....hopefully you're not an idiot and everything will be fine. If your chat goes well over that timeframe, maybe then, you guys can figure out a way to actually meet.
2007-10-27 09:30:21 · answer #2 · answered by George W. B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be extremely patient and kind. Direct may not be the best approach. Just offer her friendship and be prepared that that may be all she wants. But if there is something there, she'll appreciate the fact that you respect her personality and her shyness, and will let you in. Push only enough to maintain contact (but not too much more). Good luck!
2007-10-27 09:28:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
5'5" is not a bad height in India. I think you should not worry about your height. Go straight to a girl, look into her eyes and start talking confidently, smoothly, and with a slight sense of humour. They will admire you. For a woman, it is the way a man presents and behaves to her that matters. Not the height. Treat her with care and respect.She will reciprocate in a positive way.
2016-04-10 21:50:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her nicely if she would like to go out on a date with you. Take her to some nice coffee place, talk with her, take her for a walk and than drive her home (Not your place, her place, DO NOT TRY ANYTHING). Don't even kiss her for a good night. Be a gentleman! Call her next day and ask her if she had a good time.
2007-10-27 09:31:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you ought to study the Chinese language until you are fluent at speaking, reading and writing. Be sure and practice several different dialects so you will feel comfortable talking to her. Then after introducing yourself ask her if it is true that Chinese women`s vulva runs sideways instead of up and down. After that just kind of see how things go.
2007-10-27 09:58:17 · answer #6 · answered by Mr. Un-couth 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her if she wants to go out to dinner some time after the month is over
2007-10-27 09:27:04 · answer #7 · answered by mr fugi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's 19 - but how old are you? 10 or 20? You don't give your age.
2007-10-27 10:02:51 · answer #8 · answered by D 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ignore the first answer saying shes 'gay' thats pretty rude. Id get to know her more and tell how it is like in america ( unless you live in china ? )
2007-10-27 09:26:51 · answer #9 · answered by Mico T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
approach her as you would approach her if she were your friend. Girls like guys that arent cocky. When you get a chance to talk to her do it, but try not to always be the one to initiate the conversations. She may think your clingy.
2007-10-27 09:29:42 · answer #10 · answered by keyo10 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋