Getting straight to the point, my boobs are not even an A cup and I can barely get bras that fit. It plagues me every day! I know personality is more important, and I've been told that I'm really pretty, but it kinda scares me...! Because I'm in my late teens now and I've just got a boyfriend and I know that if in a while I want to do stuff with him, I'll be too embarrassed because my boobs are non-existent! I wear padded bras so they look like they're about a B, which is why I'm even more worried - when (and I'm not ready yet but still) I get naked in front of a guy aren't they gonna be like "where did the boobs go?!"?!?! I know some guys like small boobs but mine are REAL small as in literally barely there....... does anyone else have this problem and what do you feel like when you're with a guy?? And if you're a guy, how do you feel about this?!
2007-10-27 10:34:44 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
One guys perspective . . . when you look at an attractive guy what do you look for? Its the same with guys . . . the first thing that attracts me is a smile, yes a pretty face is nice too, her attitude and personality. Physical attributes are secondary to me.
I find a sense of humor and someone with a positive attitude about people and things attractive too . . .
Boobs . . . guys love them, but trust me if he's the right guy he will love you for your heart and head not the size of your bra . . .
2007-10-27 10:43:01 · answer #1 · answered by Tim H 5 · 4⤊ 1⤋
OK I have answered many of these questions but here goes one more time. You are probably thin, most of breast tissue is FAT. When I was young I was maybe 106 and 5'2" soaking wet and was a 24A cup on a good day. Now I am 136 and wear a 36C. A few years and a few pounds later!
Your body does not mature until around 25 or 30 and as you develop so will your breasts.
Just think all those larger sisters will have saggy boobs in their late 30's, mine are still pretty good!
Rejoice in the petite beautiful girl you are.
Also, are the other women in your family small busted? This has allot to do with it as well. Enjoy your body.
2007-10-27 10:42:01 · answer #2 · answered by luteachris 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are doing your self more harm than worrying about the size of your boobs. If this boyfriend you have is the real deal in treating you right and there are no complaints except were we are all human comes to play in not being perfect.
How can you carry out a good relationship with your boyfriend and not be preoccupied with your boobs. If this guy really loves you the size of your boobs will be less important as you mention of being pretty and like you said personality is important as well.
2007-10-27 10:44:52 · answer #3 · answered by Premio 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Long, long ago I was with a girl who was not overly endowed. I didn't give a damn. She didn't think about it often, but she thought about it more than I did (to clarify: yes, I thought about her boobs plenty, but I never thought about the SIZE of them). I mentioned three things to her in hopes that she'd feel better:
1. She would never suffer large-boob related back pain in her entire life.
2. She could get away without wearing a bra (and sometimes she dressed in clothes where this was quite appropriate), and this sort of thing is quite hot to many guys. (Not wear one and still look smoking; many larger girls cannot, or it simply isn't practical.)
3. When a guy is up close and personal to your anatomy, size really doesn't matter. (And any guy who, at this point, does think it important, probably doesn't merit access to anywhere else.)
Think well of your figure's nature. I realize this sounds shallow and ridiculously simplistic, but you're a lot more than a couple of (admittedly entertaining) glands, and anyone you're with should recognize this.
2007-10-27 10:50:57 · answer #4 · answered by Chipmaker Authentic 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
lol!! I know 4 guys who like small boobs. Like.. seriously. They get all disgusted when they see C cup breasts and stuff. It cracks me up^^.
ANYWAYS. You have a boyfriend.. so... I wouldn't worry so much about it. You found someone who likes everything about you. He's pretty much accepted you. I'm sure he has HIS OWN insecurities, and his own flaws. But it's not like you really care because..... you love him!!!
I think, when the TIME IS RIGHT, you won't really care. I've seen it happen!!!!
As for the boobs thing.......how can you feel ugly with small boobs? Look at Keira Knightly!!!! She has small boobs, but she's SOOOO gorgous. They had to use technology to make her boobs look bigger in picture for that Pirates Of The Carribean movie.
=)
It goes to show,....boobs aren't everything. THEY DON'T MAKE YOU FEMININE. ^_^
2007-10-27 10:40:18 · answer #5 · answered by ^^PaperHeart^^ 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why are you embarrassed about something that you had no control over? We all have to deal with the hands we are dealt. Don't stress over something as petty as this. There is a lot more to you than just your "boobs". I am sure of it. When I am seriously interested in a woman, I am not trying to get in her pants. I am trying to get in her head. Mature guys want to know their women from the inside out. Anything less you should stay away from.
2007-10-27 10:40:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Late teens? Don't worry about it. I am going to guess your a tall girl as well. It takes longer for some to show up than others and your probably just a late bloomer.
It really doesn't matter to a lot of guys. Sure they might talk about them but really if a girl is actually paying attention to them they will be happy.
2007-10-27 10:45:11 · answer #7 · answered by JFra472449 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem. If the guy really loves you, then he shouldn't care about the size of your breasts. Until that day, if you want to, just continue to wear padded or push-up bras, and if you are really adventurous, try a water bra.
2007-10-27 10:38:19 · answer #8 · answered by mamaB 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
in the same way men worry about the size of their manhood, it seems women worry about their chest size
it is difficult not to, lol, i should know, but real relationships start with personality first, and the physical aspect becomes loving the person, not their body
you dont sound like someone who is just after sex sex and more sex, so dont fret
2007-10-27 10:49:28 · answer #9 · answered by jon h 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well, your boobs will grow, and stop growing till you're 20, otherwise be patience, and if the guy who definitely loves you, wouldn't, or shouldn't give a damn if your breast are small, and there are guys out there who actually likes a girl with small breast, love yourself . good luck
2007-10-27 10:39:40 · answer #10 · answered by jenny 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋