I've been married now for seven years and really do appreciate my marriage for all that it's worth.....the ups and the downs. What makes a married man more attractive than a non married man? It seems as though once I was firmly in place in my marriage, the women started flirting and hitting on me more than when I wasn't married.
2007-10-27 10:32:49 · 11 answers · asked by chp101675 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The fact that you are taken. If someone liked you enough to marry you, you must be worth something. Women (and men) want what they cannot have. It is human nature.
2007-10-27 10:36:52 · answer #1 · answered by trillian880 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
well, you're off the market, so that offers a challenge to some women because single men aren't much of a challenge.
-some just want to see if they can turn your head and heart...it's a game.
-you've made the ultimate commitment, a very attractive quality in men (whether they're physically attractive or not).
-you may be considered "safe" because you can't make any demands, and you can't really control the "affair" situation.
-some women just don't mind sharing a man, even if he's married.
2007-10-27 17:49:30 · answer #2 · answered by loving 40+ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some people want what they can't have.
It is a thrill to them, living on the edge of getting caught.
Perhaps they feel better about themselves, thinking they have what it takes to get a man/woman to stray on to the side.
I don't think any woman/man that flirts with intentions, with a married person is worth it, imo.
2007-10-27 17:51:43 · answer #3 · answered by Kelly C 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i only know two woman that flirt with married men and she is someone that pays and wants attention from any man (very annoying), me and my friends do not find a taken guy attractive not are we tempted to flirt with them. the funny thing is, that guys are even flattered if women flirt with them even if they are married, because the women that do so, are nothing but trash.
2007-10-27 18:16:49 · answer #4 · answered by not this way 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because, the home wreckers are abound when there is something that they can`t have. They`ll ruin you and your marriage, then move on to the next fool. So don`t be a fool and stay home unless you want to ruin your life.
2007-10-27 17:40:20 · answer #5 · answered by I tell it like it is 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
these women probably saw what you have and think that they can out smart you and get it. ignore them-remember 1/2 of what you have will go bye bye. there are so many skanky gold diggers out thee it makes it ruff for a nice woman and remember a nice woman doesn't want a married man.
2007-10-27 17:46:44 · answer #6 · answered by elliepenelly 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They look at you as a piece of meat and think i can have it and not care in the morning. The no strings attached policy. Send him and all his problems back home to his wife. But as others have said usually we want what we can not have. And it alwys looks better to us once someone else has it.
2007-10-27 17:39:50 · answer #7 · answered by Precious1 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It's the fact that your taken and "off limits". These women who are flirting and hitting on you, are doing so because they are feeling that desire for something they can't have.
2007-10-27 17:38:51 · answer #8 · answered by Bryan M 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
They are taken and not in it for the long haul just the quickie or the excitement of the chase.
2007-10-27 17:45:21 · answer #9 · answered by xyz 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
' forbidden fruit' is always more tempting...
2007-10-27 18:00:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋