My boyfriend has shown signs of cheating with his baby mama. He tells me that there isn't nothing going on between the two of them but she is always texting his phone begging him to come back and how much she loves him. Keep in mind that they haven't been together for about three years and she's still trying trying to be with him. He used to go over to see their son late at night and one time he spent the night over her house because their son had to have surgery. I've had to call her phone to let her know that he has a girlfriend because it was obvious that he wasn't going to tell her. He stated to me that nothing was going on and he never loved her. Someone help me please.
2007-10-27 06:43:32 · 5 answers · asked by yungcoltrane 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well a very fishy situation i must say. Go ahead and talk to you boy friend about it. Try to evaluate what is he says and then try to match with what you know. If you find anything which is suspicious, then tell him that you have doubt, eighter you clear the situation or lets get apart.
you have to be a strong heart girls as most of the times situtations turn around and you came to know when things go beyond your hands.
best of luck
2007-10-27 06:51:47 · answer #1 · answered by tum_bin_never 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, if he's spending a lot of time over there and is not telling her he's involved it's a bad sign. And going to see the kid late at night, when he should be sleeping? I'm sorry this all seems a bit fishy to me.
I think it's time for you to lay down some rules, or just move on if you're sure you want to.
Good luck.
2007-10-27 14:20:29 · answer #2 · answered by rohak1212 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a difficult answer for any one out here as it is related to human values and pyschology ask ur boyfriend clearly how much he cares for u and also tell him clearly ur requirements and ur opinions and ideas in a softer way also look at his patience and care and compare it in every circumstance according to the weightage u give to it
2007-10-27 14:05:59 · answer #3 · answered by rockhardhotdickk_2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes he is cheating. He cheated her to be with you and now he has turned the table around. At least the child has something to gain if he goes back to her. .. so please let him go.
2007-10-27 22:48:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have a clear discussion with both of them. It is necessary in your case.
2007-10-27 13:50:23 · answer #5 · answered by PSSR 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋