I met up with a mate's sister recently, that I haven't seen for ten years; an intelligent, educated, lass in her early thirties. Anyway, we were by the sea about to have a cigarette, but it was windy so she crouched down below below the wall level, then laughed and joked "It looks like I'm giving you a bl*wjob" then recalled an occasion when she'd given someone head in front of a window.
For some reason it took me back a bit, I can't help thinking a) it sounded pretty slutty, and b) wondering why she thought I'd want to hear it?
Or am I just being an overdramatic old prude?
2007-10-27 04:42:23 · 36 answers · asked by SITSC 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
No, she offered way too much information for my comfort! She sounds obnoxious!
2007-10-27 04:45:42 · answer #1 · answered by animalover 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Hello,,being the gentleman you are, you had the manners to not exploit the situation, but looking back you sense an opportunity was presented to you and you let it slip away. Alas the story stops here, but the memory of your "mate's sister" being naughty by the sea shall be with you forever. Give her a call and don't waste any time being a little less conservative with her. She sounds like a spirited lass indeed.
2007-10-27 04:51:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would not bother me. My friends and I talk like that to each other all the time. She must just be a very open and spirited girl who is full of life and laughter...meaning no harm, and perhaps not even realizing that anything she might have joked about was taken in a too serious way. You're friends, not business acquaintances...friends, or even sisters of friends, should be able to talk freely and joke around in whatever way is the most natural for them. Don't read more into it than what it was...she was just being open in a light-hearted way.
2007-10-27 04:50:04 · answer #3 · answered by ann.maxter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she isn't used to being with a guy that she is interested in that doesn't look at her for more than sex. If that is all she is used to, then she might try to flaunt those characteristics in order to express herself so that she can attract the guys that she likes. However, since you were looking at her as intelligent, etc., you were turned off. It makes sense. Give her compliments that aren't of a sexual nature and see if she behaves differently.
2007-10-27 04:48:02 · answer #4 · answered by Holden 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on the environment you've grown up on. if you weren't used hearing those, then what she said must have had a bad sound on you.
but a morally dignified person will treat it as something slutty. thats for sure.
dont worry. you arent being an overrated prude. someone could get offended if happened to hear what she said.
2007-10-27 04:51:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm...ick. It's one thing if you're old friends and know each other's sense of humor, etc. but in your situation I agree it was inappropriate. I'm curious as to what your reaction was at the time. I would've said "wow - that's waaaay too much information for me" or something of that nature to where she knows she crossed a line, but you're not being an *** about it.
2007-10-27 04:53:42 · answer #6 · answered by Flusterated 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she don't respect you, or isn't attracted enough to take you seriously. It could also mean that she knows you well and feels totally uninhibited. Perhaps she has always wanted to give your John Thomas a rubdown with her tonsils. I would say you are a prude only if the latter scenario offends ye.
2007-10-27 04:48:13 · answer #7 · answered by Tim O 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It appears to me she was sending out a flirt signal, either in her interest, or to test you to see how you responded. How you reacted or responded may tell how far she'll take it next time. It was a crass and non lady conversation, but it also says she's comfortable with you and who she is and what she does. I would not make much out of it, unless she offer to show you a demo.
2007-10-27 04:55:19 · answer #8 · answered by moonnightsoar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
joking around with you saying what it looked like she was doing is one thing. good for a laugh but to expand on what she did in the past is not very lady like. i dont think you are being a prude.
2007-10-27 04:50:46 · answer #9 · answered by peanutmunchkin 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depending on your prior relatiosnship. If there wasn't any to speak of her remarks were pretty bad taste. Perhaps she wanted to appear cool and liberated, but I would have felt a little embarrassed too. Not to make too much of it though; hope you had a nice time with her anyway.
2007-10-27 04:49:23 · answer #10 · answered by cyranonew 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Some people are more open about their sexuality than others. To you it may have been a "bit slutty", but to her it was probably just being honest, and maybe she was trying to give you a hint!
2007-10-27 04:46:38 · answer #11 · answered by Paul Hxyz 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋