last night after our football game we were riding back on the bus because i am in band and all of a sudden Aaron my kinda sorda dont exactally no how i feel about crush starts holding my best friends hand when he was being so sweet to me the friday before. he let me lean aginst him and fall a sleep i guess he thought i was asleep when out of Know Where He Holds my HAND! and puts his arm around me . ofcourse my bff didnt know about this i was going 2 tell her last night. so do i confront them both or ignore and move on?
2007-10-27 04:54:43 · 15 answers · asked by Kate P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Guys especially young guys are opportunists. They seek any contact with girls they can get. Basically the only thing going throing that guys mind is "Oh my God this girl is letting me touch her" You want the guy to lay off other girls you are going to have to ask him out. Then he will know that he doesn't have to grab every opportunity that presents itself because hes got a steady girl and there will be plenty of opportunities if he doesn't blow it. No guarantees he won't blow it. But that is the mind of a teenage boy. Tell Your friend that you like him, and then ask him out yourself. Or else he's going to realize he's got a lot of opportunities out there and it will be too late. It might be too late already. If he ever disrespects you drop his butt to the curb like yesterday's garbage.
2007-10-27 05:07:33 · answer #1 · answered by James L 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the one thing people are missing here, is you said HE DOESN'T Know you have crush? So is he psychic or something? How does he know how you feel if he doesnt tell you. He's a guy and a young one at that, he's increasing his chances that one of you guys - (or others you don't know about) will eventually give him more. He wants what's is best for, the wild kingdom, head the pack and all that. Guys look at other guys i the way they can get as many chicks they can especially in middle and high school. Can you blame him? Why stay with one chick when so many of them out there? You need to tell him your feelings first before you decide he's worth having. You're friend did nothing wrong. leave her out of it. He's an innocent. /And why on God's earth do you girls in high school expect guys even if you havent even told him how you feel should be now be expected to be exclusively with you? relationships take time to develop and you've havent gotten to the stage that he even KNOWS you like him.
2007-10-27 12:15:59 · answer #2 · answered by dionysus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks like he likes both of you so just let her know so your friendship won't suffer. He's a guy, and he's hormonal so he is testing the water with the both of you. Just keep an open mind and make sure your bff knows whats up.
2007-10-27 12:00:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yikes.
looks like for this guy, holding hands = friends, OR he likes both of you.
talk first to your friend.
tell her you like him and what happened and then ask does she like him and why does she think he is doing this to both of you.
then when you have discussed it, decide whether or not you should say anything to the guy.
but i would be wary, if he just sees you as a friend it could be embarassing and he could say 'what? i hold everyones hand!'
yknow?
good luck and i hope it works out!
2007-10-27 11:58:45 · answer #4 · answered by genie-in-da-house 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm... this is tough. Tell your friend, but not the guy, that way if he comes on to both of you again you can either tell him to shove off or ask why he was coming on to your bff. either way you can do what you want.
Hope that helps somewhat.
2007-10-27 12:04:58 · answer #5 · answered by Dark 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would confront him for making a mistake of trying to play you and your best friend. I think your best friend should of stopped him if she knows that you like him.
2007-10-27 11:58:15 · answer #6 · answered by Katie S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a guy, so I can help, most of the time we do things like that if we do not know that you like us well we go on.
2007-10-27 12:00:21 · answer #7 · answered by cac c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first off all talk to your friend!!! I mean she's your friend!!!!! Then i say forget him!!! Nobody likes a player especially when i almost cost you a friendship!
2007-10-27 12:02:11 · answer #8 · answered by Stephanie D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore it...I think his just a player or you just misunderstood his behavior to you maybe his just really sweet...
2007-10-27 12:21:05 · answer #9 · answered by Janah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore the little wanna-be player.
2007-10-27 11:57:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋