I have a sortta guyfiriend who used to be like my super trusted fried, who I used to tell everything too. I told him my friend liked him, and he just went to her and hugged her all the time. Then one day with my girlfriend, we were talking bout him, and she said she thought he liked her. Then, I told that to my guy friend, and he was like "noooo way, you and some other people told me she liked me, so I played with her, but I would never like her." He's like that, and I hate that about him. Should I even be friends with him anymore?? How bad do you think what he did to my girlfriend is??ps im a girl
2007-10-27 04:42:52 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Hell no!! Im not a lesbian, i meant a friend whos'e a girl, god don't be such perv
2007-10-27 15:11:33 · update #1
thats really messed up to do to someone maybe you should just sorta distance yourself from this guy you said that you hate that about him and I know thats definatly a quality in a friend that i wouldnt want
2007-10-27 04:48:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being a girl yourself, would you want a guy to say the same thing when he talks about you?
Personally, I think the way he reacted bordered on being nasty and arrogant. I believe he wouldn't come across as "bad" if he probably answered you this way, "I like her ... BUT only as a friend. I hope she doesn't expect anything more than that."
Should you still be friends with him? That depends on how deep your friendship was. You said he used to be a "super trusted friend." If you were a friend to him, don't give him the license to be mean. Help him see how others perceive his attitude. Help him realize that it isn't cool to "play" with people. If he decides not to be your friend anymore because of this, then perhaps he really wasn't worth the friendship that you offered after all.
2007-10-27 12:40:44 · answer #2 · answered by lizzah 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's not bad. He was honestly just playing, and I don't believe he truely understood that feelings were going to be hurt. It was a little childish, perhaps, but it doesn't sound like he had any mean intentions to hurt your friend, especially by the way you said he was very surprised to know that he had given the wrong message. Keep your friendship with him, and explain to him that sometimes teasing and being playful can send the wrong message when the other person has something more serious on their mind. You can tell if a person is 'bad' or not by the way they respond to what you say. If he continues the same behavior AFTER knowing it's hurtful...then yes, he is bad, and not worthy of your friendship.
2007-10-27 11:59:38 · answer #3 · answered by ann.maxter 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this sounds dumb why do you even care about what your friends do? why dont you go to the mall and tell your grilfriend to do the same who cares about him and all that.
im kims daughter 23 and georgious so um yeah put mind on other things def!!!
2007-10-27 18:53:36 · answer #4 · answered by kim 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait..you're a girl and you have a girlfriend? that's against my religion to help (lesbians) out... im sorry....=) hope i helped out
2007-10-27 11:51:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell him that wat he did was messed up and dont just yell actually talk. u should still be his friend but just make sure he knows wat he did wrong
2007-10-27 11:53:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋