my fiance for the last month is constantly doing things for everybody. i knwo where he is so i know its not another person, but everytime i mention to him that i just want to see him he gets mad and says he doesnt want to hear it and go and does it anyways? what can i do. we have a son and one on the way. and i am starting to feel there is no need for me to stick around because hes never home i might as well be on my own . and the only time he is hoem is to eat and sleep...
2007-10-27 04:59:05 · 3 answers · asked by miraclebaby_2006 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
we dont walk together in stores i dont even know what i think i love him alot but i just dont know what to do. deal with it or leave
2007-10-27 04:59:40 · update #1
weve been dating for almost 5 years I KNOW HIM
2007-10-27 06:54:34 · update #2
oh and by the way you dont have to get frickin married before you have kids. so get over that. and two i didnt force him into anything he was ready both times before i was he waited for ME to be ready.
2007-10-27 06:56:46 · update #3
You're probably one big ball of hormones, even worse then the normal PMS (this I know, cause I just watched "Knocked Up"!! ;) ). So..... he's dealing with your changing body, a child on the way, and your emotions - try to get thru it, try to be a little understanding (he's doing things for other people - sounds like a good guy!!). Relax, praise him for his good deeds, and hold your tongue....
2007-10-27 05:29:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You did a few things wrong: you didnt get to know him before you got engaged, moved together aand had children. And you didnt insist on marrying first and then having children. As a rule of thumb, it is much better to get to know a person and be sure you get along with them, have things in common and want the same things in life, before making any more permanent arrangements or dragging kids into the equation.
2007-10-27 05:49:31 · answer #2 · answered by petra 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I say you have children without him wanting them> He feels traped so maybe this is the best it gets>????
2007-10-27 06:27:01 · answer #3 · answered by 45 auto 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋