okay im in middle school and i really really like this boy but he says he doesnt like me? but when i get around him he talks to me and its like we got together when were alone but when people are around he acts shy to say he likes me. Should i just go up to him and say" i like you, do u like me"??????? HELP PLZ PLZ PLZ.
2007-10-27 05:18:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just be casual, guys don't like girls who question them in this way, he will be running away as fast as he can. You are only in middle school. You should not be that interested in guys yet, concentrate on your schooling. You have plenty of time for crushes, and dating, etc in high school.
If there is one piece of advice I can give you it is this. A guy will always run from a girl who appears to be desparate. Middle school age guys especially, they just simpy are not mature enough to handle it. Play it cool, be yourself, and never act or look desparate, and you will do just fine.
2007-10-27 07:10:10 · answer #1 · answered by CSmom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The good news is a lot of people are in your position. It may be a little too abrupt to ask him straight out. Maybe you could just continue being his friend for now, then try figuring it out later. Although it does seem a little weird, friends really help in this situation, get their opinion, and maybe even see if they can talk to this boys friends. But if you don't want that, then go ahead! ask him! if you think its the right thing to do, then you've got nothing to lose! Good luck :]
2007-10-27 07:59:29 · answer #2 · answered by Crieoll 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could,
A) let it play out because he might
B)well, im in middleschool too and the boys are ALL chicken to ask anyone out! so best speak to him first buy who knows
C)you should probally see if he likes you first though!
spoken from a true school girl! (LOL)
2007-10-27 05:24:58 · answer #3 · answered by Ali 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
KAY I have the perfwect plan. If you have his phone number, text him and start playing some sort of questions game. try to get him to ask you if you like any one. if he asks if you like anyone say "yeah, you"
if he replies positively he likes you too, if he replies negatively say "oh sorry I meant: yeah, you?"
it's perfect.
2013-10-14 18:15:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes just nervous. i know how it is. just talk to him alot and eventually he will become less shy and u will get ur chance.
2007-10-27 05:23:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said he does not like you yourself.
MOVE ON!
Geez, is it that hard to figure out?!
2007-10-27 05:26:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
do you like him?? if so go out with him
2007-10-27 10:12:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have the courage, then say it. From what you say, i think he likes u
2007-10-27 05:24:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He does not like you... like you... you know what i mean.
2007-10-27 05:24:12 · answer #9 · answered by Curious mind 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋