Family & Relationships - 2 September 2007

A friend of my girlfriend has recently been making sexual advances towards her. It began with little things, like affectionate text messages and the like, that could be construed as simply friendly, but are quite obviously meant for something more. From there it has progressed, to him telling her she should be with him, and suggesting that they should be having sex, etc. I've also heard from others that he is actively trying to break us apart. Basically, it's a lot more than just simple flirting.
My girlfriend shows me all the messages he sends, as far as I know, and she says they never hang out alone (I do trust her, but I'm not oblivious). Numerous times I've explained my disgust (I never liked this guy from the start, hes just a real back stabber kind of person), yet she continues to be friends with him. To me, it's a matter of disrespect, on her part as well as his. I feel like I shouldn't even have to ask her to stop being around him, it should've been done already.

2007-09-02 06:45:08 · 2 answers · asked by nowayman72 2 in Singles & Dating

My mall is where Kelsey Smith got kidnapped. Before the whole thing happened I could go to the mall with my friends, no parents. Then it happened. After they found out she was killed I could never go to the mall alone again unless a parent came. Yesterday my friend called me and asked if I could go to the mall with a few other people, including a 15 year old. I said maybe. Then I asked my mom and she said she would have to come with us (yea right...). Why doesnt she trust me?! Its not like someone will come and get me. I am safe. I have a cell phone. What is the big deal?! Please help. What should I say to her to make me go.......help me!!!

2007-09-02 06:38:00 · 7 answers · asked by Abby Nicole ☮ 4 in Family

When me and my ex wife split she said I hope we can be civil but she doesnt talk to me about my daughter and wont even look me in the eye. Yesterday I saw her at a tailgate party I said hello to her and she just turned around looked at me then turned right back around as if we had no history together. This is a woman I have a child with and seeing how she left me three days after my return from Iraq for another man seems I should be the one who is uncivilized how do you deal with someone youve tried to be kind and rational with but who doesnt say two words to you I dread my daughter going to school and having to deal with this person forever

2007-09-02 06:37:05 · 17 answers · asked by Eric B 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my bf and i have been together for a long time and he was my first and all but a lot of drama is going on right now and this girl has been messing with him at skool and flirting wit him and asking him out but he told her he has a girl but then he also told her if we break up he consider going wit her. and i have been crying a lot so wat should i do. if you have any questions just ask and ill answer them most likely. HELP ME PLZ!!!!

2007-09-02 06:36:41 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-09-02 06:35:16 · 4 answers · asked by roncj88 5 in Friends

My BF and I broke up a year ago when I left him for another man. That relationship went sour and I still was in love with my ex. I moved back in as a roomate. During the last few months we have been getting closer.(sharing a bed, acting like a couple, etc.) No he has started to date somebody and I told him Im heartbroken and he told me that this is what he went through when I did this to him last year and we are just friends now. Now, Im sleeping in my own bed again, he never calls me, emails me, or really has dinner with me. he is always out with his new BF. I know im jealous, How do I get over him? Im cant stop thinking about him all day. I have expressed this to him he just tells me that there is no chance for us since I left him last year. I have never felt this way before, how do I act?

2007-09-02 06:32:43 · 11 answers · asked by Jose 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

or are you mindful of the other person’s emotional state?

2007-09-02 06:27:45 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

So this guy asked me out.. We've been friends since about when school started... so about a month. I said yes... I only said yes because he is really nice and didn't want to hurt his feelings. I never really thought of him as a boyfriend and he is not that cute. I don't want this to ruin our friendship...

Should i tell him how i feel??

Any advice??

Thx god bless!

2007-09-02 06:26:25 · 6 answers · asked by ♥AbeRcRoMbiEhOTTiE♥ 1 in Singles & Dating

Mine was in seventh grade, when a girl threatened to beat me up because we had the same first name.

2007-09-02 06:22:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I never thought it would bother me but I find myself wondering if it does now. I've been going out with a really great guy for awhile and we just had sex last weekend for the first time. It was really dissapointing because he was so small and kinda limp. I know that sounds so mean but I have to ask someone about this. Sex isn't everything in a relationship but boy...it's not the kind of thing you look forward to when you're partner is like that

2007-09-02 06:19:21 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met my dad when i was 12 we have been living together for 5 years now and we don't get along we fight alot and I am tired of it trust me wat hurts the most is seeing my mom cry he hits me I don't say nothing my mom is always there trying to defend me I just don't want to make her suffer anymore she's my life she wants me to leave the house I just don't know were to go am 16 december 17th I'll be 17 . Can someone plz tell me were I could find a place to stay I have heard of places were they give homeless teens a place to live . I am in north nj but i could move to ny if the place is there I don't have a job and no I don't wanna drop out of school i need a number were I could talk to someone that could help me plz as soon as possible I can't take it anymore help plz

2007-09-02 06:18:37 · 17 answers · asked by jess_j_usa 1 in Family

Does a girl have to be big and blonde for you to like her?

2007-09-02 06:14:22 · 10 answers · asked by Katy M 2 in Singles & Dating

My ex bf and I broke up over 2 months ago after a long-term relationship. He cheated on me and I never got over it, so we mutually decided it wasn't working out. However, after a vacation away from home, he came back deciding he wanted me back. I had moved on by then and was dating someone new and was happy with the way things were and didn't want to go back to all that bitterness and anger I felt with him. When he found out I was seeing someone, he couldn't handle it. For the past 6 weeks or more, he has called and emailed constantly begging me to come back. I said no repeatedly. He started calling me at work when I wouldn't answer at home or on my cell. Then, in the past 2 weeks, I have stopped all contact whatsoever. So now he has found out the phone number and email address for the guy I'm seeing and has started emaling and calling him telling him things to try to make him stop seeing me. This is getting crazy. There has been no physical threats, but is this harassment?

2007-09-02 06:14:07 · 12 answers · asked by Mel 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I go to this summer school&in my class, we took this test (it was the last one we take)&we got our results back. He comes over to my table, puts his hands on my table&leans in&asks what did i get. I think he was smiling lol. I say i got something low. He starts asking me what i got again&i go something bad. Then he stands there smiling(i think) n waits. then my friend flips open the booklet &he saw my grade&goes "haha, i just saw it" jokingly &he walks away. then later he&two boys start flinging markers&he walks right next to my desk &stands there. After they threw the marker twice or something, he was like "dont u guys know how to fling it?" he shows them how and they cant fling it far&then he takes the cap&walks back next to me and flings it.&b4 they started flinging, the markers taht the guys threw were landing near me, like next to me. Is he showing off? Is he flirting when he was on my table? Does he like me?

2007-09-02 06:11:19 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm engaged to be married and I do love my fiance very much. This new girl started not too long ago at my work. She is pretty and we smile at each other, but I don't think nothing more of that. The thing is is she will always come up from behind me and grab me quickly, like she is trying to scare me, and the other night I did the same thing to her, but I was just doing it to get back at her for scaring me. She hardly speaks a lick of english (she's hispanic) and she tries to talk to me..even though I can't understand her. Like I said I don't think nothing of any of this because I love my fiance, but is all the smiling, talking, and attempting scaring flirting? Honest opinions please

2007-09-02 06:10:48 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I've been married for the last 8 years and are perfectly happy. We travel, we have plenty of money, and we are not bound or restricted by anything (other than each other lol) We just have no need to have kids, some have told us that it's not right to be married and not want any kids. Some have called it selfish and others have called it immature but either way we're happy so it doesn't really matter in the end. Though I am curious what the general public (aka you people out there) think of it.

2007-09-02 06:10:44 · 35 answers · asked by John S 2 in Marriage & Divorce

how do you know for sure a male bartender is into you besides just the casual flirting in the bar?

2007-09-02 06:10:23 · 1 answers · asked by kelly k 1 in Singles & Dating

like i mean do guys like really skinny or fat girls, or muscular girls, or curvy girls? ive always heard it was curvy girls but a guy has never told me

2007-09-02 06:10:18 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend(really I mean a friend not ME) found this page on myspace where this lady set up a page to give teens advice. Anyway she sent me a link : myspace.com/ms_teen_advice and I was wondering if any ppls would actually ask them something.

2007-09-02 06:05:17 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

we dated and i had a child for him, he left me 2 marry another girl,and now he says he doesnt wanna talk bout our child, and he still comes around tells me he cares but i shouldnt blackmail him with d child, should i tell d wife?

2007-09-02 06:04:16 · 22 answers · asked by halima 1 in Marriage & Divorce

A few months ago, found a myspace page that said that he was single and was interested in meeting ladies. I hit him up on it, thinking it was a joke. He immediately turned the page private and didn't respond.

Then, yesterday, my wife and I were on an adult sex site TOGETHER :)....and his profile came up. His profile name is distinctive. After going into the profile, the birthdate, location, etc. are all correct. He is looking for a woman to play with on the side.

I may just leave their situation alone, except tomorrow we are going over to help prepare their house for an adoption they are seeking....should we intervene?

I'm worried about the baby and my sister-in-law. I love my brother, but fear he may have a sexual addiction....

2007-09-02 06:01:11 · 33 answers · asked by Jim Bo 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

If you could as the general population one question about their sex lives, what would you ask?

2007-09-02 06:00:46 · 8 answers · asked by pinkfairyfiregyrl 2 in Singles & Dating

I am going through a divorce. We are on speaking terms & still love each other but are not right for each other. How do I get on with my life? How do i stop from calling him daily? No kids. No infidelity in the relationship. He just can't keep a job and does not get along wth my family.

2007-09-02 06:00:09 · 6 answers · asked by kimhomeloans 2 in Marriage & Divorce

one girl asked this before and i completly
agree with her. why do "adults" say your to
young when we ask about guy advice or
whatever. where not to young thats like saying a 30yr old cant date a 40 yr old
if they love each other they love each other!
its THIER life and if they make a mistake
they will learn from it so dont say your to
young and when your older read this and
you will be happy you didnt date boys or w.e
we learn from OUR MISTAKES NOT YOURS! and no matter what you say about
focusing more on "school" its just pushing us
more away from it! and thats like saying if your married you cant see your wife for
like 6 more years you will fall apart with out
her! everyone has hormones and they cant
control them so please dont say you are
young live your live as a "kid" for now!!

2007-09-02 05:59:26 · 5 answers · asked by diane s. 3 in Singles & Dating

he is the bartender at the local bar he liked me a year ago but he had a girlfreind so i kept my distance.he is now single so i sent him a myspace mesage asking him to get together,he replied with okay and gave me his number to call,i called him and left a message,he replied two days later with a myspace message apologizing for missing my call and we would get togetther later in the week.the thing is one of his bestfriends is in love with me because i called him crying one night about my x who hurt me.i dont like his best friend i like him,but he seems to not be interested?would he still give me his number if he was not interested?

2007-09-02 05:57:42 · 5 answers · asked by kelly k 1 in Singles & Dating

I don't know the stats but it seems like most newly weds stay married for at least 3 to 5 years then they call it quits. Then you have the veterans. They've been married for at least 8 to 14 years and one day out of the blue (they stay together for the sake of their children) they decide to call it quits. Then you have the "faithful" few. These are people who "come hell or high water" they're sticking it out no matter what. Your thoughts & comments are welcomed.

2007-09-02 05:57:27 · 35 answers · asked by Kooties 5 in Marriage & Divorce

K here it is. I am a completely crazy horney person, when I am drunk. I do the craziest sexual things. My hubby loves it and therefor always wants to get me drunk, becuz I don't do these things otherwise. My question is I need some ideas to spice up the love life, without having to be drunk. I have been with him for 13 years, (since I was 17).

2007-09-02 05:57:12 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I love him very much and want to be with him but things are complicated I have a good job where I am at and I have a daughter and that would mean uprooting her away from extended family. Perks...he treats her and loves her as his own no question and I have already had phone calls of people offering me jobs out there with better pay. The pros and cons are about even, the biggest thing is hurting the people we will be leaving behind and I just want my daughter to be happy. Anyways anything would help thank you.

2007-09-02 05:57:04 · 6 answers · asked by dorkyitalianangelprincess 1 in Family

the two old refrigrator i have are broken and really old so i cant give them to charity does any one know where i can reycyle them

2007-09-02 05:54:41 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

When I go around my family, my sperm donor side I'm quiet and that's not me, I grew up around them, my grand mom raised me up until I was 12 and then I was really on my own after that back and forth to different relatives house, I come alive when I'm around friends and associates, my boyfriend ask me why I act like that when I go around them and I say I don't know b/c I don't and I don't do it on purpose, my mom and dad lives the street life and jail is there first home, my mom gave birth to 5 of us and never raised us just gave us away, well she gave me to my dad s family and the others was gave to my moms dad, he was a great grandfather and he is the only 1 I feel really cared about us and what happens to us but he died and the next year my big brother got killed at 16 out on the streets trying to make a living b/c when didn't have no 1, our mom was very unfit and we had to live the street life, oops I got carried away!!

2007-09-02 05:51:14 · 4 answers · asked by Ms.Beauty 2 in Other - Family & Relationships