Family & Relationships - 2 September 2007

sir, Iam 44 n my wife 43 yrs. our is love marriage , she loves me much we are blessed with two childrens. she very sexy in the begining 3 yrs after wards her sexual interest has gone down ,last t3 yrs she not at all interested in sex n she will not allow me to touch her , last 3yrs we didn't have intercourse ,she faithful to me even iam faithful to her we do not have any other relations , she has joint pains n financial problems ,i used to think she is tensed with these problems but now these problems are not there what ever she wants she is getting , now iam unable to understand whats the problem with her , kindly advise me what to do, eaither medically or any advise.

2007-09-02 07:33:45 · 16 answers · asked by abidaskumar 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I know a lot of hetrosexual men that admit that if they were to go gay it'd be for Brad Pitt and no other guy. Even his male costars notice how good looking he is. The director of the movie "Troy" said that men and women notice how beautiful he is and that is what he is, he's beautiful, I've never seen a man so gorgeous like him that it's a shock! A clincial psycharatrist also talked to hetrosexual men that are attracted to Brad Pitt and she said that it is perefectly ok for men to find other men attractive as women find other women attractive, that it does not mean that the individual is homosexual it means that they notice that person's beauty and that there is nothing wrong with it.

2007-09-02 07:33:01 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

when my son was born his dad was an alcoholic. he was struggling to cope with life mentally because he already had a kid (who he was seeing and supporting financially). i had some issues with depression and i was only eighteen. this other woman made my (and his) life hell. the whole situation with him, the other woman and my sons severe medical problems scared the crap out of me. so, i lied. i told him i had been sleeping with someone else and that my son wasnt his. i then moved home and changed my number. now ive got the depression sorted and my son is seven now. i know that he will start asking questions about him soon and will probably ask to meet him. should i hire someone to find him because i know they both have the right to know.
thanks for any good advice.

2007-09-02 07:31:00 · 5 answers · asked by sarah c 2 in Family

I know i shouldnt worry what people say.. but its high school and I dont want a bad reputation and to hear hurtfull things all the time.

2007-09-02 07:27:25 · 21 answers · asked by Sara S 1 in Singles & Dating

I met baby boy about 3wks ago everything was cool we talked all the time. Lately just out of the blue he has been dry (you know one word answers) and distant. How can you all turn off like that for no reason?

2007-09-02 07:25:58 · 2 answers · asked by Aquiel 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been officially dating a guy for two weeks (but was talking to him online for two months before we met in person). So far we only kissed and hugged, but yesterday he kinda fondled me. I really like this guy and want a relationship with him, but when is the right time to sleep with him? If were officially boyfriend and girlfriend? I have a pretty high sex drive so I'm clueless as what to do. Whenever I want a relationship with a guy, I end up sleeping with him so fast (usually within two weeks of seeing a guy) and a relationship never develops. Any good advice? Thanks.

2007-09-02 07:22:29 · 45 answers · asked by Jenna 1 in Singles & Dating

Im planning a small wedding and wanted to know if you guys have any tips for this. I found a blog at http://www.weddingplanningbasics.blogspot.com thats good but it seems new so I just added it to favorites. I want to know more about planning a small wedding because me and my mate are really confused in the cost. If anyone could give me any tips I would be grateful, thanks

2007-09-02 07:17:30 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

smack some girls in the butt and not others even if they find that person they dont smack in the butt attractive?

2007-09-02 07:16:32 · 3 answers · asked by ashley h 1 in Singles & Dating

my boss is asking me to do dirtry things and i want to do them to him!! but im married!!! he wants to do horrible stuff like (excrete in mouth) but i think its dirty. shall i do it to keep my job?

2007-09-02 07:14:15 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

like when shes talking 2 you - tou atch my drift right?

2007-09-02 07:11:46 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been living with my boyfriend for almost 5 years. We planned on getting married one day...But now we are having a very hard time getting along, he goes out drinking all weekend while I am at work. Lately he hasnt been coming home at night-to drunk to drive and crashes at his friends. And when he is home he is in a bad mood. So today I said that we are over. he says that he will move out, but when he can afford it. Which will probally be never the way he has been spending his money. I dont think that it is fair that he can come and go as he pleases, living with me while we are breaking up. I want to try and resolves our issues, I just dont know where to start, he is my best friend and we had a loving relationship. Should I just pack my things and leave? Or wait it out and see what happens? I have been calling him non-stop, which is making things worse.

2007-09-02 07:10:39 · 15 answers · asked by chelchel 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Or like you are innocent? My friend says that I dress modest. And older friends say that I'm sweet.

2007-09-02 07:10:22 · 7 answers · asked by ♥ ~Sigy the Arctic Kitty~♥ 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

I want some original ideas - this will help - I actually like nice girls and so dont want anything really sleazy or vulgar.

2007-09-02 07:08:23 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There really is a double standard, I am allowed to date white and hispanic women all I want, but my sistas attempt to date white dudes and the brothas and other sistas go off. Why?

2007-09-02 07:05:19 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my brother is adhd and has some ocd, and it's driving me insane. he has to wash everything and i highly doubt that his meds are doing anything at all. the school almost kicked him out three times in one three month period and my mom suffered health problems from all the stress.
okay, I know, I'm really impatient with my brother and I often take out my anger with my brother on some people that really annoy me at school. no really bad stuff, but i argue and yell at people a lot. I really am trying to not yell so much and control my anger issues, but what can I do when all my parents think about is my brother, work and house work? my mom always says she doesnt have a favorite, but i'm starting to doubt that. I get money from my parents adn its not like i'm starving or anything, but is there anything I can do to just try and ignore him when he blows up and starts screaming his head off?!

2007-09-02 07:04:51 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I dated a guy for 3 months and then we decided to be just friends. It's been 2 weeks now and an communication we've had has been through e-mail. Should I keep it that way? I myself have always liked it when someone takes time to pick up the phone. Is e-mail the best way or should I try to incrporate the phone into the equation?

2007-09-02 07:01:52 · 23 answers · asked by candiecorn 1 in Singles & Dating

the butt of a girl finds attractive, yet smacks other girls in the butt?

2007-09-02 07:00:39 · 1 answers · asked by angel 2 in Singles & Dating

Like when you say something to her and she blushes -you catch my drift

2007-09-02 07:00:19 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-02 06:57:20 · 4 answers · asked by Ashlyn t 1 in Family

My husband and I are going through a seperation. I have a two year old and unemployed. I want to offer my son the best of me and there is an opportunity to leave the country and earn a decent salary and still be able to be home most days around 3pm
, when he gets older, I will be home for him after school.

Alternativley I could stay in the country/town I am in , and his father will be around, but the job I can get here is a stressful environment pay won't be great in the beginning but excellent in a year or so(though not alot of jobs available here) but I will be familar with the work (previous job) probably only get home after 5pm sometimes will have to work long hours as projects draws to a close.This job I can also get in the other country but long hours but pay will be very good!

I struggle with career prospects of the repping job compared with a job as a Project manager. and the issue of moving countries ...I do have family in this country...

2007-09-02 06:56:14 · 9 answers · asked by Cocoon 1 in Family

why does a guy say he needs to talk to you? or starts apologizing for being late when he really wasnt? and when he sees me and his whole face lights up in a huge smile and his eyes just glow? what does all of this mean? Thanks and best wishes to all of the wonderful people that answer me!!!!

2007-09-02 06:55:54 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my wife of 21 years still doesnt know im gay. i cant keep my eyes off him. (the boss) he is also married and we had great fun last nite. can anyone help me??? what should i do???

2007-09-02 06:55:20 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He's a year older than me and he's very nice and we love to do things together because we love each other very much. I can talk to him about anything and he's always there for me. But lately, we haven't been spending as much time together and I want to spend more time with him. What should I do?

2007-09-02 06:55:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My dad is only home 5 days a week, and I never get to see him, neither do my brothers, but one of my brothers won't let my dad be with me or my other brother. So it's always just him and my dad. If me and my dad make plans, he tries to bend them so either they don't happen, or he comes. I usually wouldn't have a problem with my brother coming, but when I start a conversation with him, my brother kicks in and makes him stop talking to me with a conversation that he knows I won't understand. Example:
My dad PROMISED me he'd take me to the movies, and JUST me and my dad. Just us. So my friend begs me to go to a local fair, and I have to say yes, because this week my dad is home Saturday, Sunday AND Monday. He promised me he'd take me. Well Saturday didn't work out. So today is Sunday. Today is the day of the fair, so we aren't going to the movie's today. MY BROTHER AND MY DAD ARE. My brother worked it out so they could go! And tomorrow, he planned it so we are going [continued]

2007-09-02 06:54:21 · 6 answers · asked by ily[; 3 in Family

There was this girl who had a crush on me, and i had just gotten out of a really crappy relationship. So i started off this "friends with benefits" thing with her. It wasn't just about the making out and fooling around, but she gave me affection and caring that i never got from my other girlfriend. It's not gotten to the point where she acts like she's my girlfriend, but she's not. I mean i was thinking with my other head when i decided to do stuff with her and now i feel so horrible about it. I mean this girl says she loves me and i took advantage of that, knowing she'd do anything for me. I know i'm a bad guy for doing it and if i could go back in time i'd hit myself over the head with a mallet and say "Hey man, this girl is gonna get really attached and there is gonna be a day when you want a girlfriend and you're gonna break her heart!". She calls me Hunnie and sweetheart and tells me how special i am and how much she loves me. How can i get out of this without really hurting her?

2007-09-02 06:52:46 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-09-02 06:49:54 · 9 answers · asked by natasha 1 in Singles & Dating

so i met this guy a couple of week ago, and i really like him and he likes me too... the only probolem is he reminds me alot of my ex! (they even have the same name too!) i dont know what to do! should i start dating him or not?

2007-09-02 06:48:29 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay, so I like this guy who I am also really good friends with. My other best friend tells me that he likes me too. Usually I can trust her with things like that, and I don't know why I am doubting what she said to me. People have been saying that we should go out for two years now, and I don't want to waste anymore time. I know it may seem that with all of this information I am giving you, this decision would be easy to make, but something keeps holding me back. Please help me. And just so you know, he has only been to my house once, we haven't kissed or anything, and I have never been to his house. School starts soon and we have no classes together.

Thank you for taking this time.

P.S. I worked hard to type this. Please don't be mean or give ridiculous or untrue answers.

2007-09-02 06:47:43 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-02 06:45:16 · 1 answers · asked by Lucely M 1 in Singles & Dating

I got divorced cause my ex wife was too beautiful and every othr guy wanted her,.she left me for a youngr guy, I gave up cause she was too hard to hold on too. I plan on choosing a fat an ugly woman for my next wife thinking she would be more loyal and being fat and ugly no other man would want her.

2007-09-02 06:45:11 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating