Family & Relationships - 2 September 2007

ok so theres this boy i've known since i was 5 and he used to live in my apartment complex and we used to hang out like everyday but then he moved like 3 years ago and now we go to the same middle school and on the 1st day he just stared at me strange and then all day when he saw me he just stared but now whenever i look at him he just looks away and he won't even wave or say hi
but on friday i said to my friend hes such an idoit he won't even say hi and i think he heard me cause he smiled at me then just walked away i'm hoping he was smiling at me or am i just indinial? but then after school i saw him again and he just quick glanced and then looked way he didn't even smile or anything and i'm too shy to say anything to him and he won't sy anything to me but i see him like 3 times a day what should i do? i cant go up to him i'm too much of a woose!! and when he looks at me its kinda in a rude way casue theres like no expres so what should i do please help!! his mom waves at me though!

2007-09-02 08:45:37 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my sister whos 1 yr. older, is xtremely (what the guys call) "hot" i think i'm pretty, but standing next to her a guy would never notice. she's pretty much perfect, even the guy i like says shes really hot and even felt her breasts in front of me at a party. i so tired of being ugly next to her. HELP!!

2007-09-02 08:43:43 · 12 answers · asked by red_head423 2 in Singles & Dating

do guys wanna makeout with there g.fs badly? or kiss them even after a week??? how do guys feel when it comes to kissing. do they like public display of affection

2007-09-02 08:38:41 · 10 answers · asked by bubble b 2 in Singles & Dating

What are the signs? How do YOU know or how did you know?

2007-09-02 08:37:20 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

when i confront him and ask why he never wants to spend wkends with me, we end up in a massive row where he accuses me of trying to tell him what to do and asks if i want to get a timetable.. i feel unwanted and im ready to quit

2007-09-02 08:30:02 · 39 answers · asked by loulou 1 in Marriage & Divorce

If you dont use it you lose it??

2007-09-02 08:26:41 · 1 answers · asked by Camello S 1 in Singles & Dating

He has been working in the US for 5 years, paying taxes and still is not a citizen. He claims to love me very much but Im afraid if I marry him it may just be for his citizenship! I just don't want to marry him until he has his citizenship so that I know he really wants to marry me for me. He has bought me a ring and I turned him down. He says I dont love him because I won't marry him. I do love him but I have heard of so many horror stories about these aliens who sweep woman off their feet and divorce them after they get their citeznship. What do you think?

2007-09-02 08:26:00 · 18 answers · asked by 112 4 in Marriage & Divorce

(WOULD YOU LIKE SOME FISH AND CHIPS ) can you tell me what is wrong with the question i mean to say what planet are they on for god sake

2007-09-02 08:25:25 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

If your too big how do you know? Do you tell yourself that or are others telling you that?
Peace to you for eternity inshAllah :) - Batman Justice League CPU :)

2007-09-02 08:23:56 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Anyone Know?

2007-09-02 08:22:24 · 10 answers · asked by Answer Girl 2007 5 in Weddings

i have this problem ok i been going my boyfriend for a while now and he always tell me he love me and he tell me everything i mean everything and i trust him and everything . when he say he luv me i tell him i luv him but he say he dont believe then i tell him i do and he say ok but he dont really think so . and i dont know wht to do.

2007-09-02 08:21:06 · 9 answers · asked by Beautiful Helper 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay, so if you've read some of my other questions then you know that I've been in love with my best guy friend since October. Well he knows that I LIKE him now. He asked me who I liked because of a Myspace Survey. Almost all of my friends think that he really likes me including his ex girlfriend who is also my friend. However when I told him I liked him he just changed the subject to his myspace pics that he just posted from Boston. Jordan said that that's the same exact thing that he did to her before they started going out. What am I supposed to do now? He knows that I like him, and he said that it might be a little awkward at first but he'd get used to it and that I can't help who I like. (He's really understanding and kind and sweet) Am I just supposed to act like nothing happened or what?? Please help.

2007-09-02 08:20:43 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Any advice?

If it makes a difference, I am in high school. It appears he's interested in me, but I'm not quite sure.

Anyways...any advice? PLEASE! :)

2007-09-02 08:17:25 · 10 answers · asked by Kiara 5 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years we have lived together for alomost 4 We have had a tough time for the summer but have worked through it and now we are stronger we are only 23 He has been partying a lot this summer Sometimes he comes home by 3 but often he doesn't I am pretty sure that he is not cheating on me because it would have been easy to break up but instead we dealt with our problems and have learned from mistakes He says that he is just hanging out with his friends He has always been so outgoing and is the guy everybody likes I don 't want to tell him what to do because it is his life and I want him to be happy we work differend hours so we get to hang out one or two evenings and maybe after work for a bit (he works until 11:30 pm) When we have talked about it before he said he needs "guy" time and it isn't like he is cheating on me but I would ruin it Is it wrong for hime to go out a lot They go to the bar 1-2x but not always. He loves me I know What next??

2007-09-02 08:15:03 · 2 answers · asked by princess 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I was in that hospital once, it was really bad, everyone bundled into one room, with different diseases and conditions, and there was that woman in the corner, crying constantly. She got ill suddenly and they took her to this charitable free hospital, and while she lay there, her husband threw all her things away and brought a young woman home.
And she had no money and could not pay for drugs and treatments, and no food, and her neighbour brought her some food, and she just sat on her bed and cried all the time.
I was so impressed by this woman. How do you know your husband won't do the same if you are chanced to get ill?

2007-09-02 08:10:47 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-02 08:10:23 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi, am going to marry my bf this november. I met him from matrimonial service last february then I came to visit him several times in UAE and found that he is the guy am looking for the rest of my life. We are from different nationality, he is indian and I'm indonesian.
Everything with us is almost perfect, only 1 thing is bothering me that his marriage status. He's been separated morethan 3 years and the wife now living in UK with her bf & his kids . Since we are muslim and there's a rule that muslim man may have till 4 wifes, but I don't want someday she comes to UAE & claimed my husband as hers too since they don't take legally divorce.
I talked about this few times but he always said "no worries at all ", so tell me what to do now ? I do love him but dont want to be in trouble someday.

2007-09-02 08:09:51 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-02 08:08:18 · 8 answers · asked by Cari A 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a girl who is 17 and I just turned 20 and sometimes I am hesitant to do sexual stuff with her because to me she is still underage but she assures me she is ready and mature enough. What do you think?

2007-09-02 08:06:42 · 68 answers · asked by BKelly237 3 in Singles & Dating

I was casually dating a guy and it turns out we we'rent right for eachother so we have decided to be just friends. I look back now and I wonder if I was too smothering. Here is how I was:
His office was across the hall from mine so about everyother day I'd stop by and say hello, this went on for about 3 weeks. When I stopped, he started stopping by to see me.
After he had started calling me on a regular basis I'd call him once or twice a week on my own.( usually I wouldn't call on the weekends cause I didn't want to smother him) I always showed that I was happy to see him and happy to hear from him. But then eventually things started to dwindle (I didn't try to fix it cause I didn't want to chase him, I just let it take it's course) and we realized that for some pretty significant reasons we were better off as friends. Was I smothering?

P.S.
The way how we actually started dating was he found out I had a crush on him. he's 31 I'm 19.

2007-09-02 08:04:19 · 16 answers · asked by candiecorn 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been dating a coworker for about 3 weeks (known each other 2 months), but we are trying to take our relationship slowly for the sake of our jobs. He's an amazing guy, we are very similar people, went to the same college, and I could see us having quite a long relationship. Whenever he is out of town he's constantly e-mailing me or texting me, and he tells me he misses me when we're not together. He hasn't pressured me for sex at all (confirming that he's an amazing guy) but I know he really wants to. I'm scared of falling in love with him and getting my heart broken if I sleep with him too soon, though, or risking that he'll lose interest once the "chase" is over. What's a good timeframe here?

2007-09-02 08:04:04 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok so i was fanficting it and reading harry potter fanfics about draco and hermione falling in love and they were so sweet and so beautifully written and it made me sad.

i am sixteen years old, have had two bfs that broke up with me and now its like i can barely get a guy to even talk to me. i mean its like homecoming is coming up and my guy friend was makin fun of me for not having a date and hes all "well id go with u but im not going." its like sometimes i feel like there isnt someone out there for me.

i get told i am beautiful on a daily basis from my friends and of course my mom but i feel as if they HAVE to say it. i dont know if they even mean it or not.

i dont know...i just really want a guy right now =[

2007-09-02 07:58:38 · 1 answers · asked by MissSamanthaAnne 1 in Singles & Dating

I am sick and tired of my parents fighting all the time and my dad threatening my mom and us all the time. Im miserable and so are my siblings. I try to talk to my mom about just leaving him but she never wants to hear it. She always says oh he'll change and that everyone has their moments. Im tired of this and sometimes I never even want to come home. So how do I make my mom understand that by staying in this stupid marriage she's just hurting us,the kids. All of us want it to end already. We're all sick and tired of this crap we have to deal with everyday.How to I try to talk to her and convince her its for the best. She thinks that she cant survive without him which I dont see how that is becaouse he doesnt even work or do anything. I dont know what to do anymore. Im tired of fighting and standing up to him because she wont when he threatens us or her or does some other crap. Anyways I need help on how to talk to her. Sorry for it being so long. I just needed to vent.

2007-09-02 07:58:30 · 7 answers · asked by lilcutie8899 4 in Marriage & Divorce

my sister is really close to my cousins but i really dont cilck with thme what should i do??

2007-09-02 07:54:53 · 3 answers · asked by =] 2 in Family

I think I have somewhat figured out part of this relationship problem I am having. We have been dating since we were young about 16or 17 I think. we are both 28 now and have to beuatiful children together. She is working with a bunch of single women who are about two to four years younger than her that she is calling friends I mean they are that is good. But what I think is going on is she is seeing these single people some mothers all going out and having a good time at bars and other places and she never got to have that life and now she wants it but she has given up on our family to be able to do this I dont hate her for it but I dont agree with the way she is approaching it. she wants to ba able to go out and do all of this stuff and she dont relize that she is hurting our family by wanting to seperate to do this I want to be with her and would love to be able for her to go out and be with friends and hang out with her friends but I would have to beg her to spend any time with me

2007-09-02 07:51:23 · 24 answers · asked by mising her 2 in Marriage & Divorce

do you believe without actual words towards eachother about it, that you can see in a persons eyes when they speak to you that there is a connection between you two? Or is it all in my head?

2007-09-02 07:47:20 · 12 answers · asked by kelly k 1 in Singles & Dating

I know a man and his wife ran away with another man to Monaco (from London). And they do it so often, run away, I mean. Why? What's the point nowadays? Why can't they just tell their partners that they do not want them anymore, why do they go somewhere secretly first? They will have to meet them more anyway, for divorce and things.

2007-09-02 07:45:46 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

we argue alot i argue back she tells me what to do and i dont like being told what to do and being bossed around but i guess it has to be that way for another 2 years until im 18. and when we argue she almost always brings up the past wich i have clearly moved on from and i wish we would just stop argueing HELP!

2007-09-02 07:41:46 · 19 answers · asked by ☼Triple Lexxx☼ 1 in Family

I'm trying to figure out what to do with my life. I have 3 kids and I am married. I want to go back to school and get an education. I have a GED because I dropped out of high school due to an unplanned pregnancy. I would love to be able to support myself and my three kids financially by myself if I ever needed to. The problem is that I can't find my passion in life.
I do like photography,animals and nature. But I just feel like I'm not really good at anything. I grew up in a very dysfunctional family (which probably led to the early pregnancy). Basically I have no one I can really count on for support. So is there anywhere I can go where I can be motivated and led in the right direction? I really want to succeed in life and I want my children to be proud of me.

2007-09-02 07:37:45 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, when was it okay in your relationship to pass gas around your partner without him/her say "Oh God, You're gross!" and just saying "it's human nature." With a polite "excuse me" from you of course!
How many months/ years into your relationship? Is it EVER okay with you?

2007-09-02 07:35:56 · 23 answers · asked by LOVE BEING A MOMMY 6 in Singles & Dating