i have this problem ok i been going my boyfriend for a while now and he always tell me he love me and he tell me everything i mean everything and i trust him and everything . when he say he luv me i tell him i luv him but he say he dont believe then i tell him i do and he say ok but he dont really think so . and i dont know wht to do.
2007-09-02 08:21:06 · 9 answers · asked by Beautiful Helper 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he said that he love me very much and im different from the other girls that he been wit .... and he trust me and stuff
2007-09-02 08:31:21 · update #1
I agree with allyjayy he does sound insecure. When you love someone saying them 3 little words should come natural. Don’t wait until he says I love you. Beat him to the punch. Show him how much you love him. Have eye contact grab his face tell him I love you more. Then give him a passionate kiss for a minute. Tell him you love him a couple times a day at least. Tell him you’re his 1st thought when you wake up and your last thought when you go to bed.
Other ways you can tell him you love him send it in a tex message, put a love note in his pocket( he will find it ,read it and know your thinking about him) , email him, make a scrap book just pictures of you both in it and show him. It will give your both something to talk about. Each picture is a memory.
Turn the house phone, cell phone and computer off. So there wont be any interruptions. Candle light meal fix his favorite dish have only 2 hershey kisses on the table. After the meal you put one in his mouth he then will do the same to you. Then put in a movie that he likes to watch get lotion and give him a shoulder or back massage. If he’s tense or stressed this will help relax him. After that cuddle with him, hold his hand, run your fingers threw his hair. Men want to feel important, loved and want attention too. They are human also. This bonding will bring you closer together.
Put your self in his shoes. He’s being honest with you; you in return should also do the same. Communication, showing love and affection is all part of a relationship. If you love someone show them. Think how you would like to be treated and do that to him.
Do things he likes to do also even if you don’t like it. Like nascar racing for example I don’t like the sport he knows this but I like to attend to his needs. Hunny can u get me a soda and popcorn or he would say come and sit with me, and he would massage my neck. little things like that is quality time, bonding, and creates wonderful memories.
2007-09-02 10:57:40 · answer #1 · answered by blueyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds really insecure. it may be because of an old relationship. just keep telling him you love him, and show him. like call him atleast once a day, and hang out a lot. this way he wont feel so insecure anymore.
2007-09-02 08:26:36 · answer #2 · answered by Stephie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show him that you love him. Make him his favorite cookies, do random favors for him, and say "I LOVE YOU" all the time... don't say stuff like "i wuv you" or whatever, make it official what you are trying to say. When you give him things, say he left his shirt at your house and you need to give it back to him, put a little note on it that says you love him. Make it obvious!
2007-09-02 08:25:48 · answer #3 · answered by Susan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds like he needs alot of reassurance.. or maybe he just has trust issues. either way, its not fair to you that he keeps questioning your feelings about the relationship. you should tell him just that.. if u tell him that you love him in all sincerity, why should he doubt that?
2007-09-02 08:26:19 · answer #4 · answered by heyya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes actions speak louderthan words. Maybe he feels that you aren't showing that you love him. Next time he says it, just don't say it back, show it!
2007-09-02 08:25:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
he sounds insecure...
it sounds like he's telling you how much he likes you, and you don't, so when he says he loves you and you say it back he has to wonder if its true.
try expressing your feelings to him, if you really do love him. be honest like "i think about you all the time. i miss you when you're gone. i love you"
:D
2007-09-02 08:24:53 · answer #6 · answered by ally 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lefteye4show,Next time he says he don"t believe you just say okay, I guess I will find someone who does !
2007-09-02 08:30:37 · answer #7 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
prove it to him find the best way. he may just be kidding.
2007-09-02 08:24:17 · answer #8 · answered by punk girl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dump him and call me.we can talk and get to know one another
2007-09-02 08:26:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋