Any advice?
If it makes a difference, I am in high school. It appears he's interested in me, but I'm not quite sure.
Anyways...any advice? PLEASE! :)
2007-09-02 08:17:25 · 10 answers · asked by Kiara 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, guys will play "sly". They will look at you when you aren't looking at him, that sort of thing. They 're shy or don't want their friends to know about their secret crush....whatever.
What is my advice for this?
Do the same thing, appear to "maybe" be interested, let him catch you looking at him, just for a second and then---look away. While you are looking away,do this; put a little smile on.....this will draw his interest if he is. It called "trouting". (you put the bait out and then draw the fish in to bite the hook. LOL)
Just remember, when we put ourselves "out there", there's a chance of getting hurt by the other person not liking us back. So steel yourself to a possible disappointment. But, if we don't do these things, we'll never know what could have happened otherwise.
Anyway, you are most likely right that he likes you, we girls have an inner voice that tell us this, listen to your little voice.
Good luck! Stay safe!
2007-09-02 08:30:43 · answer #1 · answered by witchywoman29 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok, you have got to stop paying attention to him and start paying attention to yourself for a bit.
Tell yourself that you are a prize and any guy would be lucky to have you, and that you would be perfectly happy being single and by yourself.
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That's great that you don't want to come on too strong, that's the worst thing you could possibly do is come on too strong. If he's truly interested in you then he'll make the first move.
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Guys always want something they cant have... so don't make your interests too obvious!!
I know what it's like! It's so hard, but you can do it!!!
gl girl ♥
2007-09-02 08:23:35 · answer #2 · answered by Flair 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guys in high school are usually shy and uncomfortable. When you get older in life, you will regret at least not trying. Suck it up and blatantly hit on him. Most likely, he will respond the way you want him to. If he doesn't, then you will find someone else down the road that feels the same way you do. In the end, you don't want to regret not doing anything....do you?
2007-09-02 08:21:13 · answer #3 · answered by Mystery Meat 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i've been there jsut flirt alot and have fun with it. eventualy one of u will spill ur feeling for eachother and find out what will happen. u may even get a kiss if the flirting goes well.
2007-09-02 08:20:36 · answer #4 · answered by punk girl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if you think he likes you mabey why dont you find out, ok the mission.
1) tell your friend u really like him and tell your friend to become friends with him and find out if he likes you. and dont worry about your friend starting to go out with him because she would know that u really like him and if shes a good friend she wouldnt go out with him then.
or
2) flirt with him abit, like give him signals that u like him and dont go up 2 him straight and say i like u cuz the boiz like what the hell. so give him signals first.
3) or go with another persons approach whos ganna answer this question and say 'just tell him that you like him and hope everything works out' lol
and btw have confidence :) good luck
2007-09-02 08:26:20 · answer #5 · answered by supermann 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well take your time. First try to become friends with him. I nice letter will do good.
2007-09-02 08:21:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make eye contact with him when u pass him and when he passes by look back if he looks back he is intrested in you
2007-09-02 08:21:05 · answer #7 · answered by Pal s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kiara, Openly and honestly get together and talk about today tomorrow and forever !
2007-09-02 08:23:19 · answer #8 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just work up the courage and tell him you really like him.
2007-09-02 08:20:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell em
2007-09-02 08:22:04 · answer #10 · answered by Spiff 'n hydro Smoka' 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋