I've been dating a coworker for about 3 weeks (known each other 2 months), but we are trying to take our relationship slowly for the sake of our jobs. He's an amazing guy, we are very similar people, went to the same college, and I could see us having quite a long relationship. Whenever he is out of town he's constantly e-mailing me or texting me, and he tells me he misses me when we're not together. He hasn't pressured me for sex at all (confirming that he's an amazing guy) but I know he really wants to. I'm scared of falling in love with him and getting my heart broken if I sleep with him too soon, though, or risking that he'll lose interest once the "chase" is over. What's a good timeframe here?
2007-09-02 08:04:04 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
For clarification, I am in fact religious, but I am not waiting until marriage nor is he. I don't have any moral problems with making love to someone I care a lot about, but I want to make sure I'm not damaging the relationship by doing it.
2007-09-02 08:29:51 · update #1
it all really depends on you, if you feel comfortable with going at it or not. im sure that since you say he is such an amazing guy he wont judge you. develop a trust in your relationship, if you have that than you decide where you want to take the next step.
2007-09-02 08:09:32 · answer #1 · answered by Diane D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi girl,
Good question, (i'm a guy). first if you sleep with him, yuo HAVE slept with him. If you feel like rewarding him with sex for being amazing, then go ahead. He will leave and you will have to do same for who knows how many else that would come. Are you thinking of marriage to someone extra special in future? If you think there is such a person to connect with then I would suggest you save yourself for him and hopefully he would be doing same for you. Besides your maker programmed you so for best performance. I would also encourage you at such confusion to ask Jesus..."If you were the one what would you do?" I know He will answer you.
2007-09-02 08:24:11 · answer #2 · answered by PATRICK A 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-19 21:43:57 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When will women learn? Sexual promiscuity and the whole sexual liberation movement has done more to screw up relationships as is evidenced by all the messed up relationships and families.
If you sleep with him before you get married God will know what's in your heart. But then you probably don't care much about God anyway if you're like most Americans.
2007-09-02 08:10:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Number one I think you made a huge mistake dating someone you work with. But now that you have crossed that line, since you have dated him for 3 weeks you have to sleep with him by the 1 month mark or he will lose interest and put too much stock in your first sexual encounter. Do it soon or you will doom your relationship.
2007-09-02 08:10:34 · answer #5 · answered by thespyral 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
As I guy I say "Do it now." As a father of a daughter I say wait for marriage, what's the rush?
2007-09-02 08:10:51 · answer #6 · answered by SABADO GIGANTE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait at leats 6 months
2007-09-02 08:08:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he falls in love with u even when ur not giving it up then u'll know. wait till ur engeaged to the guy.
2007-09-02 08:08:07 · answer #8 · answered by punk girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't. If your relationship is so good, save something special for marriage. You'll be glad that you did.
2007-09-02 08:16:00 · answer #9 · answered by Kennette 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't sell yourself cheap. Wait until you are married before sleeping together.
2007-09-02 08:07:31 · answer #10 · answered by Mrs.Blessed 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋