Family & Relationships - 2 September 2007

My sister-in-law has a habit of going to my bedroom/bathroom for some reason whenever she visits with her husband, even though we have a potty room downstairs. She hasnt stolen anything, but the behavior just creeps me out. I find it very weird. Since I live with my inlaws, I cant complain to them either or outright confront her.What should I do?? Is this behavior abnormal or just lack of manners??Is there a name for such people??
P.S My friend says she feels threatened by me, in some way that is why she wants to see what I have, so she can better herself. She has more money than me, she has better stuff than me, so I am not sure that is the reason :-?

2007-09-02 05:51:12 · 6 answers · asked by Shaz 1 in Family

My husband has to take classes near his home town for his job, he went down there for a four day class and stayed ten days, six days longer than his classes to hang out with his buddies and party. We just moved to a big city, I'm 7 months pregnant and I'm terrified of everything, and we have some really creepy neighbors, is it wrong of me to think he has a responsibility to be home with me. I'd understand a few days, but not so long. Is it okay for a man to do this?

2007-09-02 05:43:09 · 17 answers · asked by Jeennie H 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I met this guy online and we have yet to meet. At first, I have blown him off considering he's younger than me; we have different religions; and he live in Egypt and I am in the Philippines. But then, he was persistent and have won my lonely heart. We've been in touch through e-mail, YM chats, SMS and telephone calls. I've learned to be patient because I truly want to give this relationship a chance and he has come to rely on me. However, lately this relationship has become one-sided - I am the only one making an effort to connect with him. He has valid reasons, many of which I hold on to dearly just to validate my foolish pride. I've tried to replace him with others but alas, my heart have settled on him.
Have mercy on me and help me recover from this insanity I've accustomed to.

2007-09-02 05:43:00 · 3 answers · asked by kitten 2 in Singles & Dating

i said love my husbend very much but i m interested in some one else

2007-09-02 05:41:42 · 1 answers · asked by sehar 1 in Friends

I have a very good friend (a relative actually, but we've always been more like friends) who is dying. I've known him my entire life. He's had cancer for several years, so as much as I had hoped he would be able to beat it, I guess I've also known for years that it was going to happen. I saw him yesterday for probably the last time. Death is always hard, but do you think it is harder when someone you love dies suddenly or when you know ahead of time that it is going to happen. I'm just curious because I'm having a hard time dealing with the idea that I've just said good-bye to him for probably the last time.

2007-09-02 05:41:12 · 5 answers · asked by JVar 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok ,so my boyfriend and I having been dating for a little bit more than 3 months. He works Mon-Fri but has the weekends off. During the weekdays, he comes over my house or I go over his...and everytime we hang out he falls asleep (did I mention he's 23...) On the weekends we go out, but we're home by either 12 or 1 in the morning, and he falls asleep again! Its not fair to me and even though I don't say anything about it to him, it really bothers me. What to do?!?!

2007-09-02 05:38:07 · 28 answers · asked by lex5489 1 in Singles & Dating

Dont say you size n stuff shouldnt matter in a relationship cuz it doesnt to me but I was wondering what you thought in our size differences.

I am 5'4 && 115 pounds
My boyfriend is 6'5 && about 203 pounds

What do you think? Big difference?

2007-09-02 05:37:49 · 8 answers · asked by RUN THAT FKR DOWN 1 in Singles & Dating

Should a man put his wife first in front of other people and things before kids are involved?

2007-09-02 05:37:49 · 12 answers · asked by Jeennie H 1 in Marriage & Divorce

if there was a female customer who came in about once a month and you thought she was super cute, but she always had other guys around her, what would you do to get her? would you even try? would you think she was a player and stay away? what attracts a male bartender to a customer other than just to 'hookup'?

2007-09-02 05:36:47 · 1 answers · asked by kelly k 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been seeing someone for about 5 months and everything seems so serious i really miss my friend.

2007-09-02 05:35:11 · 1 answers · asked by Cinderella 5 in Singles & Dating

Did you argue at all with your spouse before you guys were married ? did you argue alot or a little ? I met someone that I feel is my husband, but we argue alot about petty stuff, then kiss and make-up. is this a bad sign or normal ? I don't know . need advice

2007-09-02 05:30:49 · 22 answers · asked by 2teens2todds 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I met this guy who is the bartender at the local bar a year ago,he had asked for my number and i gave it to him,then left to go to a friends house(who is also his friend)he found out i was there and came over,i crashed on the couch and him on the floor.he drove me to his car the next morning.he never called.throughout the year i would go in there about once a month and he always flirts with me,gives me a hug,free shots,etc.at one point i called his best friend crying because of some drama dealing with me and my x,ever since his friend has loved me,now when im in the bar i notice him staring but he never makes a move,never calls.but he seems to like me when im in there,why?

2007-09-02 05:26:46 · 5 answers · asked by kelly k 1 in Singles & Dating

girls who use nail varnish & what is your favourite colour nail varnish ( for a girl)

2007-09-02 05:26:13 · 8 answers · asked by Sara p 1 in Singles & Dating

They've been together for a year, she's obessed and he pratically hates her. Me and him messed around yesterday..and I'm pretty sure that's not the first time he has cheated on her. He doesn't give a rats a*s about her. He won't break up with her 'cause he knows she'll kill herself. [yes, she's THAT obessed.] She has a shrine of him. it's horrible. They aren't even really "old enogh to date" [in some adults' opinions.]
Somebody has to do something..

what can I do?

2007-09-02 05:25:12 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My nephew is VERY bright and at one time wanted to get into computer gaming design... Now I'm noticing that he is picking up his father's lazy ways. His dad doesnt work and does nothing but play video games and watch dvds all day. (My sister has a very good paying job)

Now he wants to put off college and try flipping houses. This is not a viable career move because in our area and many others, there are more people fallling into the foreclosure trap than actually purchasing houses....

Help!

P.S. He is a whiz at a science and math...

2007-09-02 05:23:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My mum and nanna dont really get on very well but we all live together because i am disabled. I am starting college on wednesday and get paid £30 a week. My mum said to me, when u start on wednesday can u pay for ur dinner just for that day and then i will give it u back when u come home and i said yeah because i know i will get it back and she doesnt get paid untill wednesday. My mum just went to the shop and my nanna came in and said to me, dont let your mum make you pay for your own dinner on wednsday she gets enough for you! so i said to her why are u bothered if im not, i said i no im going to get it back. but she is annoying me so much lately, im 16 and my mum gives me £10 a week but i also get paid £90 a week, and if my mum is 1 day late with my spends my nanna starts goin on saying that she has enough money to give it me. i think im too old for spends now anyway coz im 16 and getting paid. My nanna getting involved causes so many arguments!

2007-09-02 05:19:37 · 1 answers · asked by xXx~mimi~xXx 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

My ex just called out of the blue and left a message saying he will be in my town for a week and wants to get together for dinner sometime.

I am horrified. Even though we split amicably 3 years ago, we haven't talked for over a year, I've moved on. I have no interest in him or what he's been doing.

I've been trying to decide:
1. Ignore the message, and hope he takes the hint and doesn't just show up at my house

2. Leave him a message and tell him I'm not interested. This might cause him to get drunk and show up anyway and cause trouble.

3. Or just go and meet him for dinner.

What would you do?

2007-09-02 05:07:17 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok so I am marked up in the worst place possible..
It is under my bottom lip...
Yeah i know i'm dumb, I didnt even notice I got a hickey until the morning when I turned on the lights..
What can I tell my parents???
Please help??
I dont have a cat so i cant used the cat scratched me...
and no little sibilings that would help me..
please help..
I would really appreciate...

2007-09-02 05:04:46 · 27 answers · asked by Lovely Lady 2 in Family

My friend, who I have known for more than half of my life, is getting married soon. I just finished school and had to move far away in order to start a new job. I don't have the money to travel (my job doesn't pay much right now) to her wedding and moreover, I don't have enough money to pay for my bridesmaid dress, the hotel, etc. She knows about my situation, since I confronted her with my issue. I don't think she's mad that I can't go, but time will tell. What are your thoughts on the situation. How would you feel if your friend told you she couldn't make it to your wedding because she doesn't have the money? Would you understand?

2007-09-02 04:55:50 · 9 answers · asked by milly 1 in Weddings

Husband is monitoring his wife's every move. The wife is not being unfathful or anything. He is being verbally abusive. I need to know if for any reason he has any rights to do this. I need to collect information for this lady so she can prepare herself for action against him.

2007-09-02 04:55:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-02 04:53:34 · 32 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

As per code it states I must notify her 30 days prior to departure, and if she doen't respond it constitutes acceptance.
It has been 30 days since she received the notice and the revised parenting plan. Local Lawyer all want a fat retainer just to chat with me.

2007-09-02 04:45:26 · 7 answers · asked by GONZO 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I moved a month ago during the summer to the Middle East, and I had my first day of school today, and I feel very homesick. I made friends, but I still have such a sad feeling ... I feel I don't belong, I feel out of place

I am very far from home (Canada), and I have had only one day of school... will this feeling pass? Or will I have it for the next couple of years?

=(

2007-09-02 04:41:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

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2007-09-02 04:39:38 · 8 answers · asked by reinformer 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-02 04:38:15 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-09-02 04:35:19 · 4 answers · asked by nadella_sudhakar 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I traveled across the country for his sister's wedding. The day we returned, he said he wanted to break up bc he can't be there for me like I need him to right now and it's not fair. We dated 3 yrs and he'd stopped putting in effort, leaving me feeling insecure and doubting him. I thought this might finally make him see I'm worth it.

Since then, he's completely blown me off. He refuses to talk about his feelings, and yells at me if I call and try to talk things over, he says the reason we broke up was so he didn't have to deal with me being upset.

Instead of trying to make things work, he chose to run away and not take any responsibility for the way he's treated me and made me feel. But he still talks about the future, like we'll get together again/he'll be there for me when he's ready. I miss him, but I've been much happier without having someone I love not treat me well again and again. I know I need to move on-- but part of me wonders, do you think he could ever really change?

2007-09-02 04:26:00 · 15 answers · asked by autumn 1 in Singles & Dating

I don't really know what to do, my boyfriend always brings up how other girls are 'hot' or 'sexy' and tells me maybe if I looked like them then maybe I'd be attractive.

I hate hearing him say that I'm not attractive to him, because I want to give him everything but I'm not sure what to do.

Any advice?

2007-09-02 04:17:07 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

She is caught by total surprize. Not only that he has cheated, but with another man ! She was kept clueless by his cheating life style.

2007-09-02 04:09:47 · 14 answers · asked by woodster 4 in Marriage & Divorce

MY FIANCE MOVED AWAY ABOUT 2 MONTHS AGO, IF YOU LOOK AT MY PREVIOUS POST REGARDING HIM IT WILL SAVE ME A LOT OF TIME, THANKS :) ANYWAYS, HE'S FROM THE SOUTH AND HE NEVER WAS ABLE TO ADAPT TO LIFE IN THE NORTHEAST TO HE LEFT. HE HAD GIVEN IT TWO TRIES, ALTHOUGH THE 2ND TIME HE DIDN'T DO ANYTHING EXCEPT MAKE HIMSELF MISERABLE BY REFUSING TO DO ANYTHING. HE WASN'T WORKING, WASN'T IN SCHOOL, ETC. WELL, HE THOUGHT HE WOULD BE HAPPIER IN TX WITH MEXICANS. HE'S HALF MEX AND HALF CAUCASIAN...HE IDETIFIES MORE WITH MEXICANS BECAUSE THAT'S WHAT HE GREW UP AROUND, WHICH IS WHY HE NEVER WAS COMFORTABLE IN THE NORTHEAST, HE ALWAYS THOUGHT PEOPLE WERE JUDGING HIM-TOTALLY NOT TRUE, EVERYONE ABSOLUTELY ADORED HIM. ANYWAYS, HE STILL TELLS ME HE LOVES AND MISSES ME, AND HE'S NOT HAPPY DOWN THERE EITHER. IT'S BEEN 2 MONTHS AND HE'S DONE NOTHING. HE TELLS ME HE'S NOT COMING BACK BUT I REFUSE TO GIVE UP ON HIM. WE ONLY HAVE ONE LIFE, AND THIS IS THE GUY FOR ME. IS HE CRAVING ATTENTION OR WHAT?

2007-09-02 04:09:30 · 8 answers · asked by diyta 4 in Singles & Dating