They've been together for a year, she's obessed and he pratically hates her. Me and him messed around yesterday..and I'm pretty sure that's not the first time he has cheated on her. He doesn't give a rats a*s about her. He won't break up with her 'cause he knows she'll kill herself. [yes, she's THAT obessed.] She has a shrine of him. it's horrible. They aren't even really "old enogh to date" [in some adults' opinions.]
Somebody has to do something..
what can I do?
2007-09-02 05:25:12 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
enough* oops.
2007-09-02 05:25:36 · update #1
She does trust me.
but it's impossible.
a nuclear war couldn't get her off of him. -_-
2007-09-02 05:32:57 · update #2
Your job in this equation is simple: Wake up, stop falling for a line, and leave this guy alone. They've only been together for a year, (one little measely trip around the sun) and he's already been unfaithful to her and fallen out of love with her. He's staying with her just so she won't kill herself, is that it? Please tell me you don't really believe that. In one sentence you said that he "doesn't give a rat's a s s about her" but that being said, how do you reconcile that point of view with his staying with her out of concern for her safety? Those two positions conflict horribly, don't they?
If you were to "win" this prize of a man, what you will have won is a first class ticket to misery. YOU would be the one he's complaining about to the next girl he's slobbering all over...cheaters cheat, and if you're fortunate enough to know this ahead of time (and you certainly DO), that's life giving you fair enough warning to change course before you run into disaster. That's a lucky break because sometimes we don't see these things coming. Trust me, there's better for you out there than this; you deserve it, so go find it. Leave this clown alone; he's got a girlfriend to save.
2007-09-02 05:43:11 · answer #1 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to get her off her suicidal obsession, if she trusts you enough to listen to you about that. (And she probably shouldn't trust you, since you're messing with her BF.) I don't see anything you personally can do, because your motives are tainted. Maybe you can get someone else to get close to her and try to explain that no boy is worth killing yourself over. This won't be solved in one day, and surely not by you. I'd stay clear of him until it does. Good luck.
2007-09-02 12:30:21 · answer #2 · answered by David W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it'd be best to get her parents involved. Tell them that he wants to leave her, but she said she'd kill herself if he did. That way, he could leave her, and her parents could watch her constantly.
2007-09-02 12:32:18 · answer #3 · answered by Wolf Girl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋