Ok ,so my boyfriend and I having been dating for a little bit more than 3 months. He works Mon-Fri but has the weekends off. During the weekdays, he comes over my house or I go over his...and everytime we hang out he falls asleep (did I mention he's 23...) On the weekends we go out, but we're home by either 12 or 1 in the morning, and he falls asleep again! Its not fair to me and even though I don't say anything about it to him, it really bothers me. What to do?!?!
2007-09-02 05:38:07 · 28 answers · asked by lex5489 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-09-02 05:42:53 · answer #1 · answered by Ratfink 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What does he do for a living? If he works really hard than maybe you should cut him some slack, especially if you don't work or don't work as hard at your job as he does.
Also, if the guy works out to keep in shape than this might be another reason why he's so tired. If this is the case than give him the benefit of the doubt from Monday - Thursday. Let him know that Friday through Sunday you want to go out, be lively and have FUN!
If he's still not into it than maybe it's time to move on. I mean, you two are pretty young. You should be living like rock stars.
Good partying friend!
2007-09-02 05:45:56 · answer #2 · answered by gh0st 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The man's tired; he's hard-working and industrious (and that's an admirable quality in a 23 year old) so obviously he's going to be successful in life as evidenced by his drive and determination. It sounds to me like you're very young and you still want the party animal.....I suppose that's age appropriate, but when the party animal runs out of money (and therefore, options) your man will still be going strong. I guess it's a matter of priorities, but just remember, what's important to you now may not be so important to you later...say, a year from now. ( I mean you can only party in a car or over someone else's house for so long before that ceases to be fun). A working man is capable of so much more, so pick your pony, but choose wisely, Grasshopper. Ask some of your girlfriends (especially any that have also ever been pregnant)....a working man is worth his weight in gold! That's Life:101.
2007-09-02 05:53:31 · answer #3 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You haven't given much detail about what other things he has going on - is he working full or part time? Does he go to school as well? How strenuous is his job? Is he under a lot of stress? Is there a medical issue that is making him tired all the time? All of those things are factors and need to be taken into consideration. If you enjoy spending time with him otherwise, then it is worth the time to discuss this with him and see if there is more to it than you think. Give him a chance to work it out with you before you decide that it isn't fair to you - it may be something he just can not control and he may need your support.
2007-09-02 05:45:41 · answer #4 · answered by JVar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cut the poor guy some slack. He's tired. What does he do for a living? how many hours is he working? what time does he get up in the morning? Maybe he's physically or mentally exhausted. I can't stay awake until midnight or 1. but I wake up by 4:30 am every day. It's not fair to you? Is it fair to him that you expect him to be able to stay awake? Don't you want to sleep when you're tired?
2007-09-02 05:42:00 · answer #5 · answered by PrincessJ 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about it. I understand your frustration but different people need different amounts of sleep. I used to work, go to school, work around the house and was involved in church activities and would get about 4-6 hours of sleep a day because of all this and hanging out with my GF. (now my wife). I sacrificed sleep to spend time with her but I could go off of a few hrs. My wife on the other hand can sleep 10 to 12 hrs a day. Just talk to him.
2007-09-02 05:43:08 · answer #6 · answered by Eddie C 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hello Alexis,,,OK here it is,,He could be falling asleep because he feels very safe and relaxed and well pleased with you Alexis but what you could try is a new pretty outfit or some shocking new adventure to take him on. Men sometimes fall asleep do to fatigue and stress so check with that first OK then let him have it. SO enjoy Life and have fun..Bob.
2007-09-02 05:49:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The fact that they flipped out on just him falling asleep tells a lot of things about your parents. The parents with the most restrictive rules tend to have been the biggest pigs / sluts when they were teenagers themselves thinking that their kids will be the same way. The good old, "What did you do when you were my age?" is won that will always hit them between the eyes the more they were bad boys / bad girls. Their reaction says more than their words on this one.
2016-05-19 03:47:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have a job? If you don't than you probably don't know how he feels. If it's bothering you so much talk to him and ask him why he always falls asleep, even tho the answer is obvious; he is tired and needs to rest.
2007-09-02 05:46:55 · answer #9 · answered by DoLz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he snore? He might have sleep apnea and isn't getting restful sleep. Or maybe he's just working too hard and needs his rest. I used to beg my woman to take it as a compliment ("when I'm around you I'm just so relaxed I drop right off"), but it turned out I had sleep apnea. Careful he doesn't fall asleep driving. Good luck.
2007-09-02 05:43:23 · answer #10 · answered by David W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey you can't really complain till you've spoken to him about this and given him a chance to sort it out. 'Dump him' is obviously not the answer as you obviously care enough to post this question so I would say sit him down and tell him how you feel, its the only way you will get an answer, he will probably be really surprised that you haven't said anything before now.
2007-09-02 05:46:53 · answer #11 · answered by Holly2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋