I met this guy who is the bartender at the local bar a year ago,he had asked for my number and i gave it to him,then left to go to a friends house(who is also his friend)he found out i was there and came over,i crashed on the couch and him on the floor.he drove me to his car the next morning.he never called.throughout the year i would go in there about once a month and he always flirts with me,gives me a hug,free shots,etc.at one point i called his best friend crying because of some drama dealing with me and my x,ever since his friend has loved me,now when im in the bar i notice him staring but he never makes a move,never calls.but he seems to like me when im in there,why?
2007-09-02 05:26:46 · 5 answers · asked by kelly k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
bartenders like everyone when they are in his bar. they are trying to get tips. sounds like he just likes u as a friend or he would have called. move on.
2007-09-02 05:29:58 · answer #1 · answered by I am me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, he may be in a relationship, and doesn't want to mess things up with the woman he's with.
It sounds like he's interested enough in you, but the friendship thing is as far as it's going to go right now.
Hey, no matter what you're feeling right now, it is nice to have a great guy friend. Who better than a man to give you advice on men.
Things will either work out with him or they won't, but do not put your life on hold. It's not worth it.
2007-09-02 12:31:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either his friend likes you know, so he's trying not to make a move, or he may not know how you feel about him. After a whole year, I think it's time to tell him how you feel!!!
2007-09-02 12:30:31 · answer #3 · answered by rebecca f 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cause he knows he cant have, his friend loves you. guys normally do not backstab each other like that. I'm sure he wants you but he is not willing to do make a move and ruin a friendship over you.
2007-09-02 12:30:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
bartenders flirt its their part of their job. they have to get tips some way.
2007-09-02 12:31:00 · answer #5 · answered by Aquiel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋