my bf and i have been together for a long time and he was my first and all but a lot of drama is going on right now and this girl has been messing with him at skool and flirting wit him and asking him out but he told her he has a girl but then he also told her if we break up he consider going wit her. and i have been crying a lot so wat should i do. if you have any questions just ask and ill answer them most likely. HELP ME PLZ!!!!
2007-09-02 06:36:41 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You shouldn't be upset about what he said to the other girl. He did say he was with you! If he was interested in her. he wouldn't have mentioned you at all. Also don't let the drama get to you. If it makes you uncomfortable, you will make your bf uncomfortable. Then guess what.. he'll look elsewhere! Try to avoid being upset. Show the other girl you and your bf are damn happy. This will kill her and she will lay off.
2007-09-02 07:26:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it appears that he wants to test the waters. He's still young and immature so let him. It'll be his loss, not yours. In the meantime, I think you need some support time with your friends and family -- you probably have not made time for anyone else because of your boyfriend. There's plenty to do to keep busy. Don't call him and if he calls to hangout or just wants to talk -- just let him know you're busy (or just about ready to go out), but thank him anyway for the invite or call. He'll begin to get the picture. You stay strong and in a few weeks you'll be ready to move on. Good luck.
2007-09-02 14:00:15 · answer #2 · answered by Chabeech 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what's the problem?
She has been coming on to him, and he has told her no. Numerous times if I read you question right.
So what are you crying about?
He has been faithful, he hasn't gone out with her.
You are feeling insecure because this girl has been after him and your scared he will say yes, but he has proven that he is with you and told her no.
I don't understand why that would make you cry.
If anything, you should be pissed off, and tell this girl to knock it off trying to chase your guy. He told her no, now she needs to leave him alone.
If he said he would "consider" going out with her if you guys ever broke up, so what?
He didn't say "when" you break up.
He told her he has a girl. That would be YOU.
Your bringing way to much drama into it.
2007-09-02 13:46:10 · answer #3 · answered by Mr R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, once a man makes you cry the tears of sadness, it's not worth it.
Plus, you're uncertain about your relationship so, you're going to end up breaking up with him, anyways.
Besides, I think that he doesn't care about you anymore, since he said that. He's not worth your time.
2007-09-02 14:35:40 · answer #4 · answered by Thao Kun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does not sound like his commitment to your relationship is very strong based on what you have said. I would talk to him about his true feelings for you and go from there.
Good Luck!
2007-09-02 13:43:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him if he said he would go out with if u 2 brake up he is trying to he would say 'i have a girl and i love her and i don't plan to brake up with her cause i love her'so it's just better if u brake up and find someone else.I know you will find someone he does not seem like the boyfriend for u.u can find somebody better!!!!!!!!good luck*
2007-09-02 13:54:46 · answer #6 · answered by Mamita 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Young people behave this way, so do us 'grown ups', just move on. There will be others, I guarantee it.
2007-09-02 13:42:36 · answer #7 · answered by rhqman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him....he shouldnt be sayinig that to other girls. you dont make backup gfs of bfs when you are in a relationship
2007-09-02 13:42:11 · answer #8 · answered by bribri 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok
2007-09-02 14:19:50 · answer #9 · answered by ashley h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋