My BF and I broke up a year ago when I left him for another man. That relationship went sour and I still was in love with my ex. I moved back in as a roomate. During the last few months we have been getting closer.(sharing a bed, acting like a couple, etc.) No he has started to date somebody and I told him Im heartbroken and he told me that this is what he went through when I did this to him last year and we are just friends now. Now, Im sleeping in my own bed again, he never calls me, emails me, or really has dinner with me. he is always out with his new BF. I know im jealous, How do I get over him? Im cant stop thinking about him all day. I have expressed this to him he just tells me that there is no chance for us since I left him last year. I have never felt this way before, how do I act?
2007-09-02 06:32:43 · 11 answers · asked by Jose 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Moving in with him was idiotic. Not only is it unhealthy for the 2 of you, but if either of you decide to date other people (which now he has), it's going to be worse for you, not to mention the new person he is dating. That's a horrible situation and the only way to fix it is to move out, go somewhere else. You could pretty much go ANYWHERE else and your mental state would improve.
2007-09-02 06:40:51 · answer #1 · answered by JamJamJaroo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move out and stay away from him. By the way, are you gay? Are you a man? I can't tell for sure. If you are then shame on you. God does not like that. If you are a woman, then I am sorry for asking that question, but we have a right to know. But to tell you how to act is impossible. He made it clear that you and him are over. You are hurt and sad etc. But you gotta get out of the same living quarters. That just makes it worse. You will grieve for awhile but you gotta get back out there and get on with your life and not let this take over your life. (smile)
2007-09-02 06:48:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is angry with you right now. Just give him some more time. If he really loves you he be back with you. I have friend who just came out of relationship with a girl he dated for 3 yrs she left him for another guy and tried a lot to get her to come back to her. Now he swear he will never be with her because she broke his trust and he can't trust her again but I know deep down there something still exist there for her. Its just he is hurt and afraid to admit it and afraid to hurt again. Do this you start dating too maybe he will get jealous or it may turn out in wrong way if he thinks your doing this again with him
2007-09-02 06:41:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why the hell would you live with him? That sounds like an uncomfortable situation, to say the least. Move out and move on. You're just throwing salt on the wound.
2007-09-02 06:39:32 · answer #4 · answered by Angie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You let your relationships leave a lot of mess, don't you. Move out, is the simple answer. You can't get over someone you live with. Good luck.
2007-09-02 06:42:01 · answer #5 · answered by David W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move out! Why are you continuing to torture yourself? He apparently is taking pleasure in "paying you back" for what you did to him.....Take the higher road and leave...Save your dignity....learn to love yourself again.....As the saying goes "why make this guy a priority when you're only an option to him?" Hope this helps...Good luck!
2007-09-02 06:43:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a pair! You are no good for each other, stop wasting your life, move out and find yourself a new BF, there's millions of 'em out there!
2007-09-02 06:40:25 · answer #7 · answered by rhqman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First get your butt out of there that was stupied to move back in. he got his pay back on you. got to have sex and get you back to where he wanted sounds like he moved on and you need to . if you really loved him like you say you would not have left him for another man. you sound like you need to grow up and do it in your own place not his. let him be happy .
2007-09-02 06:41:42 · answer #8 · answered by tweettreat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It looks like he purposefully got close to you again just so he could hurt you like you hurt him before. You need to move out and move on.
2007-09-02 06:38:03 · answer #9 · answered by prettyblueeyes101010 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should move out if you really want to move on with your life.
2007-09-02 06:39:41 · answer #10 · answered by his wife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋