I never thought it would bother me but I find myself wondering if it does now. I've been going out with a really great guy for awhile and we just had sex last weekend for the first time. It was really dissapointing because he was so small and kinda limp. I know that sounds so mean but I have to ask someone about this. Sex isn't everything in a relationship but boy...it's not the kind of thing you look forward to when you're partner is like that
2007-09-02 06:19:21 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
HAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!
Oh, I mean, poor guy....
2007-09-02 06:24:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's an old saying that goes back even before my great-grandmother's time: "Long and thin goes too far in. Short and fat is where it's at."
Of course it matters! (unless you are trying to reassure a guy) Other things matter too, like what you DO with it - the other old saying goes "It's not the size of your boat, but the motion of the ocean." Considering the size of the BABY that comes out, every guy is just a little dinghy.
In other words, Yeah, you want it bigger because that is more stimulating, but you don't want some guy with this mutant huge monster.
If it was small and LIMP, it sounds like he wasn't erect - probably from being too worried about it being your first time. Take some more time with him the next time, and you might be surprised just how much bigger it will be. Even if it isn't much bigger, though, it's still him, not just a hole stretching tool. Read up on different positions and moves to make that will be more satisfying. Check out the book, "The Joy of Sex"
2007-09-03 09:33:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless it is EXTREMELY small or large size doesn't really matter. What matters is what sort of effort the couple puts into it to make it good.
Were you disappointed because it was over too fast or there wasn't enough foreplay? These are things that are can be rectified by gently talking to your partner. Try taking the lead next time and showing him what works for you.
2007-09-02 13:27:30 · answer #3 · answered by looneybin90 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not always does size matter, at times it is performance techniques. He probably is not very confident with himself in the experience department.
2007-09-02 13:25:56 · answer #4 · answered by cockroachdavis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it really matters that much to you don't be with him, find someone with a bigger di*k. You said it yourself sex is not everything in a relationship.
2007-09-02 13:25:39 · answer #5 · answered by DoLz 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
wow honey. I guess it all comes down to if you really love him. And don't tell him. There are plenty of ways for him to satisfy you. Ask him if he likes to get kinky. I am sure glad I don't have to worry about that.
2007-09-02 13:27:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't like what he is packing , no matter what size , it's not gonna work out. Eventually you'll get bored if you aren't satisfied.
2007-09-02 13:26:17 · answer #7 · answered by YUMMY1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was probably wasn't turned on that much. Size doesn't matter if you have strong feelings for that person. I guess you don't have any.
2007-09-02 13:28:39 · answer #8 · answered by Luna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unlucky hun, maybe if u like him just pop to ann summers and get a little friend cos if he aint doing it for u then u might need some help
2007-09-02 13:24:52 · answer #9 · answered by some people are rude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he was nervous, try it again and do a little something freaky to get him going wild. Second time is always better
2007-09-02 13:25:18 · answer #10 · answered by Buddy Love 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes,the size of a guy shows more confidence more macho filling and with that Ill get more women and she wont be not satisfied
2007-09-02 13:24:45 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋