Family & Relationships - 27 August 2007

I met a woman over the internet last week. We've talked on messenger a couple of times and yesterday we exchanged photos and the reaction was ok. Anyhow I feel insecure because I am shy and feel like she's way prettier than me. She's the kind of girl that can be suitable for me and I know that I must go for her, but at the same time I have fear to be rejected. The thing is I can't hide my feelings, but I am conscious that right now we are on the first steps and I don't want to go too fast or make myself false illusions. Any advice?

2007-08-27 04:31:06 · 11 answers · asked by Bentral 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-27 04:30:57 · 11 answers · asked by Ron 1 in Singles & Dating

My Aunt gave me a signed baseball by torii hunter, a Bracelet, a sweater, 2 pictures with snoopy on it, and singing cards for my birthday i need help writing a card because i have written SO many like 40 already i ran out of ideas. Please help if you can

2007-08-27 04:30:30 · 5 answers · asked by kkamdog 2 in Family

2007-08-27 04:27:47 · 12 answers · asked by Mariah♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

My wife and I were at the beach. A bird flew over us, I ducked and the bird crap landed in my wife's sandwich.

But that was the last sandwich, my wife was starving, and I was too embarrased to say anything.

She ate it and got sick. The doctor said it's severe food poisoning, and she ate something very toxic.

I didn't say anything. But now she has to take a couple days off from work. The doctor said she should take the week off to get it out of her system. And go to the hospital if it gets worse.

What do I do? Should I tell her that I saw the bird doo doo and chose not to say anything?

I can't have sex with her because she's so sick. She's refusing me and I'm starting to feel guilty.

What do I do?

2007-08-27 04:22:50 · 31 answers · asked by hershey highway road thug 2 in Marriage & Divorce

This is primarily for women who have been married a long time. I love my hubby of 18 yrs., but sometimes I just plain dislike him. Is this part of a regular marriage?

2007-08-27 04:22:22 · 19 answers · asked by Jen2U 3 in Marriage & Divorce

me and my hubby are 21 years old.. we've been married over 3 years and 2 months now..married in the name of love.. just graduate from college.. planning to continue for further studies..so do you all think we should have a baby at this time?

just wanna see what's your thoughts of this..
thank you in advance..

2007-08-27 04:18:18 · 15 answers · asked by NEILISA **Shane's Mama** 6 in Marriage & Divorce

My means what they do so after them marriage come a child.
which activited they do???? what a man and women do so born a child??? tell me them activies a to z

2007-08-27 04:14:57 · 5 answers · asked by Anoop Agrwal 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Summer is basically over so its curfew during the school year, (my senior year at that). My mom has recently told me that I will only be allowed out til midnight on the weekends. As in I must be in the house at 12:00 am sharp or my dress will turn to rags and my carriage will turn into a pumpkin. I don’t like having a curfew set to midnight because often times I don’t go out until 9 or 9:30. That means, if I’m 45 min. away from my house I have to leave early to get home on time. That gives me just enough time to do absolutely nothing. Half of the time I hang out with my friends is devoted to driving. (There is nothing to do in this small town and everything to do is at the least 20 min away) I’m a good student. I don’t do drugs or go to keg parties. I let my parents know where I will be.

However, I know my mother doesn’t see “no curfew” as an option. And so, I’m just wondering, what the hell is the appropriate curfew for me, a 17 (nearly 18) year old senior in high school.

2007-08-27 04:08:30 · 14 answers · asked by red 2 in Friends

2007-08-27 04:07:49 · 10 answers · asked by Aryssa 2 in Singles & Dating

I have returned all the money (infact Double amount) of what she helped me when i was in search of job because she was from a well off family but i'm from a middle class family. She rejected me because I was unemployed. So I have returned double amount of what she helped with........Have I done the right thing.....?????

2007-08-27 04:06:13 · 20 answers · asked by vijay s 1 in Family

2007-08-27 04:06:09 · 30 answers · asked by soulquestr 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-27 04:03:10 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Unbeknownst to my boyfriend, I just discovered that he has a fancy for teen & mother/daughter porn. I have no issues with him looking at porn. However, I must admit that I am a little disturbed and weirded out by his tastes in pleasure. I don't know if this is something I should be concerned about or not. Is it ok as long as it's just fantasy and not reality? Any mature advice would be appreciated.

2007-08-27 04:01:51 · 23 answers · asked by ravenmickey 2 in Marriage & Divorce

a girl showed every sign of bein in love with me...but she rejected me wen i proposed...i gave up all my other contacts for her....can anyone help me?

2007-08-27 03:59:03 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok I have an older friend who was my past college teacher last semester. We have grown close and had lunch and all that and I have been to her house to see her new baby. Well a couple of weekends ago I had bought a gift for her baby and I wrote her in an email telling her, and wrote me back and told me that I was welcome to come by in the evening that week sometime, and I answered her on that but she never emailed me and confirmed. I have written her a second time a few days ago just to remind her but she still hasn't responded. I understand that she started school and is now teaching again and also has a fairly newborn baby... but I dont understand why she would tell me to come over but never confirm. She has never gone this long w/out responding either and I didnt write anything rude in the emails. What do you think.. I really need to give that gift b/c it is a baby outfit for 0-3 months and her baby is already almost 2 months!... I dont know what her deal is??

2007-08-27 03:56:40 · 7 answers · asked by sagittarius_girl806 1 in Family

My husband and I split up two weeks ago, this pained me to do it but he was not going to change, we recently found out our youngest daughter has special needs which has put a strain on us and I have been in and out of hospital ill recently.

the thing is now he wont speak to me, after things being okish, as, he went away without telling me, I became very sick and was rushed in to hosital to have an operation, he ignored all the phone calls to get hold of him to return to look after the kids, he wont answer his phone to me now, and I have only had one text saying' i didnt realise how bad you were' he is one for burying his head in the sand and not facing things, but he wont respond to emails phone calls or texts to me, or even see his daughter, instead his family have turned there back on me and so has he, what can I do??

do you men think this is his way of coping, he just wont speak to me, I mean he has never been like this and to leave me in hospital really ill with collapsed lung

2007-08-27 03:54:39 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

he always says this is just one of his e-mail buddies, but one day I came to visit him at work and on his computer was a e-mail he sent this woman saying honey do this for me love G, when I asked he said he doesn't even now this woman except by e-mail, but when I went thru his roller dex on his desk her name and home and work number he had it all, she now e-mails at home little spiritual things saying god loves you and stuff like that, my husband is starting to drink every day, and one time I saw his car parked in front of a aprtment building were one of the woman lives

2007-08-27 03:53:41 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

MY father-in-law's helath has been declining, rapidly. He has an old corvette that is difficult to drive and has decided to give it to my husband. We should be happy to receive such a generous gift but it makes my husband incredibly sad because this makes him except that his dad is getting old and can't do these things anymore. We told him to sell the vette and buy something he can drive but he has so many memories of the two of them working on it that he wants to pass it down, not to mentio nthis was his dream car. We feel like we want to repay him for this but we do not have the money to actually pay him for the car, and he wouldn't except the money. what should we do? do you give a thnak you gift? it seems so awkward to take his prized possesion b/c he is to old??? any suggestions?

2007-08-27 03:52:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Ok there's this guy who've I've been dating for about 7 mths now. He's wonderful I think anyway :). But there's a problem always huh. And I need a lil advice on what I should do. When me and him first meet we each told the other that we did have parnters and were both in relationships. Well I broke it off w/ my bf at the time about 1 mth later. Still to this day he's hasn't broke it off w/ his gf. And every time I bring up the subject he's real good at changing it. And we do get to see each other. Not as often as I would like. On one hand I try to convice myself that I know he is busy. He is a cop and I know what come's w/ the job. I know he has to jump up and go even if he's off duty if something goes down. On top of that one of his parents has been in the hospital for some time now. Sadly she wont make it home. So I know he's got ALOT. Going on in his life. I care alot about him. He's been there for me when no one has. But what do I do. Do I cut it off on a personal basics. HELP!!

2007-08-27 03:51:50 · 1 answers · asked by Kimberly 2 in Singles & Dating

My ex and I broke up a few months ago. So apparently he has moved on when the new girl looks back at me and just stares in wonderment. This has happen several times before with me. Are these girls insecure with themselves that they are trying to find fault with you or wondering what is it with her and not me? I would have figured that the ex-girlfriend would be staring at the new girl not vice versa.

2007-08-27 03:47:07 · 23 answers · asked by blckmustng2002 1 in Singles & Dating

"He's so real." "He tells it like it is." "He rips on everyone." "He doesn't lie. He calls 'em like he sees 'em." "He doesn't care what people think."
Somehow, somewhere, street logic has filtered itself into the US mainstream. People see lairs as heroes of honesty and, yes, integrity because they have the ability to say ANYTHING without tack or class. Jerks and verbal bullies are the most candid with other people’s fault, even though they hide and deflect from their faults like their lives depended on it. This isn’t just high school anymore. People of all ages are fooled by this fake integrity while the jerks are laughing their heads off. I'm sick of it. "No, your honor, he didn't treat me like this when we met... Although he did treat other people like this, but never me."
My question details have a lot of emotions in it, but don't let that distract you from answering the question WITHOUT a solution, instead of just correcting the way I asked it. You know what I’m talking about.

2007-08-27 03:45:28 · 4 answers · asked by TobeSoft 1 in Singles & Dating

I love my boyfriend but sometimes I feel that he takes me for granted. I don't think that he thinks I'm speacial. He makes these statements such if we break up he would do such and such. I feel that he can see his life without me. He says he was hurt in the past and is just being realistic. Also, there was this girl that he new and during the course of our relationship she has become his best friend. I feel that that should not have happended because I should be his best friend. He continued being friends with her even though he new how I felt about it. Can we get through this?

2007-08-27 03:44:13 · 9 answers · asked by honeyluv_2010 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My parents aren't together anymore but when they were still they named me after a Native American Apache woman who was a warrior named Lozen.

2007-08-27 03:40:01 · 17 answers · asked by Amy 1 in Family

I haven't had a real BF and GF relationship in about 2 1/2 years. (By choice). But now I have recently started dating a guy about 2 months now. (But have know each other 1 moth prior in my past I have had trust issues with men. (Due to a pass rape) I have told him about my trust issue but I can honestly say that I have no trust issue with him at all. But now that I’m feeling that everything is going great between us. I just don't want to mess things up. I have always joked with my GF about relationships. I would say I can't keep a man but I surely can get rid of one. But now I want so bad to keep this one. I’m struggling with my own insecurities on how to keep a healthy relationship with this guy. His brother is a well know music artist in Houston and his brother (my BF) is also on his label. So this means a lot of clubbing on his part and mine. We are always in the lime light together. I’m still trying to get use to this type of life style, but he understands that this is something I

2007-08-27 03:39:31 · 3 answers · asked by vikkilynn5454 1 in Singles & Dating

We are having a destination wedding and want it to be close friends and family. We are going to be mailing out invitations within the next month, as the wedding is Feb. 2, and we want to give people enough time for arrangements. Our issue is that his mother and my uncle keep telling distant family to come, they are inviting them to our wedding. We have talked to both of them about keeping it small, that we don't want distant relatives (some we haven't spoken to in years). As a couple we do not think it's right to invite distant family, as it is an expense for them, and don't want to look like we are asking for gifts. We will be having a party in the spring for all family and friends. My question is, how do we get these family members to stop inviting everybody? And can someone tell me the invite rule, isn't something like if you have talked to them in the past year you can send them an invite or something?
Thank you for your help.

2007-08-27 03:38:00 · 16 answers · asked by jamaican me crazy 3 in Weddings

We are both Grandparents 52&55 yrs old. But have a really hot time!You know it just keeps getting better, neither of us has slowed down since our teens! So it isnt like were ready for the rocking chair.

2007-08-27 03:34:23 · 14 answers · asked by kat 2 in Weddings

Does a girl like it when a guy tells them they have beautiful eyes

2007-08-27 03:32:15 · 22 answers · asked by John 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-27 03:31:40 · 14 answers · asked by Hem 1 in Singles & Dating

I can have a boy girl party!! And I decided mainly what I want to do. I am going to go ice skating with my 15 friends (boys and girls) and then we are going to come back to my house...but does anyone have any ideas what to do at my house?? Thanks!!

2007-08-27 03:29:59 · 6 answers · asked by Sean 1 in Friends