2007-08-27 04:27:47 · 12 answers · asked by Mariah♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes. I just don't believe in sex after marriage.
2007-08-27 04:32:49 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe in it?
Yes, I believe that it exists.
Is it morally right?
Yes, because marriage happens later and later now (meaning both in the last 30 years and in the last 300 years) because we are prolonging adolescence, because we live longer, and because we expect marriage to be a lifelong, fulfilling relationship. Back in the first century a.d., people only lived to be 50, so you had to get married at 14-17 (right when people were getting sexual urges) to have a family to help out with making a living. In the wake of the second femininist movement and the "family values" movement, we have realized that marriage _should_ be forever, that divorce is destructive, and that getting married early in life may be counterproductive and, well, stupid.
So we have a HUGE gap between the time that sexual urges begin and the time we're married. And knowledge of sex, and your partner, is important in a relationship. When not abused, sex prior to marriage is just as beautiful and wonderful as in the context of marriage. So, because of society's VAST changes, it is not wrong.
2007-08-27 12:03:28 · answer #2 · answered by Perdendosi 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe in sex before marriage and silly me believe in sex during marriage and hopefully after marriage
2007-08-27 11:54:54 · answer #3 · answered by dave n 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Sex is a big part of any relationship. Why wait till marriage and then find out that you aren't compatible sexually. There is nothing wrong with sex if its with someone you love, and you are an adult and know what you want in life.
2007-08-27 11:41:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course. How silly it would be to wait until I was married to find out that my wife to be is totally sexually incompetant and incompatable with me. Wow, that would be stupid. The whole concept of cilibacy until marriage is antiquated and silly.
2007-08-27 11:36:02 · answer #5 · answered by kmankman4321 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is up to the individual--
If you are planning to get married it probably would be in your best interests to remain a virgin.
I decided at 13 that I was never getting married, never having children, so there is no ones view but my own to consider....
If you decide to, make sure you have adequate birth control...
2007-08-27 11:38:40 · answer #6 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly i believe it's up to the person. ther ilife, their choices their consequences. If waiting works for you then good if not good as well i guess. I think there are pros and cons for waiting just like there are for premarital sex.
2007-08-27 11:36:48 · answer #7 · answered by Harley B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have 1 kid that I have never married her father. I am so glad that I never did. He is a peice. I am glad that I had sex, if I hadn't had my daughter then I would probally be right there with him.
2007-08-27 11:35:08 · answer #8 · answered by Cortney H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, But technically i did wait lol. But everyone is different and everyone knows when it is the right time for them
2007-08-27 11:40:56 · answer #9 · answered by KLM 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, although wish I had waited, wouldn't have the problems I'm getting now.
2007-08-27 12:43:19 · answer #10 · answered by Tom M 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋