some advice pls!!!?

Question

Ok there's this guy who've I've been dating for about 7 mths now. He's wonderful I think anyway :). But there's a problem always huh. And I need a lil advice on what I should do. When me and him first meet we each told the other that we did have parnters and were both in relationships. Well I broke it off w/ my bf at the time about 1 mth later. Still to this day he's hasn't broke it off w/ his gf. And every time I bring up the subject he's real good at changing it. And we do get to see each other. Not as often as I would like. On one hand I try to convice myself that I know he is busy. He is a cop and I know what come's w/ the job. I know he has to jump up and go even if he's off duty if something goes down. On top of that one of his parents has been in the hospital for some time now. Sadly she wont make it home. So I know he's got ALOT. Going on in his life. I care alot about him. He's been there for me when no one has. But what do I do. Do I cut it off on a personal basics. HELP!!

Answer 1

You know he has a girlfriend he doesn't talk about, you know he is a police officer (which carries with it an experience, I'm afraid no one outside of it can understand), and he is fixing to loss a parent who isn't close to you in anyway(which shows that one, he doesn't see how intimate relationships should work, or two, he does but doesn't want to get close to you at all). Ether way you know your dealing with trouble, yet your going to keep trying to love him? Cut if off! Sorry just yea, stop it, of course that isn't going to work ether, the heart scars you can't just end a relationship. So really I hope for your sack that he will get thru all this and come running back for your lovin, i hope.....