Family & Relationships - 27 August 2007

and its all my fault i treated him like ****, he was the first guy ever to treat me good. i want him back . what do i do?

2007-08-27 05:58:32 · 1 answers · asked by Risen 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok so my boyfriend and I have been friends for the last 10 years. He got married about 5 yrs ago and is going thru his divorce. We've been seriously dating now for about a year. Thing is, his ex is driving me and him up the wall. She made a fake email for him and tried to pretend she was him. She emailed me trying to talk about things we have done in bed. I know its her bc my bf doesnt even have a computer. When I told him he was p-o'd. He confronted her and she claims it was me that made the email? Uh hello why would I make a fake email from him and send to myself to have a convo w/ myself about things we have done. Just does not make any sense. She's also trying to explain to him that I'm a cow and weigh over 300lbs and wears a size XXXL. Uhm don't you think he knows what I look like and what size I wear by now? She is just so annoying!! Anyways, she's being difficult about the big D and won't sign the papers. What can he/I/we do to get her to sign and finally leave us alone!?!?

2007-08-27 05:56:44 · 11 answers · asked by ♥ Uwish ♥ 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I been with my girlfriend for quite some time now and i never been happier. From a outter aspect what do you think "makes a relationship worth it's while".

2007-08-27 05:56:39 · 27 answers · asked by Hector 1 in Singles & Dating

Right now i'm a senior in high school. My boyfriend is on his first year at central michigan. We want to go to college together once i graduate. (we've been togetehr for 2.5 years we are both 100% confident in our relationship) If i were to go to central with him when i graduate, id have to transfer to a different college because they don't have my major (nursing). my 2nd choice would be michigan state.. Its good for nursing. i wasn't originally planning on leaving home my 1st year untill i decided to go to school with him. If he were to get accepted to Michigan state then i would go there.. if he didnt they i would not. My last choice would be going to schoolcraft (community) my 1st 2 years and then transfer. I would stay at home and it would be alot cheaper. Am i basing my decisions too much on my boyfriend? Would it be stupid to go 2 hours away to central and then have to transfer? I'm a smart girl with a good head on my shoulders i just need some advice.

2007-08-27 05:56:31 · 10 answers · asked by This is me. 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

This was said to me by one of my late dads m8's. who watched me grow up into a woman, and it was said after not seeing them for a while and after my dad had died. They payd their respects and then just said it to me, i wasn't thinking straight at the time and very emotional to see them and didn't ask why most unlike me! but i have always wondered Why and what they meant by it.
My dad was Irish, I was the only daughter with 4 brothers

2007-08-27 05:53:08 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

or maybe both''

2007-08-27 05:52:40 · 7 answers · asked by bigturkeyme 6 in Friends

Ok this is mainly for men but women I'd like to know how you are treated?
Curious...(men) do you tend to treat your wife like your Mom? You know expecting her to cook, clean, do your laundry, get you up, keep up with your social life as well as "where you put your _____"? Or do you treat her as your wife....Thanking her for the job she does and making sure she feels like a wife and not just the maid/mom?
Think about it....say thank you! Don't have the attitude of "I thank her by giving her a nice house and etc." TELL HER THANK YOU! If you do that already I give you a HUGE pat on the back.
Women...do you feel like a MOM to hubby or wife?

2007-08-27 05:51:33 · 20 answers · asked by okiemom67 3 in Marriage & Divorce

INVITATION:
Bubbles
to
Giggles
request the honour of your presence
at the celebration of their marriage
on Saturday, the third of November
two thousand and seven
at half past three in the afternoon
Cathedral Of The Woods
100 Stokes Road
Medford, New Jersey

RECEPTION CARD:
Adult Buffet Reception
at five o'clock in the afternoon
The Kings Grant Ballroom on Lake James
50 Landings Drive
Marlton, New Jersey

RESPOND CARD:
Please reply on or before
October 1, 2007
M____________________
___ number of persons attending

2007-08-27 05:51:17 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

If your against it, why?
If your for it, why?

2007-08-27 05:50:09 · 9 answers · asked by MiracleMonroe (Alex H.) 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Isn't it so sad these days when kids can't even feel comfortable enough to talk to their parents? When I am out and about I observe the way that parents treat their children I realize then why they might be afraid to talk to them. Parents will often treat their children with absolutely no respect. They tower over them with authority and don't allow them to express themselves. They don't respect them by letting them talk for themselves. They literally scare them into compliance. Yell at them in public and don't discipline in a loving and caring manner teaching them what to do instead of what not to do.

What a sad society that we live in. Now don't get me wrong there are some good parents out there too, but it seems most of the kids that are on here don't even have enough guts to face their own parents and ask them simple questions.

We have been open with our daughter since the beginning. She is only 5, but she knows she can trust us and come to both her Daddy and I with anything.

2007-08-27 05:50:08 · 15 answers · asked by hsmommy06 7 in Family

He mentioned something last night about something he had seen on facebook. I didn't know he had a facebook - nor did our daughters. One of them immediately said, "Oh - Dad, can I add you?" and he said, "Uh...oh... sure." So she did and she later looked up his profile and showed me.

He has a particularly good looking photo and a lot of information about himself. It seemed to me that he went out of his way to make himself sound wealthy and exciting. For instance, he put down things that he has dabbled in years ago, but doesn't actually pursue (like sailing and flying) as his hobbies. He also listed our home address.

However, in all of this detail, he had absolutely NO MENTION that he was married or a father. (He didn't say he was single, he just avoided the whole question. BTW, we've been together for 17 years.)

I think this could be trouble.

I haven't said or done anything, and I'm not into spying or playing games. What do you think I should do?

2007-08-27 05:50:01 · 25 answers · asked by ceezee 3 in Marriage & Divorce

so i wrot this tell me if you like it.

If I could change I would
Just for a day if I could.
It feels so strange
I look so deranged
But just showing my love
If only I could

If I could change I would
Just for a day if I could. .
You should have understood
But u didn’t take my love like u should

If I could change I would
Just for a day if I could. .
If only I read your mind
Then maybe you would be mine
But things always change
You’re just out of my range
Just let me write another page
Here I stand again engaged

Don’t know what to do or what to say
All I can do is pray!
But baby I don't have all day...

Here I am standing outside your door
I didn’t know what to tell you
Staring at the floor
I didn’t know what to say
You lead me astray...
And my thoughts and feelings,
Were liked faded lines.
Looking in your eyes it showed me I’ll be fine
All when I saw you standing there
All it took was one glare
Love was there!

how is it please tell me!!

2007-08-27 05:47:01 · 7 answers · asked by <3...lessthanperfect...</3 2 in Singles & Dating

If he does, how do you handle it? Or do you just take those free drinks and deal with it. DO they seem possesive after buying that drink? MEN::::: Why do you think you can do that? Where is the balance in your head? I have asked several women this question and tend to get the same answer. Talk back to me and tell what you think!

2007-08-27 05:46:50 · 15 answers · asked by GNJ 3 in Singles & Dating

My parents say if i do not study engieering or join the indian army or be a doctor they will disown me and send me back to my country which is ........india.
I mean what the hell?? Is it there life or mine. I wanna do business and be a physicist but nooo u must be engineer like our ancestors. What the f""""
Who shud i contact about this as they r pretty violent ppl.
Plz dont suggest engineer and doctors are good professions as i have made up my own mind.

and by the way i live in the UK

2007-08-27 05:46:41 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-27 05:43:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Help. Please.

2007-08-27 05:40:21 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

would u break up with him /her ? I found my fiancee having a profile and seeking and chatting with other people. What are you going to do if you are in my situation ?

2007-08-27 05:38:33 · 34 answers · asked by vanes 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been seeing my wife for a total of 3 1/2 years. we are recently married, and she has never given me oral sex, while I have no problem giving it to her. She says she does not like it. Is there anything I can do to change her mind?

2007-08-27 05:36:52 · 23 answers · asked by Janus 2 in Singles & Dating

About 6 weeks ago (at 11 weeks pregnant) my husband went threw this stage where he wasn’t sure if he was ready for the role of "daddy" and took the weekend to himself to think about things. After 3 days apart, he came home, said he was ready to be a daddy and we have been fine ever since. Well, this past weekend he has been acting the exact same as right before he blew up and left last time. We actually got into a fight Friday, Sat and last night. I thought this was something men just go threw before they become fathers, but I’m really starting to wonder. And as my mom put it "one breakdown is understandable, but husbands shouldn’t be needing continuous breaks from their pregnant wife" and I agree with her. He said Sat night that he can’t seem to have any fun around me anymore because all I want to do is relax and sleep. I told him being pregnant drains everything out of me and he said that was just an excuse. Your opinion... what in the world is going on? Please only serious answers.

2007-08-27 05:34:16 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Im real lonely and i wanna find someone to share time with. Im 35 and i wanna meet someone good for me. Ive tried internet dating, bars, meeting girls through friends and i come up short. Its so hard finding a mate. I crave attention and companionship more so now than ever since a lot of my friends have moved on. What do people suggest i do?

2007-08-27 05:33:38 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This year I was planning to shed myself of my "ditzy girl" reputation. So yesterday, there was a party for my grade of about 20 kids. We were playing a game and I didn't really get it, so I put down the wrong cards, said the wrong things at the wrong time, did the wrong things at the wrong time and looked completely stupid (and ditzy). I also said some pretty dumb things. Why is this so hard for me?

2007-08-27 05:33:29 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

She sends cards, goodie packages, texts him she misses him, pictures of herself, and puts how she loves him on his myspace page, puts pictures of them in college (which was over 5 years ago) on her page, and is always telling me how he is her BEST friend. I tried to look over all of this because I am not the type to say who his friends can and can not be, I even invited her to his birthday party as a surprise to him (she lives out of town and I put her up in a hotel for a night) I have tried to be friends through email with her, but I just can't stand to hear her talk about MY fiance the way she does.
With my fiances's permission I sent her an email nicely asking her to back off a little and respect my fiance and I's relationship. I explained to her where I was coming from and how my fiance and I agreed, as he wouldn't want me to have a male friend that treated me like that. She's furious & had a pity party on herself. Why doesn't she understand where I am coming from?

2007-08-27 05:33:25 · 36 answers · asked by ~Lizzy~ 3 in Singles & Dating

Hello every one my friend is getting married in 2 weeks and her ceremony place just sent her check back in the mail and said that they are closing down.
She needs to find a place to have her ceremony fast in Galveston, TX and betweenn Dickinson, Tx which is where the reception will be so somewhere that is close in distance.
Thanks for the help guys!!!

2007-08-27 05:33:23 · 7 answers · asked by UNFORGETTABLE 2 in Weddings

been married three months.......I'll take any ideas on meals to make,, things to do,,, we have four grandkids they are visiting (three theirs one is mine but they are great enough to include her))... Help from inlaws who can say what they would like to have when they visit their new daughter in law and grandchildren would be wonderful.... I want to make this a great experience for them and my family?? Thanks

2007-08-27 05:31:28 · 12 answers · asked by ? 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok I am in a weird situation. I have a friend who I think is well not being a very good friend. We made a deal in calling or writing each other once a week. Well he has not called or written. I don't know what do to. Lots of people say he likes me and well I don't believe it so what would you do?

2007-08-27 05:31:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My BF was a very hot headed person, but has calm down TON. I wasn’t in the picture when he was headed. But now he feels that ppl are trying to test him. (Pride issue). He calls me to vent about things but I don't know what to say. I try to tell him to be the bigger man, but since his brother is a well know artist and he is also an artist. He feels that he must defend everything. IE: We where at the club the other nite and some guy just came up and threw money at him. That’s very disrespectful in his eyes. I was able to clam him down but is there anything I really can say are do. He has valid reasons to be upset but not to fight. I want him to know that I will be there for him no matter what, but I don't want him to get in trouble over some crazy stuff. Any tips on what and how to say things to him when he is upset. And so that his pride is being affected.

2007-08-27 05:30:59 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Is their anyway that a soon to be 18 years old ger married without parents concent is it legal in vegas ?

2007-08-27 05:27:26 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What are some really good truth or dare questions to ask a guy friend?

2007-08-27 05:25:44 · 4 answers · asked by luv my gsd 1 in Singles & Dating

have sexual relations? And how long have you two been together? I'm in a 5 year relationship, and I'm just curious to see how we compare to other couples.

2007-08-27 05:24:35 · 35 answers · asked by batmantis1999 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My fiancé and I are getting married on September 21, 2007. We have just found out some information that we are not happy with about the venue we are currently holding the reception in. We are in the process of picking another venue, and with luck we’ve narrowed it down to two venues – the venues are our two favourite restaurants. Each venue has it’s pros and cons, but my fiancé and I are having trouble being objective so I’m hoping that’s where you can help out. Based on the pros and cons that I list for each restaurant, can you voice your concerns, your preference, whatever. Price of the actual food is not an issue with these restaurants.

2007-08-27 05:24:00 · 13 answers · asked by quiet_hands 4 in Weddings