would u break up with him /her ? I found my fiancee having a profile and seeking and chatting with other people. What are you going to do if you are in my situation ?
2007-08-27 05:38:33 · 34 answers · asked by vanes 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
actually i was snooping and i found it out. I pretend to be one of the girl interested in him and ive talking and chatting with him. then he said he is single and that he had a girfriend but it didnt work out. I broke up with him anyway. He said he started setting this site this yr.
2007-08-27 06:15:25 · update #1
i confronted him when i couldnt bear all of the lies and cheats he had been doing because i disguised as a girl seeking for man too. I cant remember how many profiles i made just to talk and catch him.He also said some things about me and i got really shocked about this. When i confronted him about his profile he immediately cancelled his profile and begged for forgiveness. kept on saying sorry but i broke up with him anyway. a guy like him may be lying to me since the start of our relationship.
2007-08-27 06:21:47 · update #2
I'd break up. This is the only thing you've found out-- imagine how much has gone on that you don't know about. Lies are like cockroaches-- for every 1 you see there are 100 more hidden
2007-08-27 05:45:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
That would be a big time problem. Ask him if how he would feel if you posted a profile on a date site? Is he still looking. Is your relationship on the rocks and can;t or doesn;t want to be saved? You have to confront him. This is sign that he is thinking bout cheating, is cheating and that there is a major problem in the relationship. Also consider premaritial counseling. Communication, Love, Respect, Trust, Compassion, That Both Your Needs are Met, Sharing, Caring, Et
2007-08-27 05:48:37 · answer #2 · answered by Robert Miller 95670 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friend found the same thing confronted her fiance and he was sorry and begged for forgiveness, the first time...next time he lied...now they are married with a child and she is miserable. She has photos of him with a woman and e-mails and he is still lying about it. Although I don't like to stereotype this behavior will probably worsen over time. This should probably be a deal breaker...Sorry, for you pain
2007-08-27 05:49:47 · answer #3 · answered by dobeys2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront him. Maybe he is trying to play the feild with out you knowing? Ask him why you are trying to seek others when he's engaged. If he doesnt talk then do you really know how long the relationship is going to go.
2007-08-27 05:44:07 · answer #4 · answered by antabellam 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What were you doing when you happened to find her profile? Were you seeking also? Were you spying on her? Did you meet each other on such a site? It sounds like there's more to the story than you're telling.
2007-08-27 05:47:48 · answer #5 · answered by Ann 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well definatly talk about it. Come on a bit strong cause im not sure if these things tell you when they signed up or joined or w/e but talk about it see what the deal is ask him to delete it if it pops up again somewhere else then you should consider ending it =/
2007-08-27 05:44:13 · answer #6 · answered by Keith 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
by "find" the profile - do you mean you were snooping or did you just accidently fall upon it. which then leads me to ask.. why were you on the dating site?
relationships are all about trust and this one doesnt have it. stop being suspicious and trust our boyfriend!
maybe it's an old profile from awhile ago?
2007-08-27 05:44:00 · answer #7 · answered by Kipper to the CUP! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it does not sound to me like she is ready for marriage. I think at the very least, put the brakes on any wedding plans. Then I think it is time to do some soul searching on your real relationship with her. Perhaps you should part ways but you need to do the analysis.
2007-08-27 05:44:59 · answer #8 · answered by Willie J 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If we'd just started dating, I'd assume it existed before we got together and we'd talk about whether it was appropriate or not for it to still be up and active.
If we'd been dating a while, and especially if we were engaged, it would be a deal breaker.
2007-08-27 05:42:03 · answer #9 · answered by . 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Actually thats a huge hint into your future...You at home and him running around doing stuff behind our back...I would call it off...Break it off before you end up having children and being a single parent.
2007-08-27 05:46:03 · answer #10 · answered by **Mishelly** 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋