Ok I am in a weird situation. I have a friend who I think is well not being a very good friend. We made a deal in calling or writing each other once a week. Well he has not called or written. I don't know what do to. Lots of people say he likes me and well I don't believe it so what would you do?
2007-08-27 05:31:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
no i am not in school and neither is he we only see each other on Sundays. And yes i do write and call. but everytime i call his mom answers and he does not bother to talk to me.
2007-08-27 11:11:53 · update #1
I think you got your answer right there.
If he liked you enough, he would take the time to call or write.
2007-08-27 05:35:33 · answer #1 · answered by m_c_m_a_n 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If they haven't contacted you when you made a deal that you would, they are not being a very good friend. You are correct about that. If I were you I would talk to them and tell them what you were thinking. If they are really your friend they will listen to you and understand what you're saying. They will also make an effort to try and contact you and keep the deal you had. Real friends that make commitments to each other keep them.
Also, forgive them for what has happened in the past and start new. Sometimes things slip peoples minds mabye because they are busy or just didn't have the time.
2007-08-27 12:41:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, situations change, people change. He could be busy and distracted, or could be persuing other options re "friends", so it's hard to say. I'd call and/or write once more and then step back- he'll know you are interested and need to decide how to respond on his own terms.
2007-08-27 12:37:57 · answer #3 · answered by GEEGEE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you called or written ?
if you have and he is not reponding then.
It may be time to just remember that he was a friend and let it go.
If you have not called or written then he may be waiting on you to make the first move.
2007-08-27 12:36:41 · answer #4 · answered by nobodytotalkabout 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't write or call again until he writes or calls you back. You don't want him to feel like you are pushing yourself on him. Good Luck.
2007-08-27 12:37:02 · answer #5 · answered by flirty30 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would keep it mellow......just chill out for awhile. A guy will talk when he's ready to talk and that's something that us women cant control sometimes you just have to let things air out and let it be...... It is what it is.....Good luck to you
2007-08-27 12:37:56 · answer #6 · answered by secure 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are u still in school? Well, maybe he's tired of doin' all that....How about actually spendin' time w/ each other? Actions speak louder than words......
2007-08-27 12:34:40 · answer #7 · answered by mz_noneya_biz 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe he has a reason, or, find another friend.
Bless You
2007-08-27 12:41:23 · answer #8 · answered by Brilliant 1forHIM 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop
2007-08-27 12:35:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋