Family & Relationships - 21 August 2007

I have loved this man that I met 7 months ago. He went off to college far away now and I am still in high school. He was always flirting with me and I have the feeling that he is the one. We haven't talked much, but don't get me wrong. Whenever we look at each other I just want to melt. I just know that I love him. Anyways, I know that I should be patient, but he has not said anything to me yet. So I am having a hard time with this. I probably won't see him often at all now. maybe once a year. I don't want to betray him by flirt ing with other guys because I love him. The only thing that is bothering me is that I don't know how he feels about me. I was completely sick and down in the dumps when he left and still am. He is not my boyfriend!

What do I do??
Someone help me!!!

Advice will be appreciated!! Best Answerer...10 points!

2007-08-21 03:22:15 · 6 answers · asked by Cowgirl26 4 in Singles & Dating

From past experiences, I need to collect info on what makes a guy mature in the eyes of women.......what they see as mature, or a mature experience.....or even interests or hobbies that seemed unique or mature.
All help is grately appreciated!
regards,
john

2007-08-21 03:20:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hello everyone i didnt know where to direct this question but me and my husband have been together for almost 7 years and here recently i have had a hard time getting excited if you know what i mean ? we lost our daughter about 11 months ago my mother says its stress and i just dont know but now my husband thinks im haveing an affair but im not !! i love him very much , i would do anything for him i dont have any problem with having an orgasm and i love having sex with my husband its getting excited thats the problem does anyone have any tips on how i can get my sexual desire back

2007-08-21 03:15:42 · 16 answers · asked by brandiknight2003 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I mean get to know another guy to see if it may or may not work out??? Without your bf knowing, of course! Is it 'that' bad of a thing to do?? Just to straighten out my mind... Im very confused right now!!!

2007-08-21 03:14:40 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-21 03:13:23 · 11 answers · asked by karne 1 in Weddings

I listened to a talk show this morning about people who stayed married but no longer loved their spouses for various reason. Most of these people had affairs of one sort of the other but the ones that intrigued me the most were the ones that said they had emotional affairs but not physical ones with someone other than their spouses. Do you think an emotional affair is considered cheating????

2007-08-21 03:13:07 · 25 answers · asked by Sunshine's Pic Is on 360 4 in Marriage & Divorce

should I do.
Best answer wins a dolphin fishing holiday off the coast of Iran protected by the UK navy.

2007-08-21 03:12:29 · 11 answers · asked by Britsruletheworld 1 in Singles & Dating

has infiltrated my email, and phones., and my space.com, police tell them not to bother me, but that doesnt stop them either. I continue to notify the police when I am harassed, but I have had enough.

2007-08-21 03:11:03 · 1 answers · asked by diva 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Married 12.5 years. She had 1 dog when we met. Discovered after marriage she was a "collector" of unwanted items. She has amassed 5 dogs, 1 monkey, and now a cat. She has filled the basement, attic, storage area above the garage, every closet, 2 of the 4 bedrooms and now its starting in the garage.
She claims I am bipolar due to my moods, go figure when Im home I'm moody. I work on the road, it sucks to come home to dog waste, damage, and a monkey that screams, bites, and stinks. Now add a litter box to the mix. She filed, stating that I need to be medicated for mental problems. Is this my problem??

2007-08-21 03:08:06 · 32 answers · asked by gearset01 2 in Marriage & Divorce

okay so i was watching the today show today, it was talking about teenagers and what makes them happy...i am a teenager, only the segment was talking about how PARENtS make thier children happy and that they're they're heros...NEItHER of them are my heros, infact, i dont even think i have one, is this the reason why i am so unhappy lately? i feel like they put too much pressure on me, i wanted to go 2 a summer camp w/ two close freinds of mine becuase one moved to washington dc, and my other friend is going 2 bording school...my parents said that i can only go 2 summer school if i get on the honnor role, which i took it as "if your not smart enough, your not going to do the stuff you want".... im not the only child in the family that has this same issue, my brother who is 27....is StILL LIVING At HOME, mainly becuase my parents pressured him too much so he started doin drugs, and it was a huge problem when i was younger, now everyday my parents bang on his door saying "what are(cont.)

2007-08-21 03:07:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Is dumping them already bad enough? Why do they have to go the extra mile to be mean?

2007-08-21 03:03:42 · 16 answers · asked by g 3 in Singles & Dating

OK
me and my boyfriend have beeen dating for about half a year and i want to kiss him sooooooooo bad!!!!!!!!!!! but the thing is that i'm like 1 1/2 inches taller then him. and when i kissed him the 1st time (it was only a peck) i kinda missed his lips and kissed his nose. it was so embarsasing!!! so how do i kiss him when i'm taller then him (with out missing his lips !!!)

HELP!!!!!!!!!!


Love,
Courtney Paige <3 Xoxoxox

2007-08-21 03:01:30 · 8 answers · asked by Xox C Casole Xox 1 in Singles & Dating

Even if a woman is dressed provacatively(let's say in a gym setting)he still comes across respectfully,doesn't look at her in a certain way or make lewd mannerisms towards her.Would this be considered weak?

2007-08-21 03:00:13 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My mother In-law baby sits my one year old and she gets bored. She babysits at my home once a week and some times more. She's a really social person so I think sitting around is not her thing. We don't have phone she can use just has her cell so not sure if she can use that, but the worst of it is she cleans and moves things around my house and it drives me crazy i told her how i felt and she still does it. It is embarrassing that she does things like that. She always has to be in control. I feel like she only baby sits because she has too and not that she wants to. What grandmother wouldn't want to babysit there grandchild? I need help. What can keep her busy while babysitting??? Help PLEASE---Note this is her first grandchild and only grandchild.

2007-08-21 02:59:46 · 2 answers · asked by JEB 1 in Family

What made the girl become "not worth fighting for"?

2007-08-21 02:59:08 · 10 answers · asked by hi 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Before I start im 17, grew up with a crazy childhood, no drugs or alcoholism, or anything. Just a very demanding mom and her constant yelling. I get set off at my girlfriend for stupid things and I will yell at her and she doesnt like it, I DONT LIKE IT either, how do I stop this I love her to death...I also get mad easily at little things and blow through the roof. What can I do to relax and not let these little things bother me? And what can i do to treat my girlfriend with the respect she deserves???

2007-08-21 02:59:00 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im 19 and my boyfriend is 23, we've been together for almost 3 years and we've lived together for about 18 months. i love him dearly but he is so insecure. he is controlling and possesive and is so worried that i'm going to cheat on him (which i would never do). its gotten to the point now where i dont think i can take it anymore, his temper gets out of control sometimes and he constantly puts me down. but hey, its not all bad!! lol. when its good its really good. but those times are few and far between. i lost contact with my friends when we started going out so i have no one i can really turn to. when i think of life without him, i get upset. i cant bare the thought of not being with him everyday. its so hard!!

2007-08-21 02:58:27 · 13 answers · asked by Kirsty 4 in Singles & Dating

If girls are anything like guys I know she is lying what do you think?

2007-08-21 02:57:52 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Is a friends with benefits situation a good idea?

2007-08-21 02:57:16 · 32 answers · asked by blackoil 1 in Singles & Dating

Twice now alcohol has been a problem between him and I and twice he has let me down. I know I can not control his drinking and I wouldn't try. I'm not against his drinking, what I don't like is when he drinks himself stupid. He has no self control when we're with other people, esp. his buddies who drink more often then he does and can handle their alcohol. He does not know when to stop even if he's the one driving, even when he tells me before hand that he doesn't plan on drinking that much. I know I can't rely on him when we go out like that, no matter what he says. My night is ruined because I get upset seeing him behave the way he does (I can't even look at him) and it makes it awkward for everyone else. I know he wouldn't like seeing me behave that way but I don't know how else to get through to him other than tell him if that is how he is going to choose to drink then I don't want to be a part of it and I won't go at all.

2007-08-21 02:57:04 · 11 answers · asked by Ersabette 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-21 02:56:55 · 9 answers · asked by Lan06 L 1 in Singles & Dating

if u say yes? can we chat sometimes? and THANK YOU for answering!

2007-08-21 02:56:10 · 25 answers · asked by always right 6 in Singles & Dating

i just got married and dont know what all to change and what do i need to change frist my driver lisence or my social securty card?

2007-08-21 02:55:13 · 16 answers · asked by ami h 1 in Weddings

2007-08-21 02:54:48 · 26 answers · asked by insenergy 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

I think it's really really wrong and that all guys should treat girls the way they want to be treated. I have never pressured my girlfriend about sex and if she doesn't want to do it thats fine its not the most important thing about the relationship. Why do men think thats all that girls are good for? They are worth so much more.

2007-08-21 02:51:27 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

he smokes arround me and tells me i cant do it and its stupid for me to quit! how can i actually quit smoking with him acting like this?

2007-08-21 02:51:15 · 21 answers · asked by Stephanie S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-21 02:50:56 · 7 answers · asked by crock712 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How do I get her to clean her apt and keep it clean? I mean it smells, she never cleans her dishes and even when she does, all she does is rinse them out...she rarely uses soap. The carpet is filthy with stains and has never been vacuumed. Her bedsheets are totally nasty and the bathroom...I never use. She used to watch my kids for me, but I couldnt take it any more because my 2yo always got sick after being over there. She has a 2 yo son that stays sick and I believe the condition of her apt is part to blame. I've seriously considered calling child protective services or the health dept. And anytime anyone(me, my mother, or my aunt) says something to her about it, she blows up. And she only cleans up a little if shes having company so she is well aware that she is living trifling. I mean should I get an agency involved so she can see how serious this is?

2007-08-21 02:50:14 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-08-21 02:48:20 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

A recent study showed that kids are happiest in a 2 parent household. Instead of staying together unhappily just for the sake of the kids, how does an unhappy couple reconcile and become happy again?

2007-08-21 02:47:10 · 7 answers · asked by isuckatphysics 2 in Other - Family & Relationships