Family & Relationships - 21 August 2007

This girl has talked to me on YM for ths last 2 weeks every night, sometimes spending as long as 5 hours talking to me. As well, as we have talked before over nearly 3 months. But what happens is I say something that makes her close down her email account and even her YA account, block me from her YM and then after awhile, she opens it back up and i send her another email and plead for her to talk to me again, and she does .

This has happened 4 times now.

She suffers from anxiety and depression. and I am wondering what to do now.

she has just shut down her email again.

told me that i was a "Creep who didnt respect women" and told me that i was trying to "control her"..

This is not really the case at all. She is overreacting big time (again).


I feel so sad now, i have really become attached to her and we have talked together about so many things about our past together.

I told her my family problems in the past and she told me hers.

2007-08-21 05:21:09 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

when you think about it, its really gross and wrong......even know almost all of us have done it.

What do you think the age limit is for doing that?

2007-08-21 05:20:03 · 6 answers · asked by Jasmine 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

When you treat a girl they have to feel
like a pricnesss and your girl and no one else.

2007-08-21 05:16:42 · 1 answers · asked by bubblelips 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-21 05:11:51 · 30 answers · asked by ctaynton 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I have always taken turns initiatating sex. But it always ends up being about him. He says thats the way its suppose to be since he provides for our family in other ways. We have been married approx. 3yrs and we never had problems before. Actually it was the other way around. He refuses to talk about it and I'm not sure what to do. I would like to have my love life back.

2007-08-21 05:11:42 · 25 answers · asked by Blondie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Thinking about maybe another credit card or something. I need help. We want to have the wedding this January but arent sure if we will have all the money together.

2007-08-21 05:09:41 · 12 answers · asked by cninaz 2 in Weddings

I'm 29, they are 24 and younger. I'm married and pregnant, they are all single. They are nice people, but I feel so old when they giggle about The Hills and Facebook and going out on Saturday nights. How can I not feel so old and boring around them, or do I need to find a new crowd?

2007-08-21 05:08:07 · 3 answers · asked by ♫ Sweet Honesty ♫ 5 in Friends

2007-08-21 05:06:52 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

plz help asap!

2007-08-21 05:05:01 · 29 answers · asked by lynlyn 1 in Singles & Dating

i work a lot and i have a friend that i have known for over 15 years i would really like to hang out with him,but hy husband is extreamly jealous and does not trust me, because of his mistakes and guilt. still i want to go out and have fun, but i don't want to fight,and i don't want to lie.

2007-08-21 05:04:52 · 25 answers · asked by Eli 1 in Marriage & Divorce

So I'm not sexually attracted to my bf...so what? It happens. I just don't have the energy to cheat on him, and there's more at stake, so I can't just dump him. He's a good guy, but I'm just not into him. There's no desire or passion. He sucks in bed, ok. There, I said it! And me not being sexually attracted to him doesn't help matters, cause I don't care to make a move either. We're just not compatible. Ok; I get it. But we used to be compatible. I used to be attracted to him in every way. Now, not so much. What's my deal?

2007-08-21 05:02:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i am studying in 12th...i got a proposal from a guy who is the captain of the school......every gal in the skool is behind him.He is handsome...,Hot luking and Sexy..but right now i have a bf..who is his Bst frnd.(i am not seriously into my present bf) ...so plz help me...should i accept the proposal or not....?????

2007-08-21 05:01:55 · 52 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We both caught some kind of romantic feelings for sure during our 3 month FWB situation; however we got into a huge argument a week ago where we said some nasty things to one another and then all communication ended!
Anyway, he contacted me on Friday. He sent me an email and all it said was “hahaha”.....I responded to his email by saying, “if you have something to say then just say it.”
It’s now Tuesday and he hasn’t responded to my response email.
He is 28 and very very shy and I am 32. I was his first ever!!!
Do you think he’ll ever respond?
Do you think I should email him again?
Does him emailing me mean he is missing me?
Also, two days before that email he posted online that I was amusingly crazy…..

2007-08-21 04:58:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-21 04:56:00 · 2 answers · asked by MeGaStar 2 in Singles & Dating

Has anyone tried any of the internet dating sites (eg., match.com, yahoo personals, etc.), which are supposed to be guaranteed to find you someone special, and still had no luck?

2007-08-21 04:54:58 · 11 answers · asked by sunflower 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-21 04:46:52 · 4 answers · asked by Surrendersavedmylife 2 in Singles & Dating

the maslow's hierarchy of needs states that one of the most basic needs is sex, how if one can live without it?

2007-08-21 04:44:28 · 8 answers · asked by curious 1 in Singles & Dating

It's like he wants something to be wrong. I had just opened my eyes...hadn't even gotten out of bed yet. He works nights. So he starts asking me what wrong. Nothin, why? He says, well because it just seems like somethings wrong. I said, I just woke up, I haven't even gotten up yet. Nothing's wrong. He asks are you sure? Um...yeah!
Now this goes on everyday! WHY????? He does the same thing with his son...always trying to pry out of us what's wrong, even if there really isn't anything wrong! What's his deal?

2007-08-21 04:44:20 · 22 answers · asked by Lexie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Newbie to divorce. Kids but grown. In a state where you have to live separate for a year. What are some qualities to look for in a divorce lawyer? Can you do it without a divorce lawyer?

2007-08-21 04:43:54 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

After I never got her phone number? She sat next to me in science she talked to me A LOT. She always talks to me a lot normally. She is always asking me for homework in homeroom. She likes to write "hi" on my arm a lot. And she lightly bumps into me on purpose in the hallway. She signed my yearbook with I love her she is so sexy on a picture of her that she circled. She wrote hi Jeff on a bunch of pages in my yearbook. She drops her pen on purpose in science and makes me pick it up. She also says that I beat you about my grades on my tests/quizzes. Or she says "I hate you" jokingly if I beat her in test/quiz. Do yuot hink that from wha she did with me the relationship is ruined over the summer because I never got her phone number? Do you think she wants to see me at the start of the new school year in a couple weeks for not being in contact with me the whole summer?

2007-08-21 04:43:49 · 17 answers · asked by jgrosse25554 1 in Singles & Dating

i want to know...guys wat goes on in ur mind when u check somebody out?

2007-08-21 04:39:03 · 7 answers · asked by -->MaRiAm<-- 2 in Singles & Dating

...no comment...

2007-08-21 04:37:14 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-21 04:37:05 · 36 answers · asked by mb0941 1 in Singles & Dating

I see that a lot of people are asking questions about being with an older guy. so here goes. I'm 23 and my boyfriend is 40..we are head over heels in love with each other. he has never been married before, doesn't have any kids, is the most amazing man, solid family background, he's well educated, has a PHD in Finance, he's European so has an open mind, he's very good to me, very respectful. I have not been married, don't have kids, as a matter of fact he's my first serious relationship after a 5 month one when i was 17. So the next few years I spent saying NO to everyone who asked me out, was interested, wanted a phone number and I don't know why, I guess i was just waiting for someone and I wasn't sure what... until I met him..and how you ask? well he was my professor however we didn't date until finals ended. and that's the truth. we were trying to be rather ethical about this and not cause problems for myself or him. but things turned out well l. So if there's love there's life..:

2007-08-21 04:35:18 · 5 answers · asked by Peqo 1 in Singles & Dating

what makes you happy?
which are the things which makes u feel sad...etc..

2007-08-21 04:33:22 · 8 answers · asked by bhavya_too cool 1 in Singles & Dating

besides looks, what do guys look for in a girl? what do they like about a girls personality?

2007-08-21 04:32:08 · 23 answers · asked by carbar 1 in Singles & Dating

i want to get engaged on the beach and wrote a short poem but i dont know if it is ok or not. it is:
I love you as you can see,
we are perfect for each other dont you agree,
forever together its you and me,
being with you is the best way to be,
especialy sitting her by the sea,
about to kneel on one knee,
and ask you to marry me.


let me know if that is cheesie or not. thanks

2007-08-21 04:30:55 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-08-21 04:30:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've known this really cute boy since grade 7, and he's a year older than me. He'll grate next year, while I'll be left behind. I will be taking a grade 12 course, so theirs a small chance that I'll end up in his class, but my problem is that... I've never spoken to him my whole life. He doesn't know who I am, but every time I come across him I look like a complete idiot. He probably thimks I'm stalking him, WHICH I'M NOT! But I don't know how to aproach him, wouldn't it be wierd to just go up to a stranger and say "Hi, I've had a crush on you since grade 7."

2007-08-21 04:30:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a 19 year old girl, living with my father but want to move out VERY soon. I am not in college right now because I am thinking of what I want to take this September/January.

I have just quit a job, two days ago. That I have been doing since I was 18.

I really don't like the job anymore because I find it really degrading and I regret what I do when I actulally do the job. It also make my relationship with my boyfriend stressful and I have already lost one boyfriend from this job before.

Yesterday I was feeling strong and not wanting to go back to the job but now, today I am feeling like I want to go back because I don't have a job now and I have bills to pay :(.
Plus I hate not having any money.


What do you think I should do in this situation?
Please only serious answers!

2007-08-21 04:25:35 · 26 answers · asked by Dee 2 in Other - Family & Relationships