I see that a lot of people are asking questions about being with an older guy. so here goes. I'm 23 and my boyfriend is 40..we are head over heels in love with each other. he has never been married before, doesn't have any kids, is the most amazing man, solid family background, he's well educated, has a PHD in Finance, he's European so has an open mind, he's very good to me, very respectful. I have not been married, don't have kids, as a matter of fact he's my first serious relationship after a 5 month one when i was 17. So the next few years I spent saying NO to everyone who asked me out, was interested, wanted a phone number and I don't know why, I guess i was just waiting for someone and I wasn't sure what... until I met him..and how you ask? well he was my professor however we didn't date until finals ended. and that's the truth. we were trying to be rather ethical about this and not cause problems for myself or him. but things turned out well l. So if there's love there's life..:
2007-08-21 04:35:18 · 5 answers · asked by Peqo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
okay sorry let me clarify! this was supposed to be sort of supporting to the people who kept asking well is it okay? should I? should I not?
sorry for the confusion!
2007-08-21 04:43:03 · update #1
oh and yes he's had a serious relationship before, for about 3-4 years. you haven't met a 23 year old who hasn't had a serious relationship?? seriously?? uhmm interesting...
2007-08-21 04:45:08 · update #2
are you asking if it is okay to marry an older guy then I say heck yeah if he is as great as you say he is . I mean he is 40 and never been married are you sure he has never been married before ? I think you should check him out throughly before commiting to him . I know it sounds ugly but there are alot of weirdos out there and alot of women end up on the street because of marrying the wrong man . Be carefull and make sure he is truly who he claims to be . good luck .
2007-08-21 04:41:31 · answer #1 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This one scares me and no matter what I say it is going to make you or someone mad.
The age isn't the thing here for me for the most part.
40 and he has never been married before. Okay, what about serious relationships?
He is your first serious relationship and you are 23?
He was your professor? That in it's self is scary to me.
Sorry, this whole thing doesn't sound good to me. Just my opinion.
2007-08-21 11:43:26 · answer #2 · answered by momsplinter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love has no boundaries or age limits,love is a mystery to begin with,If you and this man are in love with each other let nothing or no one get in your way.
2007-08-21 11:44:18 · answer #3 · answered by markc4364 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like this guys and u r deep deep.... in love with him I say married him that just my opinion it your life and it your choice!
2007-08-21 11:50:15 · answer #4 · answered by asian hottie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
congrats! Nothing at all wrong with it, and I hope everything works out well for you both!!!!!
2007-08-21 11:43:58 · answer #5 · answered by dinny's engaged!! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋