plz help asap!
2007-08-21 05:05:01 · 29 answers · asked by lynlyn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your age is a big factor in this. If you're old enough to be dating in the first place, let your parents know that you're mature enough to juggle school and a social life. Let them know that you won't have anything serious, and if they want you to stop, then you will. You have to compromise!
2007-08-21 05:11:00 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey ,
well can i ask u one thing before i answer ur question , well what is dating according to u ? just think abt this question first , if going out with people is dating then i dont think so that ur parents gonna get angry on ur decision but if u think dating means to try a realtionship , then i do think that ur parents do gonna oppose this , and if u say that how u can convince them , well question of convincing the parents only comes when the parents feel that whatever their kids are doing is wrong or can hurt them , then only somebody needs to convince thr parents , otherwise they are also human beings and they do understand that at a particular time everybody requires a comapanion , so first thing if dating according to u is going out with some one then u can easily convince ur parents and if dating mrans to try a realtionship then ur parents not gonna allow u 4 this , and well they are ur parents not ur enemy so u can talk to them and can tell them wht u feel , especially to ur mother , also they r ur parents and they have seen the world more than u so they know what is better 4 u ........
ok
tc and dont take and hasty decision , gud luk
2007-08-21 05:25:44 · answer #2 · answered by raj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Knowing how old you are would be helpful to us Answerers, but in my opinion you shouldn't date until you are 15 or 16. I'm 30 and that is old enough to remember that that was a bummer at the time, but now realize that my parents were right. If you are already 16 and they still say no, try figuring out if it's because you act immature or you want to date losers. Sit down with them, find out WHY they won't let you date and see what you can do to earn their trust.
They may just be worried that you'll get pregnant and ruin your life and theirs by having to raise their teenage daughter's kid.
2007-08-21 05:14:26 · answer #3 · answered by concretebrunette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's no way that will work for sure. Depending on your age, one argument that might be convincing is to explain to them that if you are allowed to begin dating activities under their supervision, then they can help guide you and teach you as you learn how to relate to boys. But, if they refuse to allow you to date until you are 18 and out of their home, then you will go wild with the sudden freedom, and will make a lot of mistakes and they won't be there to help you or protect you. Tell them that it's better to learn under their guidance, to ease slowly into new freedoms as you show that you have the maturity to handle it, instead of suddenly being given all the freedom in the world with none of the experience to handle it, when you turn 18.
You might also suggest that they allow limited dating activities at first. In other words, while your parents might object to you having a steady boyfriend and exclusively spending all your time with him - instead, maybe they would be ok with group dates, where you are interacting with lots of people and not just your own date. Those can often be more fun anyways. They might also feel better about it if you invite out different boys for group activities, instead of getting overly serious with just one boy. Show them that you are going to be slow and careful, and willing to wait before getting in over your head, and they will probably relax and allow you more freedoms.
2007-08-21 05:24:51 · answer #4 · answered by Janelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Possibly it has nothing to do with her at all, or even you. If her parents are strict for some reason ? maybe ? she has an older or younger sister that got pregnant and she wasn't married. A sibling that got into drugs. Could be a number of reasons.Now they are taking it out on her. Hey, maybe even they had her out of wedlock and don't want her to make the same mistake as they did. They are strict because their religion, up bringing, even their own mistakes.At least you can hang out with her a lot.
2016-05-18 23:31:05 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok hon how old are you? first of all parents are right if your under16 your not ready for real dating.
You can have crushes on guys or evengo out as they say in school this means holding hands talking on the phone, instanr messeging ask your parents if they find something wrong with that if they do maybe its time for you to have a heart to heart with them.
When you go , go with backup info about how this works in jr high or even high school show them you are mature enough to go out with a boy .
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ok be simple be mature,and dont throw a fit or cry and maybe just maybe they will begin to see you in a different light.
If you dont succeed in making them see your point ask them whats acceptable to them for you to start interating with boys your age.
good luck and be strong!
2007-08-21 05:16:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, how old are you?
Well, you can start by promising them you'll make curfew, that you'll keep up with your school work and that you won't do anything "bad". Do you have a guy you like? If you two want to date, allow him to meet your parents. Show them he's a nice guy and that he's real fun to be around. Then you should go meet his parents. Both your parents agree....Good to go. Don't do anything bad though ;) Remember, sex should be saved for that one real special guy in your life....I wanna cry now. F*cking girl...I liked her for 4+ years and even after all this time, I don't get to be her "special guy". Whatever....F*CK!
2007-08-21 05:10:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't say why they won't let you start dating. If it's because they think you are too young, maybe you could promise to go someplace more public, like to the mall or something instead of to a movie. Or maybe they could "chaperone" the date the first couple of times. I know it would be a drag to have mom or dad there, but if it proves to them you're not having wild tantric sex, it might be worth it.
Don't resent your parents. They are just looking out for you.
2007-08-21 05:09:27 · answer #8 · answered by leaptad 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't! They KNOW what is best for you even if you don't agree with them! Dating opens up all kinds of new problems and the older you are, the better you will be able to deal with them! You begging just shows them you still haven't matured enough yet!! Adults accept the situation and make the best of it. You are wanting to be an adult, right? Well, then start acting like one! You sound like a little kid, begging for what the parents won't give you!!!
2007-08-21 05:10:49 · answer #9 · answered by wish I were 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It first depends on how old you are. If you are in your teens it doesn't nececarily mean dating (I'm talking like 13-16) it means like liking each other. But if you are 17 and up tell them that first you would like to try out double dating or going to the movies with a bunch of friends! Good luck
2007-08-21 05:09:50 · answer #10 · answered by The LOVE doctor 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋