Family & Relationships - 21 August 2007

Wondering how much money you make to live a decent lifestyle w/ 1 child w/o taking support from childs father.

2007-08-21 03:48:10 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

not all women but alot of them want as much control as they can possible can

2007-08-21 03:47:58 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

All of your ex's shrunk to 3-inches tall and standing on the counter! They seem really scared as you lean in to make sure they are real! You poke one with your finger and he falls down! What would you say and/or do with them all!?

2007-08-21 03:47:20 · 3 answers · asked by Isabella 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

After watching my friend of 16 years die of cancer about 1 1/2 years ago at 38 years of age I find that life just doesn't make sense. I believe we all die when God intends us to die and there's no getting around that. All the talk people have of if only_______ had happened so and so wouldn't be dead to me is ridiculous.
However, since she died I have started to feel like we are just like a bunch of candles, The wind constantly blows and poof we're gone. Currently, I don't find the idea that we're going someplace else comforting. I hate watching CSI or any show that depicts and glorifies death. 80% of the shows we have on TV center around death and finding the "killer". I would like to be joyful again and enjoy life. I can't seem to find my way there. Sometimes I feel like I am just going through the motions.

2007-08-21 03:46:16 · 30 answers · asked by sophiasgr8 4 in Friends

All of your ex's shrunk to 3-inches tall and standing on the counter! They seem really scared as you lean in to make sure they are real! You poke one with your finger and he falls down! What would you say and/or do with them all!?

2007-08-21 03:45:57 · 45 answers · asked by Isabella 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my bf are really close but everytime we go to the mall this chick is always there and she runs over and jumps into his arms!! i get so pissed cuz they start flirting... yesterday i was just standing there all upset. i asked him if he liked her and he said no but im scared he does and wont admit it. i used to be friends with the chick but now its like we secretly hate eachother.. and i also asked him to ask her if she has feelings for him and she said no she just thinks hes hot.
Im stressing big time over this any advice!??
Alexa.xo

2007-08-21 03:45:53 · 31 answers · asked by Alexa 1 in Singles & Dating

I am looking for ideas for something nice for my girlfriend to come home to today. We have been struggling and i bought her flowers the other day and want to keep things going. I didnt have work and she did so i have some time to do a few nice things for her. Does anyone have some ideas that would blow her mind that could be done in a few hours either things that you have done or received. Thanks for the ideas.

2007-08-21 03:45:24 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok this is a very strange situation...bare with me. My Stepfather all of a sudden filed for divorce about a month ago from my Mom... everything was fine even the day prior to him kicking her out. She moves out.... then last week he's diganosed with brain, lung and hip cancer. He dies Saturday... The divorce is not final. She didn't want the divorce in the first place. Now what happens? His children aren't allowing my family to the funeral, his daughter had him taken off life support without even telling my mom he was in the hospital. My mother is convinced that having a huge brain tumor impaired his judgement..and he wouldnt have wanted to seperate if he wasnt sick. Now what happens with their divorce? She hasn't even signed any papers... so are the still married? What rights does she have?

2007-08-21 03:45:08 · 20 answers · asked by ? 4 in Marriage & Divorce

and that her selfishness is stressing everyone out. She spends all of her money on unnesersay things ,and fast food rather than buying groceries and paying her debts,resulting in her gaining weight and not having money for her bills.She cries to her daughter for money ,(she works two and three jobs and goes to collage),and has bills of her own.She also expects her boy friend to pay her debts,and he's in over his head with his own debts.She thinks that every body owes her and that they only think of only themselfs if they don't give her any money.How do I bring it to her attention she is selfish and stressing everybody out,with out hurting her feelings.

2007-08-21 03:43:53 · 2 answers · asked by glenda w 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

were planning 2 get married on December 2008, but d problem is he's out of the country. he'll come back dis december to accomplish things dat we can do both on our wedding. is it ok to attend wedding seminar 1 year before the wedding? or 1 week before the wedding? tnx

2007-08-21 03:43:38 · 11 answers · asked by the bride 1 in Weddings

she thinks I had an affair with her husband. I have known him for 7 years, and he bought me flowers for my b-day. We have the same b-day. I bought him a bottle of wine. My husband knew of all this also. Just a friendship bouquet. All done innocently. Now his wife found a receipt for the flowers and thinks I am having an affair.
She just wont stop digging into my personal life..ie..phones, email,my space.com, I notified the police in several cities.
They are tired of me calling and asking for help.
My husband even tried to stop all this nonsense.
We have never even talked to this woman at all.
Any suggestions? Thankfully, my marriage is strong enough to put up with all this b.s.

2007-08-21 03:42:55 · 13 answers · asked by diva 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I was with my bf for nearly 2 years. We broke up and he really humiliated me infront of his friends and lady friend since then he havent spoken. Now he just rubs it in my face i always see them parading up and down together. It bothers me to see hes happy (if he really is) and moved on and i cant, im sorry i dont mean to sound selfish. Can anyone cheer me up

2007-08-21 03:41:38 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I filed for divorce to end relationship with abusive husband. I moved out with my daughter. Since I had not taken a restraining order husband came and took my daughter with him promising to bring back after the weekend. Now when I tried to bring her back my husband says she does not want to come. Daughter also says she does not want to come back. Husband has brainwashed her. He has told you should not move as this is your home, if you keep moving there, coming back here, you will not have stability. Husband called his mom to stay with him to care for our daughter. How can I get her back now? Can I file for a restraining order now as I am afraid to visit my daughter at his place. He will start fighting in front of her. My daughter also has an impression that mom will be there for her whenever she needs, no matter how much she and her dad insult her. What can i do in this situation?

2007-08-21 03:39:48 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

This is one for the lads!

2007-08-21 03:39:25 · 15 answers · asked by xox its only me xox 1 in Singles & Dating

for males: a son, a brother, a lover, a husband or a father

and for females:a daughter, a sister, a lover, a wife or a mother

2007-08-21 03:38:49 · 5 answers · asked by ? 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I used to be in love with this girl,but she onnly wanted to remain friends.Since that happened the friendship has been very rocky,contact was lost for 4 months.Whenever we hear about each others exploits we both get very jealous!I saw her this wkn wth mates and she wanted to chat to me alone.

She started asking me how I felt about her,why I couldn't tell her how I felt.I also asked her and she said she cares about me,I asked if thats all,she didn't answer.She then asked me about the girls I've been meeting,if I've slept with them etcShe then apologised for having a 1 night stand,saying she regrets it.We then hugged/kissed on the cheek/neck.

I told her she deserves better,but she said she can't change,it's who she is!She said I deserve someone better than her,I cud have anyone,why her?I said I care as we're friends+asked if she wants that to change-no answer from her!

We ended up arguing,I called her cheap/easy.She then suggested we brake contact for awhile.

I'm confused?

2007-08-21 03:38:01 · 7 answers · asked by sircrazydude90 2 in Singles & Dating

I met this guy at the local bar a year ago(he works there)we seemed to have a little connection and by the end of the night he had asked for my number(rumor had is he had a girlfriend)so i gave it to him but was a little hesatant.I left and went to a friends house,he is also friends with that person and found out i was there and came over,i was kinda distant for the fact I heard rumors he was dating someone(but i still liked him)i ended up crashing on the couch and little did i know he crashed on the couch too(his feet were in my face and my feet were in his face)he must have woken up and realized it and went on the floor.I did not know he crashed on the couch with me until his friend told me a couple weeks after.Could that have been a subconcious interest on his part?you would not pass out on someone you dont want to be around right?

2007-08-21 03:38:00 · 1 answers · asked by kelly k 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-21 03:37:15 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have a hard time in relationships, I have trust issues. The way I see life is that I don't go around trusting everyone, and I always know that somehow/someway I am going to be let down, and that way I dont get disappointed by telling myself this from the beginning. I dont believe that marriage is for me because I like my freedom, I can be an introvert at times and just want my own down time and be alone and in a marriage the partner can be upset if u keep distance. I dont believe that happiness=marriage, and I do believe that some people get married bc thats how they were taught at a young age. I do love children and would love to have a couple of my own. The only problem is, is it healthy to have children if your not married or dont plan on to be (but in a committed relationship)? Would it have any future effects on the children?

2007-08-21 03:36:39 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

How did you get engaged? Was it a diffrent and wild proposal or was it the same old same old. Any ideas for a proposal that will amaze her?

2007-08-21 03:36:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I know this guy who is a local bartender(thats how we met)the first time i met him a year ago we seemed to have a connection he asked for my number at the end of the night and i left to go to a friends house,he is also friends with that person and found out i was there and came over,i ended up crashing on the couch,him on the floor.he drove me to my car the next morning.this was a year ago,everytime im in there he flirts with me,gives me free shots,at one point he yelled'i love you' when i left the bar.I still like him but i dont want tobe just another one of those'girls'that come in there to see him.How do i make a move so I can be mor special to him?

2007-08-21 03:32:35 · 3 answers · asked by kelly k 1 in Singles & Dating

My fiance and I have been together for 4 years. I love him, and we have had some really good times, as well as some really rough times. Right before he proposed to me, I was considering breaking up with him because I felt like our relationship was not moving forward, we were fighting a lot, and I was developing feelings for another guy. The proposal caught me completely off guard, and I said "yes" because it is what I had wanted for so long.

Since then I have not been entirely sure I want to marry him for various reasons, including the fact that my parents don't want me to! But I feel like my main problem is the feelings I still have for the other guy. I don't think the other guy would ever commit to me so is it worth breaking off an engagement to a great guy for someone I would probably never really have? I don't know what to do, but we are supposed to get married in 2 months!

2007-08-21 03:32:21 · 13 answers · asked by elaine 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-21 03:31:14 · 25 answers · asked by vijay 1 in Friends

Is this a common complaint among doctors' wives? What advice should I give?

2007-08-21 03:29:10 · 9 answers · asked by griller 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i don't get it. my dad left my mom & my 2 brothers for a WHORE. and by WHORE i mean confessed to cheating on her husband 4 times. (she's still married to him) she's ugly and stupid. she has no education and has no money whatsoever. what could be so special about her? i don't know why he cheated on my mom for HER.

i live in a wealthy neighboorhood in weschester (not to brag!!) and i have a very nice house. my mom is smart, a hard working woman, cooks, and cleans and pays all the bills. does everything for us i admire her a lot for keeping it together for us.

it was a nasty and bad divorce.
my dad now lives in a tiny apartment alone.
he is still dating the same woman for 3 years now, who is STILL married. her husband is paralyzed.

now he wants me to MEET her! wtf!!!! whorebag!
what do i do! !#%^sdfaghjkl! HELP!

2007-08-21 03:28:51 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He only wants you for sex.

2007-08-21 03:27:21 · 4 answers · asked by Mahogany B 1 in Friends

2007-08-21 03:26:52 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

When Im with my mother in law what do I do to let her know I dont want to talk to her really? I am sick of her asking about my businness ( she'll ask my man about my business more than asking me?? )and Im also sick of her calling my fiance 40 times a day to see what he's doing. Im 21 he's 24. This sh*it is ridiculous.. I wanna give her the finger in her face and just go off but what would be even better???? Shes so annoying, i dont want to do anything with her or for her. She has a poor personality, she complains, shes just the height of annoying. I dont want her to think I hate her guts b/c i have to live with her forever... i just want it to be known that she needs to stay out of my mans life and outta mine.. if we need her we will f' ing call her.

2007-08-21 03:25:53 · 1 answers · asked by lysendon20 1 in Singles & Dating

This guy I used to mess around with has been texting and emailing me for the past three weeks- some of the texts were not suitable for a guy who has a girlfriend (yes he has a gf!) and he is still flirting with me- but why?
He emailed me this lame "How are you doing" line today
(wamp wamp) I just dont get why he wont just let it go...

*See the thing is he didnt tell me he had a girl, I had to find out via myspace (yeah) he is "in a relationship"and we were still messing around! So I shot him the dueces and told him to get back @ me when he is single. He got mad and deleted me from his friends list (lol- laugh, it is funny!)
What's the deal?
Why is this guy still texting and emailing me?

2007-08-21 03:25:41 · 28 answers · asked by Pam Grier is an icon 3 in Singles & Dating

i.e. is there any gain to a spouse (who's spouse cheated) filing for adultery grounds versus filing for irreconcilable differences?

2007-08-21 03:24:29 · 3 answers · asked by sjbchapman 2 in Marriage & Divorce