This guy I used to mess around with has been texting and emailing me for the past three weeks- some of the texts were not suitable for a guy who has a girlfriend (yes he has a gf!) and he is still flirting with me- but why?
He emailed me this lame "How are you doing" line today
(wamp wamp) I just dont get why he wont just let it go...
*See the thing is he didnt tell me he had a girl, I had to find out via myspace (yeah) he is "in a relationship"and we were still messing around! So I shot him the dueces and told him to get back @ me when he is single. He got mad and deleted me from his friends list (lol- laugh, it is funny!)
What's the deal?
Why is this guy still texting and emailing me?
2007-08-21 03:25:41 · 28 answers · asked by Pam Grier is an icon 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We are both in our early twenties
2007-08-21 03:35:15 · update #1
Some guys are like that. I know a few guys that have been trying to get with me for years. Whether or not he or I had a gf/bf. You really just have to ignore them. They will go away eventually!
2007-08-21 03:29:32 · answer #1 · answered by Linz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously his current relationship is boring! And you are the spice he has been needing! He sounds psycho! He's the one that couldn't be mature about it and had to delete you off myspace. Oh Well, keep ingoring him and hopefully he'll stop. If not tell, get him to add you back on his myspace and then tell everyone he is a cheat! I don't know. We need to stay away from men like this. He's sick!!!
2007-08-21 10:32:11 · answer #2 · answered by lisa9479 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm guessing you're both teenagers. He sounds like your typical teenage guy. He's obviously attracted to you and thinks you're "hawt", thus why he keeps pestering you, thinking you'll be in the mood for sex after receiving emails with titles like "hey wassup lolz".
But because you basically rejected him, he probably at that time started to hate you for it and deleted you. Now that he's over that, and the hormones are clicking again, he's back to drooling over you and trying to get your attention.
If you don't want him, ignore it and let him make a fool of himself.
2007-08-21 10:32:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, i understand how you feel, that happened to me before. He is a player, he lies to his girlfriend to be with u, and he text and plays with other girls too. Now depends what you want to do, if you want to have fun with him is fine, but after having fun with him you feel used that isn't a good thing to feel it. I am sure you are a beautiful girl and you can do anything you want to do. One thing is true has a lot good, single guys out there, i don't think this guy is a good thing for you.
2007-08-21 10:47:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
B/c he's a player & that's what players do..He still wants to mess around & feels you probably do too..If you aren't really trying to deal with him, I'd ignore his text and e mails..I don't know if you respond or not but if you do, he might feel he has a chance to change your mind.
2007-08-21 10:30:35 · answer #5 · answered by Unique Soul 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Messing around with you must be good. He's not getting that with his current relationship and likes risking it to mess around with you. Why is he still texting and emailing? He wants to mess around again.
2007-08-21 10:33:45 · answer #6 · answered by bx01z 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well there could be 3 reasons
1. he really likes you
2. he wonts some excitement
3. he wonts to get seen flirting with you and get dumped because he cant do it
(there the 3 answers i can think of hope it helped you)
2007-08-21 10:33:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's a saying in the country I am from which pretty much goes "old salt makes you thirsty".
He basically wants to do you. That's the number one reason any guy does anything, especially when it comes to his ex.
2007-08-21 10:29:57 · answer #8 · answered by Mika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not completely happy in his relationship but it's comfortable enough for him to keep it going - probably until he has another sure thing lined up - he's a monkey.
2007-08-21 10:31:20 · answer #9 · answered by MI5 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2007-08-21 10:29:25 · answer #10 · answered by Master C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋