Family & Relationships - 21 August 2007

meet somewhere on your terms

2007-08-21 21:28:05 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My parents are divorced (and have been for a couple years), and recently I realized that I didn't have enough clothes at my dad's house, so I told him. He said he'll take me shopping for clothes this Fri.
The thing is, I hate my dad and don't want to go clothes shopping with him for that reason, and the fact that I can't ask him if something looks good on me (he's a guy for one thing--no offense to guys--and he has a horrible sense of fashion, IMO).
What should I do? Should I ask to go shopping with my mom (who has a great fashion sense) instead (although I'd worry that he'd feel kinda hurt by this), or see if I can convince him to let me go shopping on my own (or with friends)?

FYI: My dad doesn't know I hate him, and neither does my mom. But my friends know.

2007-08-21 21:27:17 · 21 answers · asked by Soccer Lover 3 in Family

my boyfriend told me that zip of his pant was open & his female colleague (monica) told him to close the zip.i didnt like that a girl can tell a male colleague until they are close friends . but he blamed my thinking. he told monica is right & my thinking is wrong. I tried him to stop to talk to that girl but he is behaving rudely.
I beleived that I was not asking any impossible thing because if we were going to marry we have to leave our family at least for sometime due to our family oppose so why he is unable to leave talking to a girl.he said he will not stop . I realised that i am not important to satyam . my feelings , love & care towards him is useless.

Next day he told that monica asked some help in studies & he has helped her in the office & taught her .other day he told me that monica liked my whistle to a song . I told him that i am hurted by his talks & requested him to stop talking to monica.he blamed me& told he will not stop.even for the sake of my happiness

2007-08-21 21:27:11 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Okay so, My boyfriend had just asked me out when my best friend got upset and ran off. Determined to get to the bottom of it, my new bf let to go see what was wrong. They both came back and my EXBFF was all smiles.

Later she bragged to her whole locker room that she had gotten my bf to dump me for her. Luckily my reall BFF was there and told me erverything. I verified it with multiple other ppl. Including his little borther, and his best friend.

I dumped him before he got the chance. Needless to say he wasnt at all supriseed when I almost lapped him, although he acted like he was.

Weeks later my EXBFF told me that she hasd just found out (LIE) and that she dint know how to tell me (LIE), and she thought id b mad. (LIE , she knew id be pissed thats why she wanted me to be dumped.)

I was always the pretty one, i was always the skinny one, I was always the smart one and so she wanted me to fall flat on my face.I have only talked to her Once since, the incident...

2007-08-21 21:26:13 · 11 answers · asked by Rian M 2 in Singles & Dating

My ex-husband will not allow his mom visitation with her grandson?
My ex-husband informed that his parents threatened to take my our away so he'd never see him. He claims that he is ending the cycle of violience and drinking; cutting off ties with his mom, dad, and sister. I sincerly wanted to believe him...
This is the same man that I had a protective order filed to protect me and my kids. That just a few months ago nearly physically attacked in front of my son.
His mom calls me (we always seemed to get along, but he never wanted his family comminucating during/after the divorce) and askes if she could please see her grandsons. I honestly know she loves them and I don't want to deny her but the repercutions will not be good when finds out that we talked / if I let her have the boys for a visit. The miss her...
Apperently there was a big faling out several months ago and he refuses to answer/ return her calls and I was only hope to see her grandson...Losing sleep over this...

2007-08-21 21:20:09 · 7 answers · asked by Sydney J 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm not sure why but every woman I like is either married or in a long term relationship.

2007-08-21 21:19:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If a guy put half of his penis in your vagina, are you still virgin?
Can you be pregnant?

2007-08-21 21:19:36 · 19 answers · asked by Kayleen 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

wife recently went to help here best friends mom in az,we were supposed to go out there together, now iam going out there for job interviews, I got a motel for the week,now she wants to move her best friends mom in with her,but they dont want to stay in the apartment complex they are in,so her best friends husband came back to pa, and what is going to happen when her husband comes back there like 3 times before? Her two kids want to come back to pa but they dont work and sit around all day they are 18,and 19 and smoke pot at the neighbors house. So i had problems with her kids form day one no respect,lazy,wont help at all,they get mad if you wont give them things,or rides anytime they want,the 18 year old is mad cause he wants to drive and he wants a car,I told him get a job and save money and i will help him get a car Is this wrong? the older one just wants to fight and hit his mother! He just wants to play x-box all day,smoke pot,and j-off to porn on the internet! what to do?

2007-08-21 21:17:14 · 3 answers · asked by allan l 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My girlfriend says shes going to dump me if i don't quit smoking pot but she says she loves me but if i don't quit smoking pot shes leaving me! How do i stop i love her! But how do i stop? Oh ya im like 17

2007-08-21 21:16:05 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He is married. Yet he says he loves me more than anything else. He wants forever with me! And the only way he says we gonna get that is we share a baby together. He says he cant live without me. I don’t think he is ready to leave the wife and neither am I ready to be a home wrecker. It is only that he is too sweet and am sorry to admit but he is all that I have ever wanted in a man.

I know some of you are ready to brand me a home wrecker and all that but can someone give me a piece of mind that doesn’t involve insults. Thank you.

2007-08-21 21:13:18 · 23 answers · asked by Essie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

In my country nowadays, girls just like to get married to foreigners. Do you think they have true love?

2007-08-21 21:11:38 · 9 answers · asked by DoublePencil 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-21 21:10:58 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How do i hand the stress associated with losing a person you love and how do lovingly bring up my son alone

2007-08-21 21:10:55 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my boyfriend and our neighbor (she's married) were texting each other about their fantasies about each other. i saw the texts and confronted him. he said that it meant nothing, and it was just for fun. he said he would never actually do any of these things with her because she is married, and he loves me. would anyone consider this cheating? do you think he ever would do something like that again?

2007-08-21 21:10:20 · 18 answers · asked by Julia's Mommy xoxo 2 in Singles & Dating

..Who goes to Church. Will she accept?

2007-08-21 21:08:00 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How can you tell? How would you know? Like if she were just to look into your eyes deeply and put her hand on your face...give you sweet little kisses and wants to cuddle

can you feel that she love and cares for you?
would you remember all these little things like this and confirm that she's true and real?

2007-08-21 21:07:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Sorry, another one of this lame questions...but i need advice on this. Shall I end up my relation ship because I cant stand my bofriends family and this feeling has grown since his brother moved in?

2007-08-21 21:05:46 · 5 answers · asked by Helena a 2 in Singles & Dating

no straight guy tells a female I LOVE YOU but doesn't go past first base!

Is that just an overzealous rationalization or can you cite any truth to the statement!?!?!

Why do ppl say that a guy who may well just be in the friend zone..."must be gay"?
Can't he be hetrosexual and I may or may not be the girl for him?

2007-08-21 21:02:51 · 12 answers · asked by §♫♪‹(•¿•)›☼»-(¯`v´¯)-»\\ 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-21 21:00:29 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been seeing this guy for over a year, i go to school about 5 hrs aways so its a long distance thing. we have never made it official that i am his girlfriend or that he is my boyfriend, however it is obvious that we both expect each other to not talk to other people. however, i know he is, he will just never admit it, always girls calling him, girls sending him pictures, and the last straw was yesterday when he told me he had to go check his mail, but instead he just went outside to talk on the phone. i know, time to end it. one catch, i lent him the money i was supposed to use for my rent, and he still hasnt paid me back. i really need the money, and i feel if i cut him off i wont get it back. what should i do, ive been trying to act like everything is fine, but its hard.

2007-08-21 20:58:49 · 13 answers · asked by mitha18 2 in Singles & Dating

We went out a few times, upon his invitation. He's lent me stuff. Recently, when I asked if he was free, he did not reply. When I asked him on work related matter, he had someone else to reply for me. What is happening?

2007-08-21 20:58:13 · 7 answers · asked by counterculturalist 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-21 20:57:43 · 21 answers · asked by merlina h 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-21 20:57:41 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we will take diverse he said then at that time what is yr decision

2007-08-21 20:57:28 · 4 answers · asked by shreya 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Does anyone know where a good place to go is to meet new people if your on your own? I'm single and have been for nearly 5 years, I'm 25 now and I feel like I'm wasting away. I've met guys but nothing serious, just meaningless words and all the rest of it... I miss not having a partner, I hate going to bed everynight and cuddling up to my teddy, I'm 25, I should be cuddling up to a man by now.... :(

2007-08-21 20:54:57 · 1 answers · asked by me_me 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-21 20:45:28 · 9 answers · asked by 17*mezzo*17 1 in Singles & Dating

no i m not emo just to get that out of the way
but i have been thinking alot about sucide
this girl i was sorta friends with she was alway a ***** to me and i told her off and told her to get it through her head that i don't like her beause of the way she treated me , i felt like a door mat.
now from my point of view it looks as though she's trying to get everyone to hate me
and stuff at home has bulided on top of this as well , my mother does'nt listen to me she ignores me and sits on her laptop and talks to her internet "boyfriends" it really bugs me and i wanna change schools but she does'nt care , yes i've tryied talking to her about whats happing and she goes" oh well thats life" .
i m not ugly , ive been told i'm heaps pretty
but now i don't even think that anymore ...
any advice you can give
please don't critse me or be mean to me i really don't need it now
thanks
x.

2007-08-21 20:42:38 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i have a best friend who had a deep crush on one of my guy friends. my male friend never had any feelings for her, no attraction whatsoever (he said). Now, we all have graduated, working great jobs, and this male friend of mine and I started to go out. i didnt think there was anything wrong since my best friend never dated my guy friend. i told her about me and my guy friend and she said she honestly didnt find anything wrong with it. then suddenly i heard from another female friend that my best friend is mad at me for dating this guy friend. my question, does my best freind have a right to be mad? they never dated! was i wrong to even go further with the relationship? my best friend hasnt spoken to me in years and i married this guy friend already. its been more than 5 years and its still haunting me...thanks in advance for any advice

2007-08-21 20:37:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Is it possible that husband and wife can share any other relation in which they feel comfortable and better then being husband and wife ,if so what is the best relation they can share,i am asking in case of arranged marriages,where due to culture and family respect they have to stay together.as married but dont feel like being made for each other

2007-08-21 20:36:01 · 10 answers · asked by ajay l 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-21 20:34:07 · 1 answers · asked by 17*mezzo*17 1 in Singles & Dating