i'm 17 and so is my girlfriend and she got pregnant what should i do?

Question

BUT I NEVER HAD SEX SO THAT LITTLE ***** CHEATED ON ME?

Answer 1

Not much you can do...the act is done..a baby is on the way

Use condoms!!!!
edit..i just saw where you said you have'nt had sex with her...

ok..well, then, i would say, it's time to go your own.

Answer 2

don't rush into marriage. a lot of teenagers who gets pregnant are asked to get married but that is the most stupid thing that parents do on situations like this. first, learn from your mistake. 2nd, let your gf have the baby, abortion is not an option. 3rd, be responsible for what you both did by supporting each other through the 9 months of pregnancy. 4th, decide on whether you will give up your baby for adoption or take full responsibility of raising it (of course with the help of your parents). 5th, fix your lives and finish your studies. lastly, be more careful about your next acts. sex is never a game, its a big responsiblity. pregnancy is never an accident.

Answer 3

Well I guess there isn't much point telling you to wear a condom is there.

Whats done is done. Both of you need to tell your parents, and work out what you are going to do from there.

Plenty of options available these days. Termination (although i personally do not agree with it), give it up for adoption, or keep it.
This is a huge decision which will affect the rest of both of your lives and your families, so sit down with everyone and talk it through.

Good luck, and next time be more careful!!

Answer 4

Raise the child? Abortion? Abandon? Do u watch One Tree Hill? U may find an answer in it. It's about lives of teenagers and a lot more. Karen got pregnant in high school n she chose to raise the child by her own bcuz at first her bf Dan abandonned her (later he took responsibility and asked for a join custody but was refused). Nicki gave birth to Jenny but abandonned her to her dad Jack. Jack really loves n cares for Jenny n took total responsibility. Nicki than asked for the custody and was refused but still insists. Whatever it is, TAKE RESPONSIBILITY!!!

Answer 5

First of all, inform your & her parents for a meeting up section. Tell them what both of you wants & ask them for their opinion and guidance.

Apologise to her parents of what happen. Guarantee her parents that you will take care of their daughter and their grandchild. Tell them that you will work hard to raise this family.

Do not hide away from responsibility or you may get something even worst.

Answer 6

WELL YOU GOT YOURSELF INTO IT SO YOU HAVE TO BE A MAN AND TAKE CARE OF IT GO SPEAK TO SOMEONE WHO DOESNT KNOW YOU WHO CAN GIVE YOU PROPER ADVICE ON IT THERE IS MANY OPTIONS LIKE ABOTION WHICH I DO NOT ADVISE CAUSE 98% OF ABORTIONS END UP IN NOT BEING TO HAVE CHILDREN EVER AGAIN ADOPTION OR RAISING IT YOURSELF THIS IS YOUR MESS YOU WERE GROWN UP ENOUGH BY HAVING SEX AT THAT AGE AND UNPROTECTED SO BE A GROWN UP IN THINKING ABOUT WHAT TO DO DONT BE A COWARD AND WALK AWAY BE RESPONSIBLE AND CLEAN UP YOUR MESS TOGETHER

Answer 7

congratulations! now start saving and get a vasectomy.

seriously what were you thinking? you need to support you girlfriend and support her decisions. Is she going to keep it, put it up for adoption or terminate the pregnancy. what ever the decision she makes you are personally liable financially and morally.

Answer 8

First you tell your parents, own up to it. And sit down and talk to her about all of your options. Whether you want to keep the baby, or you want to abort, or give up the baby when it is born. Ultimately it is up to her, but you want to thouroughly talk it through.

Answer 9

Now you ask. Why didn't you ask how not to get her pregnant. Best to tell her parents and let them help her work it out. You are obviously not responsible enough to help her.

PROTECTION--IT IS SO SIMPLE

Answer 10

Hope that your parents move across the country, so you never have to see her again.