i have a best friend who had a deep crush on one of my guy friends. my male friend never had any feelings for her, no attraction whatsoever (he said). Now, we all have graduated, working great jobs, and this male friend of mine and I started to go out. i didnt think there was anything wrong since my best friend never dated my guy friend. i told her about me and my guy friend and she said she honestly didnt find anything wrong with it. then suddenly i heard from another female friend that my best friend is mad at me for dating this guy friend. my question, does my best freind have a right to be mad? they never dated! was i wrong to even go further with the relationship? my best friend hasnt spoken to me in years and i married this guy friend already. its been more than 5 years and its still haunting me...thanks in advance for any advice
2007-08-21 20:37:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You're referring to your husband of five years as "my guy friend". And you're spazin' about a friendship that's been over "for years". Clearly your life is going pretty well if you have to go that far back to find something that unimportant to your present life to freak out about.
Drag yourself back into the present, girl and move forward.
2007-08-29 05:11:05 · answer #1 · answered by lfh1213 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think she was just mad. I think she was envious. Sometime people get over that. Sometimes they don't. Maybe the reason it haunts you is that you feel like she blames you and you should feel guilty about something - but logically, you know you don't have anything to feel guilty about.
In a couple of years, when she is already married, she will probably have gotten over it. If not, well, then there's not much you can do so just let it go.
2007-08-28 17:39:41 · answer #2 · answered by kathyw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did nothing wrong. Too bad your friend is still unhappy after 5 years. Sounds like she is having a problem finding the right guy for her. That is not your problem, and don't feel guilty. Have a happy marriage.
2007-08-22 03:43:18 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no. the same thing happened to me in college. girls are like that though they think that if they have a crush on a guy then it make him theirs. and they believe this even if they have never went out or anything. She isn't really your friend if she let this affect your friendship to begin with.
2007-08-22 04:01:05 · answer #4 · answered by rey1101 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mm well i think thats her problem... unless u married him just to piss her off...anyways from what u said,, i wouldn't class her as a friend.. friends aren't like that.. stuff her..lol
2007-08-22 03:51:55 · answer #5 · answered by springo88 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would it bother you? gosh you are the one he choose and that is it. you are lucky and she didn't even know him butjust a crush. well anyhow stop worrying and enjoy him goo dlcuk
2007-08-29 23:02:40 · answer #6 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to realize that YOU were her friend and she was not yours. forget about this, she is not worth the energy and time that you are wasting on her. use that time wisely, spend it having fun with your hubby!
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2007-08-24 10:27:48 · answer #8 · answered by nathra s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋