Family & Relationships - 21 August 2007

Ok so me and this guy have been off and on, he lives 3hrs away and this is his week off for school and he wanted to meet half way tonight.I had to wait to leave till 9 which would get us together around 10:30 and I had to leave by 11am the next morning to get back home.Well he was all good with all this last night when he saying how much he cared about me and wanted me and only me and all that stuff,I called him around 1pm and he said to call and ask about hotels he would call me later,so he calls me around 6 to say it just dawned on him how short of a time we would be spending together and he would rather wait till thursday to come and see me and why it took him till just then to know that i have no clue.He said he would call me later so here it is 1am and still no word from him.I asked if he was doing anything tonight and he said no he would chill at the cabin and call me and then go to bed.But no word as of yet.He seemed kinda wierd on the phone,I just don't get it. Anyone???

2007-08-21 19:12:05 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hubbs works a job that requires him to visit a bank to make a deposit several times a week, I have not ever been there but he has made me perfectly aware that it is full of pretty women, he even invited one to our post wedding celebration. He ended up winning a gift cert from the bank for the grocery store next door and we went there yesterday together but he pulled into the grocery store parking lot and not the bank parking lot. We exit the car and I begin to follow him to the bank when he mentioned that he thought I would want to start grocery shopping. He didn't seem the least bit interested with introducing me to the women inside the bank. He ended up going across the street to the bank alone and I went inside and began grocery shopping. Should I have went with him no matter even if he didn't want me too? Sure seemed to me that he didn't want me to go there with him. Yes, a little weirded out I am that is for sure. Be honest in your input........thank you!!!

2007-08-21 19:10:58 · 7 answers · asked by anonOmiss 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I had rebounded and married, had two kids that are beautiful, but my current husband has had a separate bedroom from me for years. All my siblings want me to leave him. My sister says that I have a"disfunctional life." He has disresepected me and just seems to want different things in life than I do. I keep a happy thought, only because I was once involved with a happy man who broke my heart and I keep seeing him in all I do. He was my mentor and role model. My 10 year old daughter loves her father, and wouldn't understand, however. I don't know what to do.

2007-08-21 19:09:30 · 12 answers · asked by mortandia 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My friend lives in the US and I now live in Australia... we used to be really good friends 1999-2002 but we had an argument in 2002 and we both married and went our seperate ways... well in 2004 I got an email from her out of the blue and she wrote this big email how she was living in Italy and she had a baby boy and she travels all over europe and she bought a BMW...(like she was bragging)
I was like oh congrats... well I'm living in Japan and I have a boy and girl aswell... so anywayz we've been emailing each other since then, but I only ever seem to get one from her when something is happening... like buying a new car or building a new home, or she's the #1 employee... blah blah
My husband just got a new job and we will be moving to the same city as her and her husband in the US, first she seemed excited and now she's ignoring my emails, i've asked her about the city and different things but she hasn't responded to anything.. any idea on why she's acting strange

2007-08-21 19:07:38 · 4 answers · asked by JazzyKat 2 in Friends

Hey, so I'm dating this guy and he just found out that he MIGHT be the father of some other girls' baby. (Before he and I got together he was with her... after we got together we found out about this) I want to know... in the state of Indiana if you sign your rights AWAY do you still have to pay for child support... because this girl... seriously (I quote "I'm going to wait till the baby is born before I move so I can get (name)'s cold hard cash! hahahahaha") is a nut case. Help a girl out here. I don't want to lose him to this and he really does NOT want anything to do with the situation. HELP HELP HELP!!!

Is there anyway to get out of paying child support WITHOUT a DNA test? We've done the math and if we're not mistaken it can't even be his because of the dates and everything meshing together.... it doesn't add up... unless someone somewhere is lying... HELP ME PLEASE!!!

2007-08-21 19:05:22 · 6 answers · asked by Destiny 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i've been friends with this guy for over 6 months. about 2 months ago, we fell out of touch wit each other and then suddenly he called me about 2 weeks ago and we started talkin again. he's soon to be 27 and i'm 20 (not that age matters to me). but he invited me over for a cookout with him and his mom (who doesn't live with him) at his own house last sunday (aug. 12). it was so amazing, we were laughing and talking and pickin on each other like we were never apart! after that i've been going over there EVERY night for the past 2 weeks mainly just to hang out and have fun. then about a week ago, as we were pickin on each other like usual, we started to wrestle, and then he kept inchin closer to my face... he ended up kissin me and things went further. we've been "together" like that for the past week and he asked me to come over last night and i did, he was super cuddly with me and always wanting to hug me and whatever and it was so sweet.

2007-08-21 19:02:20 · 7 answers · asked by Proud mommy of Logan! <3 3 in Singles & Dating

I mean, I know the obvious answer; someone to love and kiss and cuddle etc etc... But, there was this guy who I used to like, and he told me that if we were going to go out, he wanted me to do things for him that were going to be a little out of my comfort zone, for example, I'm not too big on public affection, but he said he is, so that was something he wanted to do more of. He told me a relationship is about give and take. It occurred to me, that... what exactly would I be gaining out of this situation? The pleasure of his company? What? Hence, we are no longer dating. It sounds cruel, but then again, so was he. The idiot then told me he was interested in two other girls!! He was trying on the jealously thing. I could not have been more repulsed. No Deal!!!! Should I tell him all this? So he doesn't screw it up with the next girl? We're still kind of friends, though he keeps hitting on me, and I've told him I'm not interested. Sorry about the long question! Had to get it off my chest

2007-08-21 18:59:20 · 8 answers · asked by Sarah T 2 in Singles & Dating

friends house unless she talk 2 they parents and other people cant come 2 my house the only reason we can talk is on the phone or in school thats it she get really mad easy how can i tell her all of these things without her getin mad and hurtin her feelings but if i really really want 2 tell her whats on my mind she wont talk 2 me 4 a year i just want 2 tell her whats on my mind she really is sweet she buys me everything 1 want i am spoiled she dont know that i feel this way should i tell her or wait but everytime when she do something i dont like i get mad 2 but i forgive her when i am over it ilove her i will never do anything 2 hurt her she is my life but she still teats me like a baby and its not cool at all i cant talk 2 any1 else about it

2007-08-21 18:57:51 · 21 answers · asked by Britt Britt 2 in Singles & Dating

I went to visit my dad the other day, and I freaked out by myself about my fear of death. It just struck me suddenly out of nowhere like a panic attack with a freight train. This is months after my mother's seemingly sudden passing. I just pictured the difficulty breathing and gasping for one's last breath, and it wasn't like I could intentionally stop picturing it and what it would be like during and after. It wasn't like I meant to get like that. I don't want to keep thinking about it but I do, and I try to do things to distract myself.

2007-08-21 18:57:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'd like some suggestions of things that I could do for my wife that would be considered above average. I've done the flowers and jewelry and notes but I'm looking for original ideas that don't take a lot of time. It's just to let my girl know I thought of her. I want to know if a guy or girl can come up with the best answer for me.

2007-08-21 18:55:28 · 1 answers · asked by Fixguy 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

I got married in a courthouse in Christiansfield, Denmark years ago with my boyfriend who was stationed in Europe at the time.

It was pretty much a shotgun wedding. We remained married for four years, but the marriage didn't work out, so we divorced in the states through the county courthouse system with the paperwork we had brought over.

I'm obviously still married in Denmark because neither of us took care of legal matters over there.

Can this bite me in the *** later? If I strike it rich or acquire a long-lost inheritance...or whatever...lol..Can he legally claim anything of mine, if he is technically still married to me?

2007-08-21 18:55:22 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I caught my husband cheating with a coworker sending text messages. When confronted...he lied. Then, I digged further and saw that it was his married coworker about
20 years younger than him. She is 31. We are separated. At
my husband's suggestion we are going to counseling. Its been 4 months already. They both work at the same place.
My husband had phoned her in front of me and asked her not to text him or talk to him. Although he was as guilty as her, it was her who used to text him many many times a day till he answered. Later on he started initiating the text. My question is although he says nothing else happened how do you feel about these two working in the same place. Do I have reason to worry or do you think that since it is out..its over. Is it too tempting being in the same work place or is it possible for my husband to be honest or do most go fall back cause of the
time spent together.

2007-08-21 18:54:11 · 11 answers · asked by Mrs. Naive 1 in Marriage & Divorce

what is the worst place to have sex...?

2007-08-21 18:49:54 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met a guy he's polite I like such men,but I'm 24 he's 38 actually I like the men that older than me but in some situations I don't know really now how to behave,should i text him first or he's grown up for such things and he's also very restrain, my girlfriend advices me to be more active if he's ratrain it should work out, but I don't want to disturb him.He's never been married before. What if he's just plays fool and I'm gonna be just the next in his list of the female names? Please help me. I'm kinda fed up being always alone, need to do some changes, but a bit confused about him. He's on vacation and don't know if he's gonna text me, I can't understand him.When I told him that situation seems that I've been used couple of times, he told me to don't bullshit and stop this stupid things. Thanks

2007-08-21 18:48:26 · 2 answers · asked by Alisa A 1 in Singles & Dating

my good friend and i talk online everynight 11 to 4 in the morning and well i have to go back to school and cant stay up that late cause i will fall asleep in class and well i think i made my friend madd. im scared if this is the end of our relationship and i really dont want it to be what di do PLEASE HELP im desperate for any answer

2007-08-21 18:47:47 · 18 answers · asked by t515 1 in Friends

We got married very quickly, like two months and didnt know each other and now have tow kids and we had alot of problems. he has been abusive twice and now he is emotionally abusive. he promises me he will get help for anger since last year (last time of abuse) and nothing yet. We have nothing in comon and we just exist together. Everytime I tell him something must be done he doenst want to talk about it and he walks out of the house and gets angry. I have tried everythign and I dont know what to do with no job and no money and how to work from home as I am a college student. He just looks at me now and gets irritated with me when I say things. he is chauvanistic and wants me to shut up and not complain because this makes him unhappy. If i stop talking he will be happy. He yes's me to shut me up and in the end i end up finding out what he really beleives. He is never honest with me and wasnt from the beginiing. I am very very unhappy i have lost my self esteem and i dont know what todo

2007-08-21 18:46:29 · 11 answers · asked by mt4444 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What do you absolutely adore about him?

2007-08-21 18:45:08 · 11 answers · asked by casper 5 in Marriage & Divorce

People say I am pretty, you can look at my 360
i am nice, really
i am shy at first
but then not at all

im not meeting any boys that want to stay with me
i am in the point of my life where i am ready for a stable relationship. All they want to do is mess around

i do have slightly high standards
and i want a certain type of guy
what others would call "emo, scene, punk"... whatever

any advice helps
unless you have absoloutley no idea what you are talking about

thanks in advance

2007-08-21 18:41:51 · 4 answers · asked by elemenopee. 4 in Singles & Dating

my dad is 54, he has fathered a total of 11 kids from 7 different women, 3 of them since turning 50. He has always been a womanizer & always got younger women. He is wealthy & he looks young. He has diabetes, high blood pressure, prostate problems & get kidney stones a lot. He passes 10-20 stones per year. He said he used to have his dick in a different pussy every week & probably would have more than 11 kids, but the kidney stones interfered with his ability to have intercourse. He's been seeing a 23-year old girl named Kelly, who is very attractive & a college grad. They got engaged quickly, could she be pregnant? after his money? I think his impregnating women should stop, correct? He just had a baby with an 19-year old girl last year. He's always complaining about paying child support. I told him he should get his health back on track & stop having kids if he doesnt want to pay child support.

2007-08-21 18:40:59 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok me n my bf are sexually active and when it comes to getting horny, all i have to do is kiss him and he's standing tall. however, the deal isn't the same for me. he'll play with my breasts and try all sorts of things to get me wet but it just isn't happening. any tips?

2007-08-21 18:39:36 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met this guy recently (friend of a friend), and have spoken to him a bit online via email. I ask him questions and he responds promptly. I waited a couple days between the last messages and he still responded within 12 hours. I'm not asking very detailed questions but he answers briefly and generally positively.

Do guys just tend not to ask many questions? Is he just not interested? If so why does he respond to my emails in about 12 hours?
Any suggestions for finding out if he is interested or trying to get the conversation rolling more? I asked him to get together last week and he said he was busy but maybe next week (this week).

2007-08-21 18:35:20 · 13 answers · asked by k80_k 2 in Singles & Dating

.... and what does, "oh let's just keep dancing, etc. and well see how it goes" mean? What does that mean when you flat out tell some woman you are interested in her and she'll almost kiss you but not quite. She wants all your attention until she decides she wants some other guys attention but only for 15 minutes or so then she's back to you. What do you think about this type of woman? Is it the recent divorce that gets them acting like this?

2007-08-21 18:33:27 · 7 answers · asked by What? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-21 18:30:57 · 31 answers · asked by utopia264 2 in Marriage & Divorce

um yeah, i have an ex. we have both confessed our love to each other in hte past. bla bla bla... then sometimes we havnet been getting along as good. anyways i told him my boyfreind moved in with me last week. it was a lie. so today i said " yeah he doesnt really live here. i just said that to make you mad" he sounded all annoyed - and good reason. why would he be mad , its not like were togheter. so now i feel really stupid . do u think it sounds like he wishes i would just leave him alone or something? was that a big blunder? how to undo it? Thanks


oh and what he did to make me wonder if he wishes i would leave him alone is that - he sounded all annoyed THEN i said ' have a good day mark, " and he said "ok bye " instead of ' You too "

2007-08-21 18:30:39 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what kind of things should i say to him, ways i could flirt with him, things that will make him want me..i think he likes me too-he started to tell me that once but then he got nervous and said nevermind..i think he likes me a lot..so i want him to know i like him too..but i dont want to come right out and say it for certain reasons, so i could use any advice you offer. =]

2007-08-21 18:30:36 · 3 answers · asked by Jay babe 3 in Singles & Dating

I broke up with him twice and he still comes back . We enjoy each others company and finally my son has accepted him. He is the first real relationship I have been in since my son's father.He says that he can see us togethere for years to come We are also starting a joint venture together and he is footing most of the bill. I love him and he is the first person that made me look at myself in the mirror and be real. I think he loves me too but he has only said it once. We go to church on occasion together, we play together he has cried and I have cried . Our love making is wonderful and really I'am just happy to be with him no matter what we do together. But our age difference is a factor and I'am afraid that he will find someone his age that is problem free,child free like him and have the whole world to explore. He says he is happy with our relationship and the age thing is my issue because it does not bother him until I bring it up when we go out. HELP

2007-08-21 18:27:53 · 27 answers · asked by Lea H 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm am going out with this guy in his mid 30's. I've heard many rumors that he's married. Most of the time I'm at his place and he still lives with his parents. If he is really married and then how come I don't see his wife or any kids at all? And If he is really married and then wouldn't his parents say SOMETHING to me?

2007-08-21 18:21:34 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Parent been living in basement of our house, lives 6 month of the year in RV in south. We added running water down in basement, had own fridge, used bathroom upstair was trusted with freely moving throgh house. Recently gave written notice living situation no longer tolerable and can't talk to him with out him flying into a rage of anger that we are later accusing us (of family) of attacking him. we came to find he'd taken off in his RV, towing his car, leaving much of his stuff behind and no notice of his intentions. Paid us rent for about 2 yrs. No written lease agreemnt. Can we dispose of his things left behind (probably take them to storage, carefully packed)? the idea is so he can pick them up at a neutral spot as we believe he could be violent. Before took of we'd been walking around our own home with video camera, tired of being blamed for HIS outbursts. We want to change locks as he's already taken &/or damaged some of our things

2007-08-21 18:18:56 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

If you found out your boyfriend or girlfriend was talking to another girl or boy....and lied to you. Would you give them a second chance? Knowing that they confessed?

2007-08-21 18:14:35 · 1 answers · asked by Beautiful Soul 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've been talking to this guy for about two weeks online. He lives about 800 miles away. He wants to move here with his son and be with me and my two kids... any advise?

2007-08-21 18:12:48 · 13 answers · asked by princess 1 in Singles & Dating