.... and what does, "oh let's just keep dancing, etc. and well see how it goes" mean? What does that mean when you flat out tell some woman you are interested in her and she'll almost kiss you but not quite. She wants all your attention until she decides she wants some other guys attention but only for 15 minutes or so then she's back to you. What do you think about this type of woman? Is it the recent divorce that gets them acting like this?
2007-08-21 18:33:27 · 7 answers · asked by What? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
First off what kind of place are you in to finds women like that it sounds like your local low class bar.What do you expect to happen you need to stay away from local watering holes.It sounds like your just mad because you can't even get older women to go home with you.
2007-08-21 19:01:20 · answer #1 · answered by Teenie 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
All women are attention whores, some more so than others.
If you want her to chase you down and give you what you want, take this advice.
Knock her down a notch or two, tell her that "For her age! she doesn't look too bad" Or "I don't care what the other guys say ,I like the way you dance" or some other appropriate concealed insult.
Then blow her off, It's the attention she craves , if you are giving her the attention she seeks ,you then are rewarding unsatisfactory behavior.
Take away the reward ( the attention) and she will modify her behavior.
In short, if you are nice to her ,she will walk on you. If you treat her like a jerk , she will drop her panties. Sounds crazy, but it's a Mars -Venus thing.
Try it , be subtle , not really obvious and ** Don't Get Involved In a Relationship With Her, Just Do Her! until you're done with her and move on.
2007-08-21 18:50:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Wow your really obsessed with this woman arent you?
Question is have you realised it yet? obviously not.
What do I think of any woman any age who is a player ? the exact same I think of any man any age who is a player !.They arent worth time or effort , I can do better things then boost their poor ego levels.
I think you have issues you need to deal with this obsession is NOT healthy. Change your dance club and start a life away from this player or continue to stay where you are and be obsessed.
Did that finally answer your question the way you wanted it answered ?.
2007-08-21 18:50:54 · answer #3 · answered by JadeyOz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What exactly are you saying? You feel that if you say to an "older" female that you like her, she should feel lucky, and just stop life and be happy with you? Whats age got to do with anything? Nothing! Men and woman will play these games till the end of time, I guess you will just have to deal with it, and mature! I know it doesn't feel good, but life isn't fair-is it? Good luck!!!
2007-08-21 18:55:05 · answer #4 · answered by sue d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are keeping their options open and hoping someone better will come along. Obvious they have some interest but are the type of woman that is looking for the best victim to prey on. They are usually gold diggers and just into playing games. Tell them you're not into games and find someone that is sincere instead.
2007-08-21 18:42:52 · answer #5 · answered by ♥♥♥MiSSY♥♥♥ 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
I think she is not taking you seriously. Like you said, she is only playing a game.
2007-08-21 18:44:41 · answer #6 · answered by Belen 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
what?
2007-08-21 18:41:01 · answer #7 · answered by Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋