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I have a boyfriend whom I have now dated for 2yrs. Last year around the Christmas holidays he cheated on me with his ex-girlfriend ( while I was sick in bed). By some miraculous miracle , I took him back ( don't ask me why). Things are ok now but I am working on gaining his trust back. He has really tried to be honest and more open with me. However, I am now overly paranoid and still insecure about the whole issue. Its driving me insane. It seems almost impossible for me to be happy again...
How do I deal with this if I want this relationship to work?
What are some things he or I can do to work through this?
Should I break up with him? How?

Thanks so much for the help.

2007-08-21 18:12:13 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 23 have 3 kids ages 3,2 and 1 month i know i am not a very good mom staying with sister 2 friends and my so called b f who is not working now he is mexican much older then me 14 yrs to be specific..i love my kids but hate my life been drinking to drown the pain..am in love with my youngest babys dad and he is in another town and for reasons that take long to explain i cant be with him now......I would go with him in a heart beat if i did not have kids or we had place 2 stay.....I feel like dying and cry all the time and drink too much dont know what 2 do dont see things getting any better any time in the future want to die please any one have advice please ...

2007-08-21 18:10:23 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i'm only 15... and i really want to have sex, but i don't want to lose it until i get married... what should i do?

2007-08-21 18:03:48 · 49 answers · asked by thischick 2 in Singles & Dating

ok heres the deal a girl that i rly like is a 50% chance of moving and i dont think ill ever meet some1 as fantastic as her

anyway she starts to tell me that i would miss her and id forget about her and stuff is this a girl trick to see if i care about her? and how do i break my fellings to her?

2007-08-21 18:01:51 · 9 answers · asked by a dumb idiot 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been dating this guy, who so far has been a total jerk, for about 16 months now & he tells me around 9:00 pm, "I am going to get the car looked at, over at my friend's shop...I will be back in an hour & a half.", and now it is midnight & I haven't received one call as to his where abouts, he has the only car we have & I have to work tomorrow...right now I am stranded at my dad's....no one can take me home....he doesn't have a cell phone....I know his "friend" has got to have a phone....I feel so ....I don't even know the word....I am very upset & I guess I just needed to vent....Everytime this happens I want to leave him but then I tell myself, You work to pay the rent & if you leave him....who's gonna pay the rest of the bills? Who's wrong here?

2007-08-21 18:01:36 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Or would you like your own room? Or the couch?

2007-08-21 18:01:24 · 22 answers · asked by Wendy B 5 in Marriage & Divorce

what do you do when you know your boyfriend is not treating you the way your suppose to be treated but you still want to stay with him because you feel like there's still something there.....

2007-08-21 17:59:08 · 28 answers · asked by lost in love . 1 in Singles & Dating

so i am dating this two guys who are both really nice except one is sentive and the other is the bad boy and i really cant chosse but i am kind of liking the bad boy type then the senstive what would u chosse?!?!

2007-08-21 17:57:14 · 4 answers · asked by julia p 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i really dont understand how people can even have the nerve to say "i've loved him for 3 years blah blah blah and he doesn't even notice me!" it's like okay? you dont LOVE him-you haven't even kissed/hugged most likely..why would you tell me you're in love with him when you guys are just friends? that confuses me. i mean i have a major major crush on this guy for a year now..just everything about him, the way he looks at me, his body, his face, his mind..everything about him just blows me away..but i'd never say i loved him..because we haven't even kissed! (i think hes begining to like me now but thats besides the point) i mean i just really dont understand it. i guess i'm old fashioned and wouldn't even say it was REAL love if the person that you're in "love" with didn't love you back either. what do you guys think about people like this?

2007-08-21 17:54:48 · 8 answers · asked by Jay babe 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-21 17:53:34 · 20 answers · asked by Plucker 2 in Singles & Dating

My close friend- Cari Carpenter told me this on Wednesday- You are a friend to me not an associate.. You are fun to be around. We like to eat.. We like to have challenges like w bowling and basketball.

But, she needs to realize, I'm a person who 01) is diagnosed with a disorder that saids- "inability to interact socially in general", 02) doesn't like to be around those that I don't know or feel comfortable; 03) wants to move back to Maryland & get away from all the HELL I'm dealing with in Virginia & 04) I'm getting a headache, of dealing with my the system of RACSB (Rappahannock Ara Community Services) & my case manager & some other budding into my personal 411 (which makes me want to start a new war- MORTAL KOMBAT 10).

So, I'm saving my $$$, the more I get , the better chance of me leaving Virginia and saying goodbye to those I won't call, write or email.

Last, I don't feel like doing this challenge, with my advocate of being more positive. It just not me at all.

2007-08-21 17:53:03 · 3 answers · asked by ? 2 in Friends

He did this in front of a lot of people at a family party. I didn't think it was funny, as another person standing with me is a breast cancer survivor. We were both upset and yelled at him. I went to another area of the party and stayed away from him the rest of the night. He went to other people and told them that I was just being a b---- and can't understand how his son could stay married to a f------ cu--! (We've been married 17years!) He also told this to my husband and in front of my kids (ages 15 and 11)! What should I say if he starts talking like this again? I try to stay away from him as much as possible because of his vulgar language but have to see him at family gatherings.

2007-08-21 17:49:00 · 34 answers · asked by DoubleDMom 3 in Family

Guys, if you are in a relationship and you really love your gf but you know that you are not the type who will ever make a commitment for the long term, would you leave her now better than later. My bf and I are really great together, I love him so much but he says that coz he loves me, he doesnt wanna hurt me because the more we are together the more I love him everyday. He would be ok if we break up now or after 10 years but he knows that Im the one who will be dead for that. Whenever we talk about this I start crying and he freaks out when I cry coz it breaks his heart so we end up pending the issue. I don't want commitment now but sure I will want to have a family one day. He will never want that coz simply he doesnt care, I know he is very selfish but I really love him. I don't know if I should leave him now? how can I be friends with the only man I really loved, he wants us to be friends if we broke up but isnt this too much?

2007-08-21 17:47:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A scenario were "we just fall out of love".

Many situations in were a couple is married but either person fall out of love.

Thoughts on the subject.

2007-08-21 17:46:42 · 14 answers · asked by jane 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my girl friend has got large breasts which are extremely loose, and with lots of shrink and wrinkles. she has got lots of stretch marks in and around her breasts. her nipples and surrounding area are also with full of wrinkles. she shows much much interest in sex and handles very well with my guy. i really get a feeling she s a worn out thing.i am in a serious date with her and planning to marry.but her few other activities shows she wanna marry me as earlier as possible and wanna be safe.i am much confused as she tells a lot of lies as well...can any one suggest. please.. as its my life problem

2007-08-21 17:45:55 · 10 answers · asked by stud 1 in Marriage & Divorce

So my Mom will be moving to Florida in a few weeks. A few week ago she said that once the closing on her house was final she wanted to give me 500.00. nice right?
Well today she calls and says that she want me to use the 500.00 on me. Nice right?
Then she says to me "you need to get better fitting bras with some lift . And you need to get a proffesional facial. The last I saw you your pores were so large. You always had such beautiful skin" Which is not true. I have noticed that my Mom is loosing it. Should I let it go? My mom is also a very insulting person that always comments on how people look and dress. She never wanted her bday acknowleged because she was in fear of getting old. She has also has a few plastic surgery's to turn back the clock...
What are you thought's or comments?.

2007-08-21 17:44:02 · 12 answers · asked by annynoumous 2 in Singles & Dating

im 15 and is it wrong to think this way? I dont have time for movies, going out and all that other BS

2007-08-21 17:43:35 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been dating for over 3 years. Our relationship is great, we have never had a fight, we have been living together for 2 years. I feel as if it is time to get married, however he is terrified!! He saw his mom go through several marriages and divorces and he says he doesnt want to get married. I don't know how to make him more comfortable about the situation. I don't really bring it up often, but he is 25 years old and I think he is a bit old to be scared of commitment. What should I do?

2007-08-21 17:39:07 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I had an affair on my husband about 16 months ago!
I thought I was in love with the o/man he just wanted the sex!
My husband found us out an o/man jumped ship and begged my husband not to tell his wife witch he did anyway, their divorced now and he now lives in Montreal with another married woman to boot!

My husband threw me out but a lot of pleading a begging from me he let gave me another chance. The problem is in the 14 months we been back together he wont have sex with me, he even sleeps in another room on the far side of house.

I WAS WRONG FOR WHAT I DID AND FOR HURTING HIM, but now I'm hurting I go to bed along get up alone last 2 weeks my husband said about 6 words to me all week long!

I asked him if he wants to get a divorce and he said he still in to much pain and would make a rash choice if I pushed him.

I love him I just can't believe he would throw 12 years of marriage away for my stupid actions!
What else can I do, I miss, and love him so much?

2007-08-21 17:38:16 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

she just started to go to na meeting, she saids he is no longer her brother and has no neice or nephew! she also has three children and they live with me! she comes in the day to watch them while i work and then most of the time goes to her boyfriends. please help !!!!!!!!!

2007-08-21 17:37:27 · 4 answers · asked by DEBRA R 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I eloped and my husband and I are having a wedding picnic at my parents on September 15. My sister recently moved in with her loser boyfriend. No one in my family likes him at all. He has a 4 yr old that he is pretty much a deadbeat dad to. He works only when he wants to. He lost his license years ago and is eligible to get it back but instead is too lazy to simply go take the test. Instead he lets my sister chauffer him around. He is mean to my sister, possessive and its been rumored that he has hit previous girlfriends. I love my sister and she knows I am not fond of him and when she asked, I recommended that she not move in with him. I am friendly to him and try to treat her like the adult she is and let her make her own decision. My entire family hates this guy. I don't want an uncomfortable sitation on a happy day and I don't want to anger my sister. I am torn. Do I tell her he's not welcome and risk pushing her away from me?

2007-08-21 17:36:27 · 5 answers · asked by brakes_pegs_lucky 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

He moved out because I called the cops on him for putting a chokehold on our son (15 yr old). He should have apologized and committed to anger therapy instead of trying to make me feel guilty. I just wanted to project our son. He makes me sick. Plus he's such a porn freak! Why does he want to divorce me? I should be divorcing him!

2007-08-21 17:33:57 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

4 to 5 hours. Is this friendship or was he trying to develop a relationship? He has been divorced for two years. It was very frustrating because I never knew where I stood! What do you think? He has never dated since his divorce and he has no one in his life except his daughter that he has everyother weekend. He is always worried about money and says that his life is boring. Yet he won't go anywhere. I asked him to join my friends and I at their lake house and that never got off the ground. I know he likes me, he confides in me, but he is very nervous............what do you think. Four to five hour phone calls? Does any guy do that?

2007-08-21 17:32:45 · 4 answers · asked by SMITHYSNUFF 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I could deal with it before, but now its not what i want at all. How do i tell him that he needs to stop acting this way, that he will seriously take in what i have to say?

2007-08-21 17:28:51 · 38 answers · asked by mimi_sweethart 2 in Singles & Dating

Met this guy through a friend for a brief moment. We were both attracted to each other but nothing happened. He lives a few hours away. I was visiting a friend who lived with her boyfriend away from home and he stopped by the day I was there visiting. Four years later, haven't seen him since, our mutual friends plan their wedding and ask us both to be part of it and we both said yes. He asked my friend the bride to ask me to be his date, I said yes then a few days before the wedding he asks his friend the groom, if he can bring a date which then left me dateless. At the wedding I could tell he felt horrible for doing that and wants me to know that he likes me and has since he met me. He hasn't had a chance to apologize to me personally but he cowardly is doing it through the bride and groom for him. What should I do. I am attracted to him but don't think he deserves me after what he did. He hurt my feelings. (oh and his date was ugly- had to add that

2007-08-21 17:28:47 · 44 answers · asked by shortgirl 1 in Weddings

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ive decided i wanted to be a vegan and all my friends are making fun of me and such.

but my family is supporting me, so should i ignore my friends? or are they right?

2007-08-21 17:26:47 · 5 answers · asked by Meeesh 2 in Singles & Dating

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