My close friend- Cari Carpenter told me this on Wednesday- You are a friend to me not an associate.. You are fun to be around. We like to eat.. We like to have challenges like w bowling and basketball.
But, she needs to realize, I'm a person who 01) is diagnosed with a disorder that saids- "inability to interact socially in general", 02) doesn't like to be around those that I don't know or feel comfortable; 03) wants to move back to Maryland & get away from all the HELL I'm dealing with in Virginia & 04) I'm getting a headache, of dealing with my the system of RACSB (Rappahannock Ara Community Services) & my case manager & some other budding into my personal 411 (which makes me want to start a new war- MORTAL KOMBAT 10).
So, I'm saving my $$$, the more I get , the better chance of me leaving Virginia and saying goodbye to those I won't call, write or email.
Last, I don't feel like doing this challenge, with my advocate of being more positive. It just not me at all.
2007-08-21 17:53:03 · 3 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
The first thing you said was "my close friend" It sounds to me like she is a friend, and she feels that you are a friend.. why would you want to stop that? Honestly its nice to have someone to call once in awhile and talk about the crap that is going on in your life.. but as time goes.. it will probably drift apart anyways.. but its nice to know that you have those friends out there.
2007-08-21 17:58:29 · answer #1 · answered by neverdugdisco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be honest with everyone including yourself and move on if you are truly this miserable. Just remember misery loves company and money should not stop your mental survival and happiness.
2007-08-22 00:57:52 · answer #2 · answered by Cindy Roo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you appreciate it, but that you plan to leave town as soon as possible and are avoiding getting too close to anyone at present. I sure hope that you are still in therapy!!!
2007-08-22 01:00:08 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋