Family & Relationships - 21 August 2007

Everytime i am engaging in conversation with my mother and my brother walks in the room, it's as if god himself has graced us with his presence. now we all live in the same apartment, so i'm not talking he just arrived from New York or something. it hasn't failed, every single time, she ignores what i'm speaking with her about and looks over at him and starts talking. is this normal? are mothers supposed to be this rude, just because their precious baby boy walks in. he's 21 mind you. oh and don't get me wrong i'm not like mom you like him better then me. it's just kind of rude and annoying.

2007-08-21 14:58:59 · 4 answers · asked by Deb M 3 in Family

When I lost my virginity, I was in my Sophomore year in collede & trusted a so-called "friend", & she went & made a big issue about it & overexaggerated the situation, telling everyone I was raped, when it was 100% consentual. Also, they called the police & took me to the hospital. She called me nasty & said I was naive about the situation. & then it was publicized in the school newspaper. I felt so embarrassed that I had to resign for the rest of the semester & transfer to another university.

& the doctor at the hospital gave me a pap smear & he acted like he was upset with me & said, "You know, for everyone you sleep with, you've slept with everyone they've slept with for the past 10 yrs." But if it was my 1st time, how does that make me a whore?

2007-08-21 14:58:14 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She says she want a divorce. I told her I would not ask her if this is really what she wants because I don't think she can answer that. So I asked if it is really what she has decided to do even if she doesn't know if it what she wants. Now she wants time to figure it out before making that step. She wants me to behave as a room mate and not a husband until then. How long do I give her to make this decision before I make it for her? I know that's not a lot of information to go on.

2007-08-21 14:57:14 · 18 answers · asked by Rick 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Just curious because that's what I'm doing now, I decided to go date and guy free last week and now I can't seem to keep them away from me. It's a little confusing so what's up with this?

2007-08-21 14:54:16 · 1 answers · asked by jamie kat 6 in Singles & Dating

Do you think dating for one year then living together for one year is smart before getting married? Also, when living together is it more respectful when you both are already engaged? What are your thoughts? Thank you~

2007-08-21 14:54:07 · 24 answers · asked by HotJewels 3 in Weddings

a 20yr old, who still gets told what to do by a parent, not allowed to go out and hang with friends, and also if they want to go out its a problem?....could the parent be overprotective or what?

2007-08-21 14:54:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Today at school I was talking to my best friend I've known for like ever. So now she has a boyfriend and he smokes. Then she told me that she smokes. When she told me that I just died inside because I thought she would never smoke. But she said her and her boyfriend have to quit. The only people that know is me and her. I don't want to tell my parents or hers or else she'll be so mad at me and I don't wanna lose my best friend. When I hear stuff like this I won't get over it for a really long time. So what should I do!? Please help me!!!

2007-08-21 14:46:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

If we have ushers (not the groomsmen) to assist in seating guests, are they put in the processional?

2007-08-21 14:45:33 · 10 answers · asked by Josh 2 in Weddings

If I believe that myself and my infant child staying in the house with my husband who has recently shown himself to be unstable (not yet diagnosed, though) is not in the best interest of our baby, is it OK for me to move her with me to a safe environment which is in another state even if he is demanding I bring her back? There is no court order involved. I simply brought her with me to my family's house. Is there anything legally wrong with me having her here? I said he can come see her here while my family is here and he said he's going to. Does anything protect me from him just running away with her while he's here? Please help?!

Also, he denies that anything he did actually happened, so I have no "proof."

2007-08-21 14:43:43 · 8 answers · asked by Ineedanswers 1 in Marriage & Divorce

The wedding decorations will be white and silver.

2007-08-21 14:43:25 · 19 answers · asked by decorandotuvida 1 in Weddings

Do you have any suggestions that might be encouraging for her during this difficult time? We want her to feel her worth.

2007-08-21 14:42:30 · 5 answers · asked by USAloyal 1 in Marriage & Divorce

She said something to me. I froze up and said something dumb, I couldnt even look her in the eye when i said it. So I think she might of though i was ignoring her. (I did blush though when she asked me the ?). After that the whole day i would catch her looking at me and she would turn away fast. What do you guys think she thinks of my nervous breakdown when she asked me the ? Does she get the idea i like her or is she upset with me

18 we both know each other but not well. I really didnt mean to I just kind of froze up the last thing i want to do is hurt her

2007-08-21 14:39:04 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

why do some people make such a big deal of sleeping naked, ppl tell me its wrong, and i shouldnt do it? what do you think? ots my bed right? xx

2007-08-21 14:36:26 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

his mom lives like 20 miles away from the school so y did he came back to MY school wen there is a couple streets down his moms house?
if you want the whole story:::
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AjWauos0uTsEVIwu73MgbBfsy6IX?qid=20070821174800AA5wxje

2007-08-21 14:33:17 · 1 answers · asked by brownlocadia 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-21 14:30:49 · 25 answers · asked by Mckenzie M 1 in Family

2007-08-21 14:30:41 · 14 answers · asked by cidyah 7 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-21 14:28:36 · 1 answers · asked by kat 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am serious. My guy is fanatical about NOT getting married, how do i get him to change his mind and in what suttle ways can i do or say things to persuade him to get over hiscommitmentphobia

2007-08-21 14:26:37 · 20 answers · asked by jen mcg 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-21 14:24:26 · 19 answers · asked by pinkcutie 1 in Family

I am a young female with 2 kids, a nice husband, and a good job.My inlaws come to visit us every year for about 5 months. Now they are taking care of my kids. We have a very small two bedroom apartments. I cook and clean everyday. I get up at 5:00AM cook food, clean vessels and then go to work, get back in the evening, take care of kids, I also take care of my kid at night (still breastfeeding). My hubby shares work 2. My job is extremely demanding too. At home, I am not a warm person. I talk to my mom-in-law ok. But my relationship with my father in law is really bad. He is always angry. In the past he has talked really bad about me. He does not continue that now, but doesn't even smile at me. My husband and I fight over all this everyday. He feels I am the problem and I should talk more and keep them happy. But I feel suffocated and need some space. I prefer kid go to daycare (we can afford). Am I a problem monger? With stress at work and home i go crazy.Give me your unbiased opini

2007-08-21 14:24:19 · 12 answers · asked by NetWoman 2 in Family

what dose it mean when your ex"s calls you and talks to you he said he got what i send him but i did that a while back it was a note to say sorry about my family they told him to stay away from me because they said he was trying to use me and was leading me on he told them i was grown and could talk to him if i wanted to they told him i had to do what they say i am 30years old was 29 when this happened what do you think that means he called me tonight and he said i could call when ever i wanted to and i told him same thing even throw my mom heats him just because he lied to me but i forgave him for that my mom liked him at frist until he lied to me help please dose it mean anything do you think he may want me back i sure would take him back thanks tell me the truth now please.i have tryed to get over him but i miss him alot we had alot in commed and i was happy with him could not wait for him to come around he wanted me to go to his house my mom said no because i did not know him well

2007-08-21 14:23:22 · 4 answers · asked by betty m 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-21 14:20:24 · 19 answers · asked by linz 4 in Friends

We were together a year. he seems fine without me..even heard hes already talking to someone else...its only been 3 weeks. One day he told me how much he loved me and how he couldnt wait to move in together...the next he says he doesnt and doesnt want to me with me anymore. How do u usually cope after a breakup? ITs getting pretty unbearable at times,
I think I need to see a therapist? Would that help?

2007-08-21 14:18:25 · 24 answers · asked by mimi 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I love someone so much, but they claim they dont love me. But its obvious they do because of how they talk and how they say they love me. They believe they are fooling themselves. They have a crush on someone else, but i want to be with them. Im lost confused and feel so very alone. What do i do? I believe you can only love once, and i cant move on. Im lost. Please Help!

2007-08-21 14:17:56 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-21 14:17:45 · 3 answers · asked by sarah 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-21 14:17:36 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

so what would you do if you heard your parents doing it ??? would you ask them to keep it down or something and how would you ask them if yes?

2007-08-21 14:17:09 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

my friends tell me that i cant flirt. the way i flirt is just talking to the guy and like laugh at his jokes, and smile and stuff like that. my friends tell me that i make it to obviouse that i like the guy. but i really dont kno any other way to flirt! so pllllzzzzz help me out!!

2007-08-21 14:14:37 · 6 answers · asked by chocochic101 1 in Singles & Dating

my mom was diagnosed with thyroid/pappilary cancer on friday. i am 13 and my little brother is 9. he is Autistic and also has ADHD. my mom is a single parent and she has had this cancer for 12 years apparently, but because it is so rare, no one thought it was cancer. so i am so scared that she will die. what are the chances of her living. she starts radiation on September 1st. and before you give negative answers, so you know, my mom is the strongest woman you will ever meet. she is tough, and is ready to take this on... but i hear her cry. she is 39, he B-day was on August 9. my dad died on December 24th, 1998 at the age of 30. i need my mom. she is all i have. please, if you have any help on the topic.. tell me. be brutily honest.. just tell me. thank you all....
~Dominique

2007-08-21 14:13:42 · 27 answers · asked by Falling for you... 2 in Family

alright. I have just starting working full time again, I work 12 hour mid shifts and am picking OT as much as possible. my check this friday will be for 107 hours!

MY husband will not cook food, will not go to the grocery store, will not help with house work. I do it ALL.

I get so angry! On my days off I have to clean the house, do the grocery shopping, plan a weeks worth of meals and prepare them BEFORE I go to work. I do the laundry.. and if I throw the dry clothes on the bed and ask him to fold them... he "forgets" and piles the now heavily wrinkled unfolded clothes on the dresser.

We have only had sex 5 times since September 05! (and that was a chore too)

I get tired of pulling as much work or MORE outside of the house, and being expected to do it all at home too.

Does any other women put up with this?

We dont do anything together anymore, we dont even go see the same movies.

I know hes not cheating, hes always at home.
I am lonely in my marriage

2007-08-21 14:12:09 · 22 answers · asked by grapelady911 5 in Marriage & Divorce